We've met a lot of "interesting" people over the years. Definitely a few narcissists and a borderline sociopath or two. No psychotic maniac killers (that we know of). More than a few peeps who are on some major mood altering meds (and not the fun kind). So does swinging pretty much represent a cross section of American society or all we all a little bit nuts? And no fair judging our sanity (or lack thereof) on the content of our profile! 
Don't know. But to be here you have to be different.
Have met a few, one in particular got us a bit concerned. I just cant get interested when a woman starts brandishing sharp objects (knife)!, and talking about weird things... and, boy,, did she talk,,,! Mostly though, we have met people who seem to not have the first clue about this lifestyle,, or life itself, for that matter.
OK so we're not overly qualified to answer, as we're quite new and haven't gotten to know anybody very well yet at all, but I do have some observations to add.
Are we all nuts? NO. some are, some aren't. Many "normal" folks may think we're abnormal, crazy even. I mean, we don't exactly run around telling everybody we like to see our spouses pleasured by others, that isn't a very "Christian" or "normal" thing in society's eyes. It doesn't make us crazy.
Adventurous? YES Thrillseekers? YES Different? YES Insane? NO
Case in point: It's my observation that most swingers ride motorcycles. That puts them definitely in the first 2 categories. There are a ton more Bikers that are completely Vanilla and totally sane, some may say "Different" because riding isn't everybody's thing. (We're scared to death of riding, and probably never will know the serenity and enjoyment it brings most.)
As far as meds go, remember this is the Zanax capitol of the world right here in the land of Zion. Not to mention the number of swinging active LDS members, other church-goers, retirees, well-paid professionals, business owners, and hard working blue collar folk. So the cross-section of society really is still there. Obviously by profiles you will find different strokes for different folks in the sexuality department, and on a Vanilla dating site, you get the same. We have members here who are octogenarians, and others who are barely old enough to get into clubs.
Crazies? sure you bet, there has to be. Just as with everything else, a certain percentage of any group will be a beer or two short of a sixer. I think that's why many here are hesitant, if not reluctant to entertain the thought of a hook-up with somebody they know from the web, but haven't met in real life. We definitely fall in that category ourselves. How many booty calls really get answered? Alot of times your mailbox gets stuffed with candor, friend request, and maybe a few cell #'s, but when the brass tacks fall, they end up lying there.
It's good to know that Evildoers hasn't ever feared for their lives, with their experiences over the years. The few couples we have met with one-on-one have seemed completely normal, honest, and respectful, regardless of whether or not they (or we) felt any attraction sexually. So I guess we're doing OK, and we're both excited to meet new people as often as we can.
That said, I'm going to take my meds and get some shut-eye
~Torque
Are we all nuts? NO. some are, some aren't. Many "normal" folks may think we're abnormal, crazy even. I mean, we don't exactly run around telling everybody we like to see our spouses pleasured by others, that isn't a very "Christian" or "normal" thing in society's eyes. It doesn't make us crazy.
Adventurous? YES Thrillseekers? YES Different? YES Insane? NO
Case in point: It's my observation that most swingers ride motorcycles. That puts them definitely in the first 2 categories. There are a ton more Bikers that are completely Vanilla and totally sane, some may say "Different" because riding isn't everybody's thing. (We're scared to death of riding, and probably never will know the serenity and enjoyment it brings most.)
As far as meds go, remember this is the Zanax capitol of the world right here in the land of Zion. Not to mention the number of swinging active LDS members, other church-goers, retirees, well-paid professionals, business owners, and hard working blue collar folk. So the cross-section of society really is still there. Obviously by profiles you will find different strokes for different folks in the sexuality department, and on a Vanilla dating site, you get the same. We have members here who are octogenarians, and others who are barely old enough to get into clubs.
Crazies? sure you bet, there has to be. Just as with everything else, a certain percentage of any group will be a beer or two short of a sixer. I think that's why many here are hesitant, if not reluctant to entertain the thought of a hook-up with somebody they know from the web, but haven't met in real life. We definitely fall in that category ourselves. How many booty calls really get answered? Alot of times your mailbox gets stuffed with candor, friend request, and maybe a few cell #'s, but when the brass tacks fall, they end up lying there.
It's good to know that Evildoers hasn't ever feared for their lives, with their experiences over the years. The few couples we have met with one-on-one have seemed completely normal, honest, and respectful, regardless of whether or not they (or we) felt any attraction sexually. So I guess we're doing OK, and we're both excited to meet new people as often as we can.
That said, I'm going to take my meds and get some shut-eye
~Torque
Red Neck Country folks....getting down on the farm!!! Ya definitely something like that!
CrAzY iS aS cRaZy DoEs!
CrAzY iS aS cRaZy DoEs!
I know of a few crazy people here, some you want to slowly walk away from, but boy do I know one Krazygirl, and she can be a fun one for sure. You just better put on some silicone gloves so you can hang on, she can be a little slippery devil at times.lol
Lmao!!! we're all a little bit crazy that's what makes it so much fun.Life's Too Short why not make the best of it!!! when I was first introduced to the lifestyle, my girlfriends, friends would call me the normal guy. ....."so how you doing with the normal guy? " they would say.today I feel more normal than I have my whole life!!! Hahaha
yes she is a single female on here with redhair.... watch out when she is off her meds...
Yes, my husband. He is crazy for hot girls.