you keep using that word (drama free) and I dont think it means what you think it means.
When you say your Drama free it means that when People tell you they aren't interested that you just LEAVE them alone. so quit messaging and drop it, for whatever reason we didn't click, and that SHOULD be ok...
I shouldn't have to give you reasons, but I did. as im sure other people have too...
be it age, or preference or your Grammar and Spelling bug the crap out of me. it shouldn't matter.
does anyone else have to deal with this? is there an admin we can talk to because I know of one user specifically who has pushed me and quite a few of my friends way more then they should have and frankly more then I feel like putting up with.
When you say your Drama free it means that when People tell you they aren't interested that you just LEAVE them alone. so quit messaging and drop it, for whatever reason we didn't click, and that SHOULD be ok...
I shouldn't have to give you reasons, but I did. as im sure other people have too...
be it age, or preference or your Grammar and Spelling bug the crap out of me. it shouldn't matter.
does anyone else have to deal with this? is there an admin we can talk to because I know of one user specifically who has pushed me and quite a few of my friends way more then they should have and frankly more then I feel like putting up with.
If you open up the message, I think there is a "block" option listed along with the other options such as reply, etc.
we thought we would get along just fine and gave out phone numbers/....... now that things have gone down hill..... I just feel harassed. and NOT in a good way LOL I know I could call my phone company and block them but still..... im just curious who else has dealt with this?
and more annoying their page says Hey were Drama free..... no your not. lol you lie. but I guess lots of people lie. be I their hair color, weight size, sexual preference.... interesting.
and more annoying their page says Hey were Drama free..... no your not. lol you lie. but I guess lots of people lie. be I their hair color, weight size, sexual preference.... interesting.
Ridethehunt we totally agree.. that word is thrown around all over the site. . It means nothing anymore. And into3sums you sexy things, we thought you liked us.. geez!! 
A cheap pay-as-you-go cell phone can be a great tool for insulating yourself from people who turn out to be other than you had expected.
Wow that sucks you've run into that but it doesn't surprise me. So many different people and different tastes that surely we will all eventually run into somebody that clashes even if we try to be nice they just won't get it! To us drama free could also mean that we as a couple are secure and trust each other and know how to have fun with people without having a bunch of hidden issues that begin to surface once things get naughty. ...
Yeah, usually the profiles most loudly declaring they are drama free are anything but. 
INTO3SUMS wrote:
even if you block them, they can still I/M you.. we don't like that at all.
Wow...then I'm not sure what "block" means in that case, haha.
Sorry OP. Guess you'll have to contact admin then.
Good luck. Too bad folks can't just move on if a disagreement arises.
I agree with Sexyriders, I always saw "drama free" as a statement that they won't freak out on anyone during sexy time (assuming all pre established boundaries are adhered to). I never expected drama free to be a declaration of their high maturity level.
Hope you find a way to block them and move on.
I always thought drama free meant I didn't watch CSI or Game of Thrones and stuck strictly to How I Met Your Mother, Big Bang Theory (That's a swinger show right?) and the like. Oh SAMSONITE! I was WAY off.
ANDRAYWAY_SHANAYNAY wrote:
We love drama, it is thoroughly entertaining
It has to be the right kind of drama though. Shakespearean drama, fine. Sci fi drama, great. High School drama. Nope nope.
I believe if you have a smart phone you can block their number from getting through. Of course they could always call from another phone in which case you may have to get a restraining order or resort to violence and beat the snot out of the offender.
For phone contacts, get a Pinger account. It's free to text, anyone, and free to receive calls. NEVER give out your primary phone number to anyone you wouldn't sleep with...oops, that's how you got into that mess. Hmmm, maybe just to family members then?
Drama Free. All the drama, no extra charge!
Drama Free. All the drama, no extra charge!
RIDETHEHUNT wrote:
we thought we would get along just fine and gave out phone numbers/....... now that things have gone down hill..... I just feel harassed. and NOT in a good way LOL I know I could call my phone company and block them but still..... im just curious who else has dealt with this?
and more annoying their page says Hey were Drama free..... no your not. lol you lie. but I guess lots of people lie. be I their hair color, weight size, sexual preference.... interesting.
We feel very fortunate not to have had that "drama/junior high" problem. Everybody we've met so far has been very discreet, friendly and we have gotten along extremely well with them, well, at least we think we have, lol. Hope you can get passed this and meet better friends, like us
FWIW, even though you block them on the main site, they can still I/M you... UNLESS you block them in there as well. We have one guy on that list, now if we could just figure out how to block him from viewing our cam for good, it would be like he's not even here
RIDETHEHUNT wrote:
you keep using that word (drama free) and I dont think it means what you think it means.
When you say your Drama free it means that when People tell you they aren't interested that you just LEAVE them alone. so quit messaging and drop it, for whatever reason we didn't click, and that SHOULD be ok...
I shouldn't have to give you reasons, but I did. as im sure other people have too...
be it age, or preference or your Grammar and Spelling bug the crap out of me. it shouldn't matter.
does anyone else have to deal with this? is there an admin we can talk to because I know of one user specifically who has pushed me and quite a few of my friends way more then they should have and frankly more then I feel like putting up with.
From your description, I think we are having the same trouble, and with the same couple... O.O I didn't respond to their messages and emails because they seemed like the types that would not just accept a "not interested" and move on. If it's the same couple that I think it is, it would appear my instincts were correct. Sometimes giving a polite "no thanks" just makes everything worse. Ugh.
Anything you don't like is Drama
We have had a similar problem, Just General chicken-head behavior.
SEXYINSALTLAKE, Drama sorta rhymes with llama.
SEXYINSALTLAKE, Drama sorta rhymes with llama.
Drama can mean many different things to people. We interpret it as jealousy, anger and discontent with the adult activity as it takes place and probably afterward. If you don't trust your significant other and get upset over behavior you have already agreed upon you probably have drama. Our policy, don't judge and don't get upset and just move on.
The only thing we would add to what's already been said is that in our experience almost every single person in swinging is often only a drink or two away from causing drama at most swing encounters or events. Certainly some people are more predisposed to drama be it from their personalities or perhaps they aren't really ready or capable of the dynamics that go into swinging but alcohol and the brain are unpredictable and we've seen the most together, level headed people go batshit crazy after a few too many drinks.
Alpacas are worse. Wait, which is the one they eat? That's the mean one.