Which do You prefer, the more experienced, the newbies or the inbetweenies?
It seems that newbies can be a bit nervous and want to take it slow. It sometimes appears the more experienced want to get with it and have a hard time with patience with the newbies.
Hmmm, maybe the inbetweenies have the best thing going??? What do You think?
It seems that newbies can be a bit nervous and want to take it slow. It sometimes appears the more experienced want to get with it and have a hard time with patience with the newbies.
Hmmm, maybe the inbetweenies have the best thing going??? What do You think?
We love newbees! and experienced! inbetweenies tend to be testing boundaries....
We love them all!
As one of what many refer to as those "dreaded Single males", I might not be in some eyes entitled to a preference...lol.
But I'm one to always chime in, I do enjoy, and prefer the newbies and novice. For several reasons, first I'm very patient, understanding and respect a couple's pace and limits. Often they both think they are so ready as they have talked about while they are in a passionate moment, then when it's time for the rubber to hit the road...somebody,
maybe her ( lots of women fantasize of other men right up til the time he's about to stick it in), lots of guys feel ready or think they will share to double her pleasures and again find that the point of insertion is the "NO wait" moment...Hey, we all have been nervous,
Give them a break, sometimes I just need to caress, give her a nice massage, me licking one nipple him on the other, his hand bumping mine as we caress her inner thighs..but the bottom line is making sure both are ready and give the green light,
So, why not be patient, perhaps wait watch and encourage, be supportive, because in the long run you may end up with two very good friends as well as hot playmates. If not you could only ruin this one encounter for yourself, but you may scare off an otherwise sensaul, adventurous couple who just weren't ready to make the final step, and you sent them running away from ever enjoying, experience and appreciating all that the lifestyle pleasures has to often. sorry for be so long lasting...well at least in this reply...but hope you all ( especially the new and curious ), understand my point of view. May you all couples and singles alike, enjoy all the pleasures you crave, desire and enjoy...and in a safe, sane and ohhh so hot fun manner
Don
Sin City LVNV
But I'm one to always chime in, I do enjoy, and prefer the newbies and novice. For several reasons, first I'm very patient, understanding and respect a couple's pace and limits. Often they both think they are so ready as they have talked about while they are in a passionate moment, then when it's time for the rubber to hit the road...somebody,
maybe her ( lots of women fantasize of other men right up til the time he's about to stick it in), lots of guys feel ready or think they will share to double her pleasures and again find that the point of insertion is the "NO wait" moment...Hey, we all have been nervous,
Give them a break, sometimes I just need to caress, give her a nice massage, me licking one nipple him on the other, his hand bumping mine as we caress her inner thighs..but the bottom line is making sure both are ready and give the green light,
So, why not be patient, perhaps wait watch and encourage, be supportive, because in the long run you may end up with two very good friends as well as hot playmates. If not you could only ruin this one encounter for yourself, but you may scare off an otherwise sensaul, adventurous couple who just weren't ready to make the final step, and you sent them running away from ever enjoying, experience and appreciating all that the lifestyle pleasures has to often. sorry for be so long lasting...well at least in this reply...but hope you all ( especially the new and curious ), understand my point of view. May you all couples and singles alike, enjoy all the pleasures you crave, desire and enjoy...and in a safe, sane and ohhh so hot fun manner
Don
Sin City LVNV
We've connected with all three types along the way. ...heck we're not even sure which level we are. ..lol
like all things in life it really depends on the people involved
UTAH-CPLE-2006 wrote:
like all things in life it really depends on the people involved
Ding, ding, ding, ding... We have a winner.
I'd say we're still pretty new ourselves, however, we don't have a preference. Just want to meet decent, respectful people we click with. 
Great feedback, thanks! I guess it's important to just keep putting one foot in front of the other ~ Sounds as though it's the peeps that make the diff and we've meet some great people !!!
I'm with You ~
EXPERIENCED.
We're at an age where we've done all the teaching, training and breaking in we care to.
We're at an age where we've done all the teaching, training and breaking in we care to.
Just curious, what are the definitions for newbies, inbetweeners, and experienced?
I think the most important thing is to meet couples who are in a fun and secure relationship and know the boundaries they are comfortable with.
After that, it's just a matter of chemistry...experience level is rarely a factor we consider. (Although, I suppose I should note, most would probably consider us newbies, which apparently disqualifies us for some. However, that works, since it's doubtful we would click with anyone with that mindset, so everyone wins!)
I think the most important thing is to meet couples who are in a fun and secure relationship and know the boundaries they are comfortable with.
After that, it's just a matter of chemistry...experience level is rarely a factor we consider. (Although, I suppose I should note, most would probably consider us newbies, which apparently disqualifies us for some. However, that works, since it's doubtful we would click with anyone with that mindset, so everyone wins!)
We are the "newbies"...
Waiting for enlightenment... LOL
Waiting for enlightenment... LOL
Good feedback STARSHELL1212 ,,, and ALL !
Thanks for sharing !