Swingers Forum - how to gain new friends

My girl and I are new to the lifestyle. She's bi and has been in a threesomes before me. But the one thing I see is older couples seem to be happier in this lifestyle. I'm really thinking about have my boys cut so no unwanted babies will happen as a result of us playing around. Oh by the way after we have the baby she wants to have her tubes tide. There aren't any clubs in the area. I've have our profile online for a few months and not making many new friends. Any pointers

This site is heavily skewed towards Utah (because it was founded here) and to Florida. Other sites can be fairly specific to one particular region as well. My advice would be to look for another website that has a lot of members in your area to supplement your Swingular account. If you can't find any there are quite a few people who have had fairly good luck on Craigslist although screening is quite a bit harder and there are more fakes, flakes, and cons to weed through. As for your "boys" I've never really heard anyone reference the vasa deferentia as their "boys" but whatever rocks for ya. Of course you could always just use condoms and that would help prevent crotch cooties as well as unwanted rug rats so win/win.


Alternatively start your own website if there isn't one serving your area and make some moolah while you look for peeps to get your freak on with.