I have to agree 100% with KYLAKECPL, and you wonder why some people have NO SINGLE MALES plastered all over their profile. They may not be mean people, they may just be fed up with people who can't or don't read.
Well said. Without a doubt the majority of single males emails and attitudes ruin it for the few respectfull ones out there.We have enjoyed the lifestyle for number of years and have had lots of hot fun with couples where both mfm and fmf fun where enjoyed in that context .They of course where very hot and although we have also enjoyed the mfm with a single male and would certainly do so again the scarceity of "acceptable" playmates always seems to make it a second choice when looking to play.
We agree with the original post here. Very well said, & by the way, you guys are very sexy! We love it when sexy people say great things! 
- Us
- UsWell have to jump on the band wagon. KY is a sexy couple and their words sure make sense. We have met some nice single men on line but they are few. The jerks ruin it for the rest. We do prefer couples but are also looking to meet singles (both men and women). Guess time will tell which we meet the most of.
Rest assured I don't need help pleasing the wife. But it is sure fun to watch her with someone else. :-)
Rest assured I don't need help pleasing the wife. But it is sure fun to watch her with someone else. :-)
I actually enjoy the single guy bashing!! And I enjoy the single guys that are assholes!!
I'm not an asshole and treat everyone I meet with respect. So, these other assholes that I am lumped in with make me look good!!
So, my advice to all you assholes out there, keep it up. You are doing just fine. Keep sending those crappy e-mails and pissing people off. It will work for ya sometime. LOL
Christian
PS. For those that have misplaced their funny bone, the above paragraph was humor. OK, it was my warped approached to humor but someone has to find it funny!!!)
I'm not an asshole and treat everyone I meet with respect. So, these other assholes that I am lumped in with make me look good!!
So, my advice to all you assholes out there, keep it up. You are doing just fine. Keep sending those crappy e-mails and pissing people off. It will work for ya sometime. LOL
Christian
PS. For those that have misplaced their funny bone, the above paragraph was humor. OK, it was my warped approached to humor but someone has to find it funny!!!
)I watch these threads come and go, people say things and others get their feelings hurt over it.
Let's just get to the bottom of it... Yes there are some people in this lifestyle that appear to have problems with common decency. It doesn't matter whether these people are married, single or married posing as a single.
The fact is a vast blocking of single males is not the answer to the problem.
This site does not have a feature to block single females, nor does it have one for blocking couples. Only single males.
The answer here would be to use the block feature for the individual.
When you receive an email from any member, there is a button that says BLOCK. Use that button to deal with the individual.
While it may be a possibility that 99% of the single males, or those posing as single males, are jerks. There is still that 1% that may actually turn out to be a good friend. After all, isn't friendship the main reason any of us started in this lifestyle?
If you do decide to use the block all single males feature, when you go to contact one, please be so kind as to give them an alternate means of contacting you. There have been a number of times people have contacted me that block single males and get upset when I don't respond... Difficult to respond if they have blocked the very people they are trying to contact.
Let's just get to the bottom of it... Yes there are some people in this lifestyle that appear to have problems with common decency. It doesn't matter whether these people are married, single or married posing as a single.
The fact is a vast blocking of single males is not the answer to the problem.
This site does not have a feature to block single females, nor does it have one for blocking couples. Only single males.
The answer here would be to use the block feature for the individual.
When you receive an email from any member, there is a button that says BLOCK. Use that button to deal with the individual.
While it may be a possibility that 99% of the single males, or those posing as single males, are jerks. There is still that 1% that may actually turn out to be a good friend. After all, isn't friendship the main reason any of us started in this lifestyle?
If you do decide to use the block all single males feature, when you go to contact one, please be so kind as to give them an alternate means of contacting you. There have been a number of times people have contacted me that block single males and get upset when I don't respond... Difficult to respond if they have blocked the very people they are trying to contact.
The "BIGGEST" problem we find is they "CAN'T" read a profile, :! before contacting someone
As a newly single male (3 days into my singlehood) and coming from a swinging cpl I think I have a good perspective on this. When I was part of a couple we only searched for ppl that were looking for couples, as a single man I now search for ppl that are looking for single men....I won't even look at your profile if it doesn't have "single man" as part of what you are looking for. If you are not looking for a single man you might want to take that out of your profile and single guys may stop bothering you. However, I think couples leave that in there so more ppl will see their profile and this is what causes the confusion....So help yourself out and take it out of your profile altogether if you don't want us contacting you.
PS There is some truth that @$$holes will not read so this will not stop them all.....sorry
BTW anyone know how to get your username changed.....sucks have this name since I am no longer part of a cpl
PS There is some truth that @$$holes will not read so this will not stop them all.....sorry
BTW anyone know how to get your username changed.....sucks have this name since I am no longer part of a cpl
First of Valance I have not seen you say anything that would make me think you are a jerk or should be lumped into the other "Single men are Assholes" Group. If it doesnt' pertain to you then don't worry about it. Just know they are talking about some other jerk and asshole. Continue to be a nice guy and you will find there are some couples who would have you join them. :-)
Second it doesn't matter if someone is single or otherwise, an asshole is an asshole. Just respect others and have fun.
Second it doesn't matter if someone is single or otherwise, an asshole is an asshole. Just respect others and have fun.
I will probably open a