We have made our best friends in life style, what better way... Friends with benefits.
We have made some great friends in the lifestyle. Probably our closet friends have come from meeting people on here. You do run into the occasional flakes unfortunately. Don't let that stop you from meeting people. There are a lot of fun like minded people out there that want to have fun and make new friends. Real friends with benefits! 
You will have fun Friday night, Red. We'll look forward to meeting you there.
we have met a lot of people on here and like others some are the best of friends. don't give up.
we have met a lot of people on here and like others some are the best of friends. don't give up.
Truth is that for some on here it is just about sex. Probably more men than women have that attitude but many couples believe that is the path for them. Many of those will state it up front in the profile and let you know where they stand. I think that for most here it is friendship driven.
In the vanilla world it is easy to be friends with just one half of a couple. But I think it is difficult to keep that up when the lifestyle puts up certain expectation of sex between couples. Some turn out to be friends with out benefits but many couples just become acquaintances because there is not a complete foursome matchup for what ever the reason.
Some truths are simple and some are complex. The simple ones here are
In the vanilla world it is easy to be friends with just one half of a couple. But I think it is difficult to keep that up when the lifestyle puts up certain expectation of sex between couples. Some turn out to be friends with out benefits but many couples just become acquaintances because there is not a complete foursome matchup for what ever the reason.
Some truths are simple and some are complex. The simple ones here are
I think a lot of us make friends here. Personally, I've made some very good friends here and look forward to meeting more.
Our best friends come from the lifestyle, We met on AFF and our wedding had an AFF side and a Family side.
TJ
TJ
SIMPLYRED wrote:
I have been in the L.S. less than a year. Met some great people...Is it a good thing to make friends? Or is it just about the sex? How do we weed out those who are fake and just cant be honest at all? I like to be around fun honest people who can be trusted. Is there a wrong or a right in this L.S. with my thought process?
We made a cuple friends but mostly just about the sex for us to enhance our own sex lives if someone is fucked up enough to be our friend we dont ignore them lol
We have meet some really good people at some of the party's we've been to. A couple of them has contacted us since then and some haven't. But we are looking forward to develop lasting friendships with them. For those of you that have not contacted us ( WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR )
We have meet some great people here. Also some bad but mainly nice people who we like to hang out with on nights we can out. We enjoy the friendship the most and if there is a little extra flare we enjoy that a lot.
We've met some folks we really liked, and hoped a friendship would result.
Only to find out we were just a notch on their bedpost.
Only to find out we were just a notch on their bedpost.
For us it has always been about us making friends and the sex and extras have always been a perk to us. We have meet some amazing people along the way and made some lasting friends that will be there for years. Keep your chin up there lots of fun people on here some weirdo for sure just weed thru them and have fun
We meet a couple from Texas in Vegas @ the red rooster had an amazing night with them. Even though we may never see them again they still keep in touch by text just to say hello and wanting to know how we are doing. Now we can all use more friends like that
Just like in the vanilla world, you have to determine what kind of people people are when you meet them. I've met many great folks and often it had little to do with having sex with them, though awfully fun when it did. Usually those that put out the BS show it quickly and simply don't last long in the LS. Just my thoughts on it.
Just don't get COPD.... Caught by Other peoples Drama
Just don't get COPD.... Caught by Other peoples Drama
They don't have to be actual friends (although we are not against having friendships with people we meet in the LS), but we prefer couples be the kind of people that we would see ourselves hanging out with in a vanilla setting.
We've met some very nice people that we would probably never have run across if not in the LS. We aren't here for random, quick hook ups. We would like to genuinely enjoy the person's company we're with. That's just our preference though. There is no wrong way to approach this, I suppose. Just have to take the time to find the people who are on the same page as you.
We've met some very nice people that we would probably never have run across if not in the LS. We aren't here for random, quick hook ups. We would like to genuinely enjoy the person's company we're with. That's just our preference though. There is no wrong way to approach this, I suppose. Just have to take the time to find the people who are on the same page as you.
Well maybe I shouldn't post on this thread, looks like everyone wants friends lol, what happened to just some good ole fashioned fucking.. having chances to play more than once is a good thing too, but our personal lives are fairly busy for regular friends