This is the MR speaking.
I noticed there are a select few people that post 1-2 Booty calls Per day 7 days a week.
And i cant help but ask is that the way to try and get attention to your self?
if someone finds you interesting they will talk to you. But maybe stop flooding the Booty call list with your desperate cry for booty?
I am not trying to be mean but Im pretty sure that is not what its there for.
Mr out!
I noticed there are a select few people that post 1-2 Booty calls Per day 7 days a week.
And i cant help but ask is that the way to try and get attention to your self?
if someone finds you interesting they will talk to you. But maybe stop flooding the Booty call list with your desperate cry for booty?
I am not trying to be mean but Im pretty sure that is not what its there for.
Mr out!
Maybe they just want to anoy the rest of us. I think it is working.
Hey it works for that Budweiser and Doritos companies, I actually bought one of their beers and a bag of their chips the other day.
That 'Flo' chick has convinced me I may want to get a quote on Motorcycle insurance...and I don't even have a motorcycle.
That 'Flo' chick has convinced me I may want to get a quote on Motorcycle insurance...and I don't even have a motorcycle.
We call it the shotgun approach. Spam out generic emails to as many people as possible, post multiple booty calls as often as possible, go to every party, meet and greet and get together and then call an escort if all of the above fail. 
GOODKARMA1211 wrote:
Hey it works for that Budweiser and Doritos companies, I actually bought one of their beers and a bag of their chips the other day.
That 'Flo' chick has convinced me I may want to get a quote on Motorcycle insurance...and I don't even have a motorcycle.
Just an FYI - "Flo" also worked for Wolfram & Hart. Coincidence??
NEW2THISUT wrote:
If the sex was indeed "mind-blowing" wouldn't it be likely their partners would want a repeat performance, thus not having to advertise?
Only if you were the repeat performance...
GOODKARMA1211 wrote:
Hey it works for that Budweiser and Doritos companies, I actually bought one of their beers and a bag of their chips the other day.
That 'Flo' chick has convinced me I may want to get a quote on Motorcycle insurance...and I don't even have a motorcycle.
We also have bought Doritos and bud. But agreed some people are a bit extreme with the booty calls. Talk text email others and get some friends get some fuck buddy's. I bet most of the ads are just for attention. Lame
HERRIMANFUN wrote:GOODKARMA1211 wrote:
Hey it works for that Budweiser and Doritos companies, I actually bought one of their beers and a bag of their chips the other day.
That 'Flo' chick has convinced me I may want to get a quote on Motorcycle insurance...and I don't even have a motorcycle.
We also have bought Doritos and bud. But agreed some people are a bit extreme with the booty calls. Talk text email others and get some friends get some fuck buddy's. I bet most of the ads are just for attention. Lame
I stand erected...I mean corrected!
In all fairness, those repetitive Booty Calls that I have noted usually are trying to point towards an upcoming event.
I like the idea of Hot or Wild Booty Calls, I just haven't been invited to any... :-(
I like the idea of Hot or Wild Booty Calls, I just haven't been invited to any... :-(
Booty calls are a fun, last minute way to get out or get down. We don't have a lot of time to browse profiles, send messages, wait for reply's, set up dates. Sometimes we just want to meet new people and see where it goes. The booty call list is the perfect tool for that. Sometimes it works out and we have a sexy hot night and we found new friends.
2T00MUCH wrote:we have used before too. Just not every day saying the same thing. It is a great tool for a last minute or to set up an event. And we will use again I'm sure of that.
Definitely not saying there isn't a special place for booty call list 
SHADOWINGWHISPERS wrote:
Definitely not saying there isn't a special place for booty call list
Can we put you guys on our booty call list?
Let me mention another thing so many of you seem to not understand. Many of us here can't just throw a note up in the booty call section, and then sift through the dozens of emails of folks wanting to come jump our bones, trying to find just the perfect match. If you can, great..we're a bit envious...
Most of the times that we have posted a booty call, we get NO response. This happens so often, we seldom waste our evening "waiting for the call to come", anymore. But..if we really are trying to hookup...it works best to get the notice up a few days ahead of time...and...since so many look only at the day of the booty call...notice is posted on tue,wed, thurs, etc, for a later booty call.
Sorta like fishing...I guess...some of us have to drown a lot of worms before we catch a fish.
Most of the times that we have posted a booty call, we get NO response. This happens so often, we seldom waste our evening "waiting for the call to come", anymore. But..if we really are trying to hookup...it works best to get the notice up a few days ahead of time...and...since so many look only at the day of the booty call...notice is posted on tue,wed, thurs, etc, for a later booty call.
Sorta like fishing...I guess...some of us have to drown a lot of worms before we catch a fish.
2 too much... where have you been strangers
Tiffnd i think everyone has that problem.. I know we do...
Tiffnd i think everyone has that problem.. I know we do...
We had a whole week of free time we posted nightly just cause we were so excited to finally have the free time from family lol.
Its a rare thing when we get free time to play.
just cause we were so excited to finally have the free time from family lol.Its a rare thing when we get free time to play.
Seriously....
We're supposed to be open minded, swinging people and this site is about as judgmental as anything I have ever seen.
To many booty calls, what does it matter? Is it your booty they're advertising on call? Then STFU!
To many people don't return emails, who cares? Is your ego that bruised that you need a response from everyone you write? If they don't write back, they obviously aren't desiring you. Get over it, move on. Do you respond to every piece of junk mail you get at home? If not, STFU!
Please post pictures of chubby, thick, fat, Reubenesque, or whatever you desire to call it, and some assclown has to post how its gross, if you don't like it, move on and STFU!
Then, today, there's the 'seeking average, 125-130 lb. woman' REALLY? That's average? Where do you live? Playboy mansion? The average American woman weighs 160 lbs, that's a far cry from 130. You don't even know what you want, you want a fantasy girl that likely doesn't exist, but no one is in there bashing them? Why? Oh wait, because you're looking for the same thing, thus the problem with unicorns. Having been in the swinging lifestyle for well over 10 years now, I have NEVER had an issue finding single females to play with. I am not uber sexy, uber hung, uber smooth, or anything else, but open minded and friendly. You should try it some time. Maybe it'll work for you.
Open your minds, close your mouths (or fingers and keyboards) and enjoy life for Christ's (or FSM's) sake.
This is supposed to be fun.
Rant over
We're supposed to be open minded, swinging people and this site is about as judgmental as anything I have ever seen.
To many booty calls, what does it matter? Is it your booty they're advertising on call? Then STFU!
To many people don't return emails, who cares? Is your ego that bruised that you need a response from everyone you write? If they don't write back, they obviously aren't desiring you. Get over it, move on. Do you respond to every piece of junk mail you get at home? If not, STFU!
Please post pictures of chubby, thick, fat, Reubenesque, or whatever you desire to call it, and some assclown has to post how its gross, if you don't like it, move on and STFU!
Then, today, there's the 'seeking average, 125-130 lb. woman' REALLY? That's average? Where do you live? Playboy mansion? The average American woman weighs 160 lbs, that's a far cry from 130. You don't even know what you want, you want a fantasy girl that likely doesn't exist, but no one is in there bashing them? Why? Oh wait, because you're looking for the same thing, thus the problem with unicorns. Having been in the swinging lifestyle for well over 10 years now, I have NEVER had an issue finding single females to play with. I am not uber sexy, uber hung, uber smooth, or anything else, but open minded and friendly. You should try it some time. Maybe it'll work for you.
Open your minds, close your mouths (or fingers and keyboards) and enjoy life for Christ's (or FSM's) sake.
This is supposed to be fun.
Rant over
SHADOWINGWHISPERS wrote:
2 too much... where have you been strangers
Tiffnd i think everyone has that problem.. I know we do...
I'm sure you're right...so many here searching for "just the perfect fantasy" they pass up a lot of fun with just the average folks, here. I do however find it hard to believe you guys would not get much response, wow..ok..we feel better..lol
Did Half of you guys read what i said. There are people who post 2 booty calls a day and 7 days a week
last week i counted 11 Booty calls from 1 person.
all of the comments about what boot calls are for. thanks but no thanks! lol
last week i counted 11 Booty calls from 1 person.
all of the comments about what boot calls are for. thanks but no thanks! lol
I guess it's best to lead by example and STFU.. lolz... but how dare ANYONE HAVE OPINIONS... hahha..
we should all get a long and braid each others hair.. and for every bald person we have wigs..
complaining comment about how people are complaining because they do or do not want something... meh guess it's just another way to show perfection doesn't exists and everyone thinks completely differently.
For those that want to have 14 booty calls a week, should totally change up their picture to make it interesting. (just the mrs. opinion)
TiffnD- well thanks for thinking of the positive side but we all have our hoops to jump through. This is a time game.. make time and it takes time..
Let's go back to having opinions then having opinions about those opinions.. hahha.. HAVE A FANTASTIC SATURDAY!!
we should all get a long and braid each others hair.. and for every bald person we have wigs..
complaining comment about how people are complaining because they do or do not want something... meh guess it's just another way to show perfection doesn't exists and everyone thinks completely differently.
For those that want to have 14 booty calls a week, should totally change up their picture to make it interesting. (just the mrs. opinion)
TiffnD- well thanks for thinking of the positive side but we all have our hoops to jump through. This is a time game.. make time and it takes time..
Let's go back to having opinions then having opinions about those opinions.. hahha.. HAVE A FANTASTIC SATURDAY!!
Actually, I know my first post sounded like it was ok, and a good way to find potential opportunities, but really it does seem kind of strange to be posting everyday...understand it is annoying to read the same booty calls over and over. My thought is, their post(s) really only affects them, and has no real impact on us. We have some good friends that we enjoy time with. Occasionally we like to meet new people mostly just to share some time and create new friendships, but it is not the end of the world not to meet new couples.
We probably don't upgrade and change up our profile like many do, but our advertising approach is more like the kids putting up a sign at their lemonade stand, rather than the Lexus commercials; mostly because we are very comfortable with our life as it is. If we were making a living off of our profile we would probably prune it, and hire someone to make me (Mr. Karma)look good. Maybe even bring in a PR firm to find some power words so everyone would wet themselves reading our profile, but eh...love ya' all. Isn't it great that we are all different? Can you imagine with all the vast diversity and differences in this world, if it was only swingers that were all exactly alike? Yuk!
We probably don't upgrade and change up our profile like many do, but our advertising approach is more like the kids putting up a sign at their lemonade stand, rather than the Lexus commercials; mostly because we are very comfortable with our life as it is. If we were making a living off of our profile we would probably prune it, and hire someone to make me (Mr. Karma)look good. Maybe even bring in a PR firm to find some power words so everyone would wet themselves reading our profile, but eh...love ya' all. Isn't it great that we are all different? Can you imagine with all the vast diversity and differences in this world, if it was only swingers that were all exactly alike? Yuk!
Yeah, the multiple instance on multiple day Booty Calls are annoying. Unless of course they are hooking up more than once a day for multiple days in a row. In which case I would say: Wow.
We use a single Booty Call mostly for when we want a guy to come and help service Mrs. It results in many responses.
We use a single Booty Call mostly for when we want a guy to come and help service Mrs. It results in many responses.
SHADOWINGWHISPERS wrote:
Did Half of you guys read what i said. There are people who post 2 booty calls a day and 7 days a week
last week i counted 11 Booty calls from 1 person.
all of the comments about what boot calls are for. thanks but no thanks! lol
As was pointed out, sometimes someone will post on several days or something that's going to happen once, in hopes that some will see it ahead of time, and they won't have to sort through who knows how many emails all at once. And as t the same one posted more than once on the same day, I wonder is that's the site. I used to wonder why I'd sometimes get the same email twice from someone, until once I wrote someone, the site never indicated it'd been sent, so I did it again, then I saw that email twice in my "sent" box. Could the same thing happen sometimes posting booty calls?
But the true "repeaters", the exact same booty call, supposedly for the date it's posted on, 5 days in a row, sometimes more than once on each day, those are usually just plain silly, so I just move on, no point in bitching about them, they aren't costing me anything.
But I see those most from single guys, and I'd think those probably are the "shotgun" approach. And what's a single guy going to do? Too large a supply, too small a demand, so they have to do something to try to get noticed. Otherwise they won't be. I mean,how many couples, the majority of the people on here, run searches for single guys? And for most of those that do, it tends to be a once in a great while, or even only a one time, thing. ~ Terry
JSTJIM72 wrote:
Seriously....
We're supposed to be open minded, swinging people and this site is about as judgmental as anything I have ever seen.
First, about "rules" and things, and people complaining when someone "breaks" them. In any group of people there are going to be expected ways of behaving and doing things, no matter how open minded the people in the group are. For example, take a group of folks who pride themselves on being "free" and doing what they want to do, the Hells Angels Motorcycle Club. They have a set of bylaws maybe an inch thick, telling members what to do or not do.
Swingers in general are more open minded than most, or they wouldn't be doing this. That's why I like them so much. By being swingers, they automatically have at least one attitude that I really like. But not necessarily all swingers are all that open minded, sometimes it's limited to paying no attention to who society says you should or shouldn't be having sex with. People have their prejudices and expectations regarding others, no matter what they're doing.
This'll sound like my rant, and I suppose to some extent it is. I've never posted a booty call, and I never will. And I've only ever responded to one of them. Why? Because I know it'll be a waste of time because of peoples' assumptions and expectations.
Like you, I'm not uber any of those things, except maybe smooth if you're talking about body hair, which I doubt you are. I'm good looking, not fat, and am probably the most non-judgmental and open minded guy you'll ever run into. Unless someone does or says something just plain mean to or about someone else, then I get pissed off and my normal open mindedness gets kind of lost. But I do have a really big issue finding people, let alone single girls, to play with. Why? because I'm old. And pretty much everyone has all kinds of assumptions about that.
It makes no difference that I don't act, or think, or have any of the attitudes someone "my age" is assumed to have. It doesn't matter that I look, based on what other people think, literally decades (well, 2 of them, that