Was looking through all the friends we had added. Realized over the years we had accumulated a bunch of folks who never communicate with us never online and or never answer back to any messages. Decided to do a little spring cleaning. Any other couples ever do the same thing?
Never have... we have a ton as well... I would say the majority of them don't or haven't communicated much at all after the initial hello... but then again we aren't big on writing much either. Oh well I guess that's what spring cleaning is for... LoL.
Same here, were about to go through ours again, lots of hi, oh nice pics, then nothing, even after inviting a lot to numerous parties...
Nah, no reason to.
Those on our friends list we hope you write we would love to hear from you
We think we've been on the other end of a "spring cleaning". We've looked at profiles of people we swear we were friends with at some point and wondered what happened. I guess we were thrown away 
, oh well we got over it, hehe!
, oh well we got over it, hehe!Who would ever unfriend AANDR!!!! That's just crazy. You guys are the bestest!
XOXO
XOXO
On our profile we state, point blank that if we add you as a friend it's not like facebook, we do want to get together. If we don't hear anything after a couple months except the initial hello, we delete them.
On our profile we state, point blank that if we add you as a friend it's not like facebook, we do want to get together. If we don't hear anything after a couple months except the initial hello, we delete them.
PICKYCOUPLE wrote:
We didn't unfriend you! Even though we don't ever hear from you, but still.
AANDR wrote:
We think we've been on the other end of a "spring cleaning". We've looked at profiles of people we swear we were friends with at some point and wondered what happened. I guess we were thrown away
Thank you for not tossing us out. We need to put more effort in to getting to know our friends especially you guys PICKYCOUPLE
We tend to clean ours out quite often. We would rather have it full of friends then just random people who have never made any attempt to talk to us.
Fuck yeah. If ya don't throw out the old moldy shit it makes the entire fridge stink. 
PALS4FUN wrote:
Nah, no reason to.
Thats because you dont accept any.lol
OMG where have you been. miss your post. We go a while then look at what we have and delete those who never respond to us or back to us. They decide they want to talk later they can always friend us again.
SHADOWINGWHISPERS wrote:
Well I don't know about everyone else but sometimes we disappear from the lifestyle and parties n such for awhile and then we come back... so it's hard to really clean out because we know that people sometimes do other things in their lives and then come back to this as we do... I don't see too much harm is staying friends on here.. just depends.. :P
Exactly, what I was thinking.
Did you say Everclear?
We have been the victims of premature friendship expulsion as well. It was devastating, crushing and overall just made us go awe. We have also decided on doing some spring cleaning ourselves and sent out a message to a group of "friends" we hadn't met. Those that responded, stayed. Those that didn't after reading said message, got booted.
We love making new friends and takking to said friends. What we do need though is the communication. With us being really busy at times and not always available, we understand time constraints and not getting together because of life. As long as the intent is made clear to actually meet, we are down for holding onto hope, and therefor, friends.
We love making new friends and takking to said friends. What we do need though is the communication. With us being really busy at times and not always available, we understand time constraints and not getting together because of life. As long as the intent is made clear to actually meet, we are down for holding onto hope, and therefor, friends.
We have found that we get a lot of friend requests just so they can see the private pics...which is fine at least you're showing interest, but if you're not going to send a message to say hello every now and again we will unfriend.
The friends list isn't of much use and I rarely look at ours. Most people add you to it to see their unedited pics. Other than that, I've found that most people who want to actually talk will do so quickly. Most never say anything beyond, "Sexy!", along with a friend request, followed by silence.
Since I don't use it, I suppose it doesn't matter if I clean it out. Anybody we actually talk to we probably do so outside of this site (through email or kik, etc).
The friends list is just there...I probably wouldn't notice if it went away. Um...maybe I'm not using it the way it should be, haha.
Since I don't use it, I suppose it doesn't matter if I clean it out. Anybody we actually talk to we probably do so outside of this site (through email or kik, etc).
The friends list is just there...I probably wouldn't notice if it went away. Um...maybe I'm not using it the way it should be, haha.