Swingers Forum - First time hall pass

My wife has bean suffering from medical issues and not quite in the mood as often. She has given me my first hall pass for the next wile. If anyone is interested in helping me use this first in a lifetime pass let me know. 801-791-0564

You have to understand that people who've been in the lifestyle for any length of time get more than a little skeptical when guys make posts like this. There are so many fakes, flakes and cheaters out there trying the "game" the system that many people are very gun shy, to say the least, of posts like this. But Booty Call would be a more appropriate place to post something like this.

EVILDOERS wrote:

You have to understand that people who've been in the lifestyle for any length of time get more than a little skeptical when guys make posts like this. There are so many fakes, flakes and cheaters out there trying the "game" the system that many people are very gun shy, to say the least, of posts like this. But Booty Call would be a more appropriate place to post something like this.

If there is anyone that is interested but wondering if I'm true, I can give you my wife's number as well and you can check with her. I don't hide anything from her. Seems like it would just take away part of the fun anyway.

Ya, Think whatever you like. I am sorry that enough people ruined something so much that even when I offer to anyone talk to my wife and get it cleared up with her that you still cant trust that there might be some decent men on here that really got a hall pass from a hurt and caring wife. There are times that I feel sad that so many men have lost the meaning of truth and honor that as a sex we are no longer trusted.

To funny, your tried convicted and hung without a jury, don't get discouraged because like anything else it's a learning game with lots of experts giving you advice some good some bad. So far all I see is someone unsure and polite so hang in there. The comments would be completly different if your wife had posted this for her.

It is easier for a single man to make things work here than a married man with a hall pass. The first thought that comes to mind for many is that you are stepping out on the misses. That is Not fair but that is the way it seems to be.

I might suggest that you update your profile. Some of us actually read them. You will need all the help you can get. Add in your profile that your wife is willing to talk to confirm your hall pass and if that is true then it will probably help. Have the misses hold a sign saying hall pass granted and post it. That would help even more. As a single male you need more pics of you and I am not refereing to pics of your junk. You look to be in good shape so you need to show it.

I wish you the best.

If you have been out as a couple and have actually met people as a couple then people would believe you about a hall pass !!!! My advice is if your wife is hurting and cant have sex then you should suffer with her snd when she gets better then both of you get out snd have fun . Just my thoughts

BADGIRL8P wrote:

If you have been out as a couple and have actually met people as a couple then people would believe you about a hall pass !!!! My advice is if your wife is hurting and cant have sex then you should suffer with her and when she gets better then both of you get out and have fun . Just my thoughts

That is something to consider.

But we in the lifestyle should also realize that some partners really want their lover to have trysts with other people and might be opposed to the idea of

SEXYINSANDY wrote:

Abysolfiend...You will see and have seen here that people have got there own opinions on " whats appropriate"...FUCK all these people putting you down and being judgmental for posting on this forum!! That's the beauty and freedom you have to post what you want and where you want on this "SWINGER SITE" even if you are married male with a hall pass or the dreaded "single male" that a lot of people portray as deviant and disgusting or with "time on your hands" lol...Im personally sick of that attitude so don't let it get you down or make you feel like a creep or a "hitch hiker" !! They don't have to read it or respond Im sorry to hear about your wife, I hope she gets well soon and good luck on your hallpass!!

First, you guys should be INSANELYSEXYINSANDY.....OH MY GOD you both are ridiculously sexy! I really agree, there is way too much negativity on this site and it's frustrating. We have had great luck with single males and a couple are even really good friends with my husband now. We have been on this site since 2008 and have never been to a party. You don't need that for people to hook up with you. My husband likes parties but I think it's just a way for people to play lightly and talk about it forever. This is way to "social" of a site. I wont go to one because when I want to have the amazing touch of another woman or get used like a dirty whore by my husband and another guy or two, I post a booty call or send a couple of emails and get an answer. We should give people, especially single males, the benefit of the doubt. They have their purpose for sure! We have had our share of bad experiences as well but take them with a grain of salt. My husband has tried to get me to use a hall pass but for me, it's all about doing this together. That is what is sexy! Watching his face as another woman is pleasing him or looking over at him as he watches or joins in while I get fucked by other guys. I say good luck to you and have fun! Block out the negativity and use this site for what it's for....TO FUCK!

Ya, it is a problem that I have been seeing before I even posted this the first time. I have seen some of the booty calls mentioned by bigreid8, not necessarily theirs but similar, I have even tried responding to a couple of them. They have all told me they are only taking people they already know. It makes a circular pattern of I need to go out to meet people but no one is willing to except you if they don't know you. I have no clue how you would even start in this now without ever going to a party of some sort. Almost everyone seems so boxed into the people they already know they wont try to meet anyone new. Even when the booty call is listed in "if we click" to me that tells me that they are willing to talk to new people, meet them and see "IF WE CLICK".