Just wanted to thow this one out. Recently, the opinion was made by a new member of a local club as to the ages of "partiers". Refernceing the "Lawrence Welk " crowd versus the "madonna" crowd. That this lifestyle was gravitating more and more to the younger set.
So my quetion to the masses (especially the younger ones)... is....
At a "social" type party, or elsewhere in the "Lifestyle" do you feel that the older party goers are a plus or minus? I realize that most times the two groups may split off, as their tastes in music and conversation may differ,, but this is true in many ways.
Just wondering about everyones take on it....Thanks
So my quetion to the masses (especially the younger ones)... is....
At a "social" type party, or elsewhere in the "Lifestyle" do you feel that the older party goers are a plus or minus? I realize that most times the two groups may split off, as their tastes in music and conversation may differ,, but this is true in many ways.
Just wondering about everyones take on it....Thanks
Both crowds just cuz u hv those who hv the experience and those who just want to do it cuz its cool....I prefer the older just cuz they have there shit together but I still love the younger cuz we click so we like both.................We like both......
The more the merrier...
We prefer to play with people a bit closer to our age - under 35 or so, usually - but it TOTALLY depends on how we click, and on the couple. We love everyone!
A&K
We prefer to play with people a bit closer to our age - under 35 or so, usually - but it TOTALLY depends on how we click, and on the couple. We love everyone!
A&K
Interesting question. Now that I think about it, all of my swinging friends are older than me, so that makes it a plus in my book! 
I've never been uncomfortable around the older crowd in a social setting. In fact once I start talking and get to know someone their age doesn't even become a factor to me. I'm more interested in their attitude and personality.
I've never been uncomfortable around the older crowd in a social setting. In fact once I start talking and get to know someone their age doesn't even become a factor to me. I'm more interested in their attitude and personality.We can get along with most anyone. We would rather stay with people closer to our age and taste. We have our own rules we try to stick to. We do pretty much there are always exceptions. We are all out to have fun! So the ones who are trying to seperate us is going to be in a long fight.We pretty much like most of the rock music, if it is easy to dance to. If we don't like it we just sit out. So I don't believe we need some stranger telling us who we need and what to do. We always manage to have fun! Judy and Stan
We view age as a number not a qualifier! It is the person or persons that count and what they have to offer that is attractive to us. Age is of no consequence. (as long as they are of legal age).
Depends on the people, not the age. I've had the privilege of some women much older than me, and some much younger. I'll give you one guess who was better... I think I know which way I gravitate, but age isn't an issue. Personality is.
-Roger
-Roger
Over time, we have drifted away from seeing anyone, to wishing to stay close to couples our age and older.
Just as some couples in their 20's would have a hard time thinking about playing with someone in their 50's (since we're now talking couples close to their parents age) - some couples older than 50 find it hard to think about anyone in their 20's and 30's for the same reason (their kids are about that age).
We feel more relaxed around people close to our age. We have more in common and we can relate to things that happened when we were kids and growing up in the 50's, 60's and 70's.
We may be older, but the times we share with one another is no less intense than what couples of any age experience. In fact - it just gets better!
Just as some couples in their 20's would have a hard time thinking about playing with someone in their 50's (since we're now talking couples close to their parents age) - some couples older than 50 find it hard to think about anyone in their 20's and 30's for the same reason (their kids are about that age).
We feel more relaxed around people close to our age. We have more in common and we can relate to things that happened when we were kids and growing up in the 50's, 60's and 70's.
We may be older, but the times we share with one another is no less intense than what couples of any age experience. In fact - it just gets better!
For us age is not the discriminator; attraction and chemistry are what we rely on to make a decision to move forward to a sexual encounter or not.
We never ask age. Marty's Youngest playmate (and a very consistant one) is 20 and the oldest (who would be a very consistant one if we lived closer) is 54.
Tina's is 21(a toy) to 56 (one of her favorites).
We are 42 M 41 T
Age and size does not seem to matter to the crowd of 40 or so couples we hang around with.
As a side note, if someone asked M his prefer it would be the 30something crowd but since he never asks a lady but instead waits for her to ask he almost ALWAYS gets asked to play by a 20something.
Hope that rambling answered....
Tina's is 21(a toy) to 56 (one of her favorites).
We are 42 M 41 T
Age and size does not seem to matter to the crowd of 40 or so couples we hang around with.
As a side note, if someone asked M his prefer it would be the 30something crowd but since he never asks a lady but instead waits for her to ask he almost ALWAYS gets asked to play by a 20something.
Hope that rambling answered....
PS Chammy, regardless of what age you are, that opening pose is awesome.
In our limited experience, we've found that age really doesn't matter, although people that are closer to her age and below tend to turn us off with their attitude and lack of manners.
More of our friends are at least a few years older than us as we have more in common with them in terms of our tastes in music and whatnot. So why would we change that tendency for playmates?
I think having a nice mix of the 'Lawrence Welk' crowd in with the 'Madonna' crowd, even if they party a little separately in the same venue, is important. That way everyone has a chance to mingle with the general age group they can click with. Everyone's different. Of course. It just gets difficult to find places that understand that with no prejudice whatsoever. Not slamming anything - just making a mild observation. (Blame it on the two-days-before-the-baby-comes hormones)
~Ang
More of our friends are at least a few years older than us as we have more in common with them in terms of our tastes in music and whatnot. So why would we change that tendency for playmates?
I think having a nice mix of the 'Lawrence Welk' crowd in with the 'Madonna' crowd, even if they party a little separately in the same venue, is important. That way everyone has a chance to mingle with the general age group they can click with. Everyone's different. Of course. It just gets difficult to find places that understand that with no prejudice whatsoever. Not slamming anything - just making a mild observation. (Blame it on the two-days-before-the-baby-comes hormones)
~Ang
we are young swingers and our problem is the older crowd doesnt seem to want us arround. I thought be young was a good thing. when we say older crowd so far any one over 25ish, I dont mean to offend anyone:d we have found quite a few couples over 35 that we find attractive, but everyone says somthing that sounds alot like "we like you but we think your too young", So how old is to young?
age definately plays a part. we have been with older than 35 couples 45-50, but we tend to like couples more our age. i think it's because we relate a little better.
DEARG_DULS, Looked at your profile... We're not spring chickens ut we're not old fuddie duddies either.... Guys in their 20's are always asking B if she would like to go to their room, at the clubs. Occasionally she does.. Women in their 30's are becomming easier with me. So age is not a real factor but.. and the big but is WE DO NOT PLAY WITH ANYONE UNDER THE AGE OF 21 OR LEGALLY ADULT IN MOST STATEDS. I have children older than some couples we've played with. We've got no restrictions on age so long as there is attraction at some level.. But simply under the age of legal consent is the only taboo for us. Many sites will not allow people under the age of 21 on them.
You may be great, mature, beatuiful, young people, but we would not play with you until you reach 21.
Ray
You may be great, mature, beatuiful, young people, but we would not play with you until you reach 21.
Ray
every site we are on, (sdc, playfulswingers, aff, and theres a few others i believe) we have our real ages (20) listed on the site. also, in florida the legal age of consent is 17 or 18, so i still dont understand the 21 and up thing if peopel need to get drunk to swap they shouldnt be.
every site we are on, (sdc, playfulswingers, aff, and theres a few others i believe) we have our real ages (20) listed on the site. also, in florida the legal age of consent is 17 or 18, so i still dont understand the 21 and up thing if peopel need to get drunk to swap they shouldnt be.
What does Age got to do with SEX? Sex is Sex You have your enjoyable rides and you have your not so good rides. Age doesn't Mean Shit.
Dawn & Poet
Dawn & Poet
thank you, i agree
AMEN to who cares about age lets all just get along and have awesome sex.....
We personally really enjoy the older we being37 seek the 50 plus crowd for our enjoyment! We do however believe the attraction and likeness is a more important issue than anything. My husband recently had a woman that was29 years his senior and he swears its the greatest he has ever had!!
I think the best parties has a variety of people all ages. We have friends of all ages it doesn't mean we will do anything with all of them. We have fun talking and flirting and dancing with lots of people. So we have fun with people of all ages we have been know to cross a few rules we have made. Some rules have to be crossed when you factor in the really nice people that you didn't think you had anything in common with and it turns out you do. So everyone lighten up and play safe and have fun. J & S
ok, back to my previous point why do you need to drink to swing, if you cant relax and have a good time or swap with out being drunk or havign to drink to loosen up, why are you here to begin with?
Age Smage. I care less about the age and more about the maturity. I have met some 40 year old women who still hadn't gotten out the the high school mentality. I also met a young lady who was 20 and carried herself with the grace and dignity far beyond her years. Her confidence and maturity were sexy as hell. (I honest thought she was 30) She also had a zest for life and found joy in the most simple things. Her enthusiasm and positive outlook was addictive and contagious.
So in other words the personality and sexiness is what matters.
So in other words the personality and sexiness is what matters.