Swingers Forum - Single Men: The War Against Them

Came across this article in psychology today http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/living-single/201103/the-escalating-war-against-single-men-what-s-it-about

EVILDOERS wrote:

Is that kinda like the War on Christmas? Cause I fuckin' HATE Christmas.

Then what catches your eye? Kwanza? Festivus? The Grinch? Hey Evildoers, the Whos down in Whoville want their roast beast back!

Meh. Finally read your precious little article and I have to say that I wasn't that impressed. The War on Single Men in the LIFESTYLE has a far greater body count. INCOMING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry. My barista put an extra shot in my latte this morning. And I'd let you hug me but I haven't had a vasectomy.

I run a small business and hire allot of younger dudes to labor, pack boards ect. All I have to say is for the most part or the ones I see walk in and out of the job I give them in day's, I am scared to grow old with this generation of MEN ? running the country. I think they should turn it over to a woman for the most they have more fortitude than the young men, meaning most boys in there 20s

I think there is just way too much man bashing going on from the time they are young to the time they die, starting in the pre adolescent years hearing the mothers tell them how bad or useless their father is, to the puberty years hearing how useless he himself is to the young adult years having to hear how much better he could be. there needs to more positivity starting at an early age. it's not just the women in a mans life who are to blame, yes the fathers are just as much to blame, it seems that we are being raised by a generation of men that either don't know how or don't care to teach their young boys how to be men, they need to be there to show what it means to be a real man in all aspects of life. I'm sure this has all been said and heard before but these were just my thoughts.

PANDJSWING wrote:

You have to admit that if you have played long enough you have met plenty of douchebags. The Mrs purposefully avoids single males and doesn't play alone anymore now because of the issues in the past with the fact that no evidently doesn't mean no.

I keep on hearing this, and then I keep on running into douchebag single females, married females, and married males. And growing up all I ever heard was "I like girls better because they're smarter" "I like girls better because they're nicer" "Why can't you be more like your sisters?" while my sisters were throwing sand in my eyes, and punching me in the back of the head. Oh, and my parents? They got their house under my mom's name only because of a policy my mom's dad had since "men are more likely to run off and leave the women stranded" which has turned out to be rather false.

I do believe there is a war against single men with lots of casualties! That would explain the extreme shortage of quality SM's in the lifestyle. Not bashing here because about 90% of our play is with SM's but lately it's been almost impossible to get something set up. We need to end this soilly war cause I need my SM's!

And EVIL, just because you didn't get a pony for Christmas when you were 6 you don't have to pout.

EVILDOERS wrote:

Yep. 6 was about the age I sorta figured out Santa (and Jesus...et al.) were big fat lies my parents told me. Took me another 15 years to completely de-brainwash myself though. Thank The Flying Spaghetti Monster The Easter Bunny is real.

Your fucking telling me their is no Santa ??????