I'm finding more and more that this site is frustrating. Not only is it hard finding single women. The ones on this site hardly ever visit, and rarely reply to e-mails. And the last two single females I was in contact with were hiding boyfriends or husbands. I understand pictures help but I'm thinking if you are mature enough to swing then that should not be a top priority. Ahh whats comes first looks or STD free? Any comments out there.