Details could include the sort of "friendship" you need or want, details about play, who is usually the contact person with her, what type of woman you look for? Just curious. I'm hearing things here & there but would love a nice big fat list of answers. I know everyone is different.
What we're really looking for is someone who does windows. 
Being real would be a good start. (My wife contacted one, gave her her phone number so she could see she was talking to the wife, not some single guy, or a guy doing something without his wife's knowledge), and instead ended up getting a call from the "single" girls husband, saying he was part of the package now, take it or leave it. We left it.) Lesson learned.
Be unpretentious. Some single females take their status and make people compete a bit. That's fine, it's just a bit of a turn off.
Being bi. Obviously, it's nice if everyone gets to play.
Finding a real unicorn, who is down to Earth seems fairly tricky, so much so, that we pretty much stopped looking. Maybe one day, one will just fall into our laps.
Be unpretentious. Some single females take their status and make people compete a bit. That's fine, it's just a bit of a turn off.
Being bi. Obviously, it's nice if everyone gets to play.
Finding a real unicorn, who is down to Earth seems fairly tricky, so much so, that we pretty much stopped looking. Maybe one day, one will just fall into our laps.
TAP4U2 wrote:
It should not really matter what others want.. You are not looking to morph into something that has the widest possible audience, you are looking for those where the wants/desires align with yours and that you have mutual attraction.
In your position the main problem will be people parroting what they think you want to hear in hopes of changing the game down the line.
True. I guess Id just like to know more. I think I'm more of a "make friends & socialize first" before I play & that unfortunately that tends to stop most communication. Lol Is that normal in the LS? I mean I know everyone is here to play but yeah...that's why I ask.
I like having friends that are playful, I like people that I can trust and I'm the caring type, don't know if that is good or bad; who likes people period. sexually, I am looking for single women and or couple. I would like to find someone who wants to be my buddy, I hear it makes it so much more fun, someone who wouldn't mind going to a movie, dinner and or just hanging out.
STARSHELL1212 wrote:
Being real would be a good start. (My wife contacted one, gave her her phone number so she could see she was talking to the wife, not some single guy, or a guy doing something without his wife's knowledge), and instead ended up getting a call from the "single" girls husband, saying he was part of the package now, take it or leave it. We left it.) Lesson learned.
Be unpretentious. Some single females take their status and make people compete a bit. That's fine, it's just a bit of a turn off.
Being bi. Obviously, it's nice if everyone gets to play.
Finding a real unicorn, who is down to Earth seems fairly tricky, so much so, that we pretty much stopped looking. Maybe one day, one will just fall into our laps.
Hold the phone,real single females exist!! where have we been..lol!
COOKIEZNCREAM wrote:STARSHELL1212 wrote:
Being real would be a good start. (My wife contacted one, gave her her phone number so she could see she was talking to the wife, not some single guy, or a guy doing something without his wife's knowledge), and instead ended up getting a call from the "single" girls husband, saying he was part of the package now, take it or leave it. We left it.) Lesson learned.
Be unpretentious. Some single females take their status and make people compete a bit. That's fine, it's just a bit of a turn off.
Being bi. Obviously, it's nice if everyone gets to play.
Finding a real unicorn, who is down to Earth seems fairly tricky, so much so, that we pretty much stopped looking. Maybe one day, one will just fall into our laps.
Hold the phone,real single females exist!! where have we been..lol!
I've met at least 4 real single females in person (from this site)
Did you poke 'em to make SURE they're real? 
What we like in singles (female or male) is someone we can both chat with and is easy going. We don't need drama. Someone who respects our relationship is an absolute must. We want people who are comfortable with their body and sexuality, not people who are shy, afraid, or have low self esteem. A good sense of humor and decent set of tits are always a bonus! 
I would like one close to home I go to SLC allot. Although the one I do care for is in salt lake I would like a fwb here in Ogden.
Red, I've been approached about both play and poly situations by different couples. I'm not into poly, but some are, and kudos.
Everyone wants a unicorn and doesn't know how to get one, it seems. (Generalizing, but you get the idea.) Here's my list of what UNICORNS want:
1. Be hot. Both of you. Very hot. If you don't have photos of your male half, you don't have my interest.
2. Be COURTEOUS. We are not hookers, we are rare and special women who enjoy couples. Remember that it's not a one way street. We don't exist to be your plaything. We have needs and wants of our own, too! Please don't send us random messages that amount to "You're hot, we want a threesome, let's fuck." Woo us, wow us, seduce us!
3. Be honest about what you are looking for. One nighter? FWB? Poly?
4. When in doubt, refer to rules 1 and 2.
Everyone wants a unicorn and doesn't know how to get one, it seems. (Generalizing, but you get the idea.) Here's my list of what UNICORNS want:
1. Be hot. Both of you. Very hot. If you don't have photos of your male half, you don't have my interest.
2. Be COURTEOUS. We are not hookers, we are rare and special women who enjoy couples. Remember that it's not a one way street. We don't exist to be your plaything. We have needs and wants of our own, too! Please don't send us random messages that amount to "You're hot, we want a threesome, let's fuck." Woo us, wow us, seduce us!
3. Be honest about what you are looking for. One nighter? FWB? Poly?
4. When in doubt, refer to rules 1 and 2.
Humm, do you do dishes or wash and wax a car. If your good to us and watch our kids when we go out, maybe when we get home you can please us.
Midgetmafiosa wrote:
Red, I've been approached about both play and poly situations by different couples. I'm not into poly, but some are, and kudos.
Everyone wants a unicorn and doesn't know how to get one, it seems. (Generalizing, but you get the idea.) Here's my list of what UNICORNS want:
1. Be hot. Both of you. Very hot. If you don't have photos of your male half, you don't have my interest.
2. Be COURTEOUS. We are not hookers, we are rare and special women who enjoy couples. Remember that it's not a one way street. We don't exist to be your plaything. We have needs and wants of our own, too! Please don't send us random messages that amount to "You're hot, we want a threesome, let's fuck." Woo us, wow us, seduce us!
3. Be honest about what you are looking for. One nighter? FWB? Poly?
4. When in doubt, refer to rules 1 and 2.
EXACTLY. Great advice. It definitely bothers me when people don't say much other than trying to make what feels like a damn appointment like I'm a prostitute. That doesn't work well for me. Lol.
UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY wrote:funny thing, I actually have a maid but depends on what cute aprons I get to wear. Lol.
Humm, do you do dishes or wash and wax a car. If your good to us and watch our kids when we go out, maybe when we get home you can please us.
A open minded lady that we could trust and please ..
A unicorn would be very compatible with me since we both are bi
and could be available to bi couples or singles
I'd like to have a relationship with a unicorn that involves
romance and possible live-in
it could be a dream come true for both of us
and could be available to bi couples or singles
I'd like to have a relationship with a unicorn that involves
romance and possible live-in
it could be a dream come true for both of us
UNICORN73 wrote:If it's sexy enough no sense in going out we will stay home and see what you think of being the center of attention, isn't that how it's supposed to work anyway.UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY wrote:funny thing, I actually have a maid but depends on what cute aprons I get to wear. Lol.
Humm, do you do dishes or wash and wax a car. If your good to us and watch our kids when we go out, maybe when we get home you can please us.
Curious why a couple would feel a single female could threaten their relationship in any way.
Here's what I (male half) would add to the conversation. What are you, as a unicorn, looking for in a couple? Not generally, but specifically. Are you looking for a one nighter, a pair of fuck buddies, a poly situation, or as some of the others have beautifully put, some friends in life but a slutty couple in the bedroom? Or something even different? Be specific on your profile to what you want. I also agree with the pretentious statement made earlier, but that goes for couples too.
All in all, you are here for the same reason we all are, to have a good time and add to life's experiences. Find what that means for you and roll with it.
All in all, you are here for the same reason we all are, to have a good time and add to life's experiences. Find what that means for you and roll with it.
What I don't get is why everyone is being so nice to the single female here! If the same question was posed by a single male he would have already been castrated, crucified and EVIL would have shoved a gun up his ass using a stuffed ferret(see other forum topic).
Seriously though I have nothing against single females I just wanted to make sure we met the quota for single male bashing in this thread. Sadly I can offer no real advice to the OP as the Mrs. isn't really into women and I wouldn't want to try and please 2 women myself. I believe one of your fellow Unicorns had the best answer which was to figure out what you want instead of what a couple would want from you. The world turns on supply and demand and in this LS you are absolutely in demand.
Seriously though I have nothing against single females I just wanted to make sure we met the quota for single male bashing in this thread. Sadly I can offer no real advice to the OP as the Mrs. isn't really into women and I wouldn't want to try and please 2 women myself. I believe one of your fellow Unicorns had the best answer which was to figure out what you want instead of what a couple would want from you. The world turns on supply and demand and in this LS you are absolutely in demand.
Midgetmafiosa wrote:
Red, I've been approached about both play and poly situations by different couples. I'm not into poly, but some are, and kudos.
Everyone wants a unicorn and doesn't know how to get one, it seems. (Generalizing, but you get the idea.) Here's my list of what UNICORNS want:
1. Be hot. Both of you. Very hot. If you don't have photos of your male half, you don't have my interest.
2. Be COURTEOUS. We are not hookers, we are rare and special women who enjoy couples. Remember that it's not a one way street. We don't exist to be your plaything. We have needs and wants of our own, too! Please don't send us random messages that amount to "You're hot, we want a threesome, let's fuck." Woo us, wow us, seduce us!
3. Be honest about what you are looking for. One nighter? FWB? Poly?
4. When in doubt, refer to rules 1 and 2.
HEAR HEAR!!
Midgetmafiosa wrote:
1. Be hot. Both of you. Very hot. If you don't have photos of your male half, you don't have my interest.
(M)I guess the first part of your rule excludes us from finding the elusive unicorn.
Not, well unless the women we have had the pleasure of meeting didn't know about your rule.
Think it had more to do with gaining trust and respect for us.
What exactly does hot mean anyway.
UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY wrote:Midgetmafiosa wrote:
1. Be hot. Both of you. Very hot. If you don't have photos of your male half, you don't have my interest.
(M)I guess the first part of your rule excludes us from finding the elusive unicorn.
Not, well unless the women we have had the pleasure of meeting didn't know about your rule.
Think it had more to do with gaining trust and respect for us.
What exactly does hot mean anyway.
My guess is that it's all relative... Your Mrs would qualify in our book.
It is all relative. But science has shown that the people considered most attractive in research studies had symmetrical features, fit bodies, a full head of hair, and above average height (5'4" for women - sorry me, 5'9" for men). Men also featured a more prominent brow and angular jaw, while women featured a hip to waist ratio that I don't remember. But the hips were approximately 36-38", I think. And the waist was smaller, obviously. This is based on research where women and men were asked to rate the attractiveness of individuals from photos in a short span of time. I've seen other studies with pupil dialation, erection, etc. that basically amount to the same thing. Sort of the scientific equivalent of Tinder. Swipe left/right. Roughly the same "beauty" standards have been applied to humans since pre-historic days, as it is thought that certain characteristics made for good providers/healthy mates. Musculature and body fat % were probably different then, but the general idea is the same. No I can't name any studies. I've studied psychology, anthropology, and sociology, though.
IndecentDuo wrote:Midgetmafiosa wrote:
Red, I've been approached about both play and poly situations by different couples. I'm not into poly, but some are, and kudos.
Everyone wants a unicorn and doesn't know how to get one, it seems. (Generalizing, but you get the idea.) Here's my list of what UNICORNS want:
1. Be hot. Both of you. Very hot. If you don't have photos of your male half, you don't have my interest.
2. Be COURTEOUS. We are not hookers, we are rare and special women who enjoy couples. Remember that it's not a one way street. We don't exist to be your plaything. We have needs and wants of our own, too! Please don't send us random messages that amount to "You're hot, we want a threesome, let's fuck." Woo us, wow us, seduce us!
3. Be honest about what you are looking for. One nighter? FWB? Poly?
4. When in doubt, refer to rules 1 and 2.
So the number one rule is to be HOT. Very HOT. Courtesy is second to that, honesty comes about last...in other words, if you're a total dickhead/rude ass b*tch, unicorns will get with you but only if you meet the "very HOT" criteria? Seems pretty shallow!
We've had our fair share of unicorn opportunities and experiences. We look for attractiveness of course, but we also look for approachability, a fun, confident personality. Not someone who thinks that just because they're a single fem, we lowly couples should fall down at their feet and do everything in our power to "woo them". Sex and attraction is a two-way street. Seems to me that someone who is ONLY interested in "very HOT" couples who worship them, and honesty is only third in their priority list wouldn't make for a very fun partner...just sayin'.
My rules are all equal with one another. Pretty much. Any one of those can throw the balance out of whack, though. I don't think it's that much to ask for courteous, honest people, I guess that's why I didn't list them first. Maybe it is. Lately I'm beginning to wonder, honestly. And I never said I wanted to be worshipped. I want to be part of something that's enjoyable for everyone, that's all. And as for being wooed or seduced? I give as good as I get to someone or someones I find sexy. Why is that something that should be so out of the ordinary, either? Goes with courtesy and honesty, I think. We all want to be turned on and turn others on, or we wouldn't be here. Respect your partners. Turn them on. I hardly think throwing a few photos out is enough for someone to consider me an ideal partner, and I think the same of other people. Sorry for having standards.
Mostly into couple play...but from our perspective we've found mff to be vert elusive. Always wanted to try it but just seems next to impossible.