Do most couples prefer to set up a meeting through emails or prefer to talk to the couple on the phone to finalize the meeting? The reason we ask is we tried to set up a breakfast meeting with a couple and gave them our phone # twice and all we get is emails about where to meet. It's like they don't want to talk on the phone and it kind of creep'ed us out.
As for us, we are more about flirty text and maybe a phone call. We will work with whatever, but both the Mrs. and I enjoy the get to know the personality in the text before we meet bit. It takes some of the awkwardness out of it. Sometimes we group text, sometimes we single text, sometimes we even group sext. 
we enjoy texting and the chat room to get to know / flirt and what not. we just go with the flow and do whatever is more comfortable with everyone.
We have used both. Anymore..guess we kind of prefer emails at first. We both work pretty odd hours, and have had problems with a few calling way too often while we are at work, etc....Texting is somewhat better...asumming the "texter" knows we can't always get back to them right away. If not..it kind of turns into the phone call thing all over again.
Anymore..we just kind of feel if the person isn't interested enough to get hold of us thru Swingular, by checking their mail often..then they probably aren't that interested in us.
Anymore..we just kind of feel if the person isn't interested enough to get hold of us thru Swingular, by checking their mail often..then they probably aren't that interested in us.
We do either. If they are a couple we enjoy talking with, texting is great.
We do email back and forth a couple of times before we meet someone but do feel if there is an interest between both party's and we do give out our phone # Wouldn't you think the right thing to do is give us a call in stead of continuous emails?
We are phone call people all the way, we have given out our number before and next thing I know, naked pics were sent to my cell, which I did not want or ask for. My situation is a bit different in that I have a shared work/personal phone that I pay so much per month to use it for personal. I really don't want sexy text messages or naked pics sent to my phone. I know...I am a prude! Ms. Karma would take issue with that.
Am much more comfortable sending emails and chatting on this site. Not that it is completely secure, but am much more comfortable than messages on my cell phone. If it is a generic "here is our address"..."looking forward to getting together" kind of text that is fine, but seen too many bad situations in my life from text messages that are sent and received, Ms. Karma can tell many many stories from her profession. At the very least I say ask the person (especially if you don't know them or have never met) if it is ok. Some phones also sit on the kitchen counter where kids may get to the phone while dad or mom are working in the yard, and it is sent to an unsecured phone. Rule of them, until you know the other party 'keep the messages generic'.
...and sorry if the argument is I want to get to know the people by texting before I meet someone, then chat on the website or some other chat line, or be really brave and talk on the phone first, or at least make sure it is ok first...not an unsolicited sexual message on a cell phone. Sorry that is my big pet peave. Promise we really aren't as paranoid as we sound...and Ms. Karma is mmmmm scrumptuous (sic).
Am much more comfortable sending emails and chatting on this site. Not that it is completely secure, but am much more comfortable than messages on my cell phone. If it is a generic "here is our address"..."looking forward to getting together" kind of text that is fine, but seen too many bad situations in my life from text messages that are sent and received, Ms. Karma can tell many many stories from her profession. At the very least I say ask the person (especially if you don't know them or have never met) if it is ok. Some phones also sit on the kitchen counter where kids may get to the phone while dad or mom are working in the yard, and it is sent to an unsecured phone. Rule of them, until you know the other party 'keep the messages generic'.
...and sorry if the argument is I want to get to know the people by texting before I meet someone, then chat on the website or some other chat line, or be really brave and talk on the phone first, or at least make sure it is ok first...not an unsolicited sexual message on a cell phone. Sorry that is my big pet peave. Promise we really aren't as paranoid as we sound...and Ms. Karma is mmmmm scrumptuous (sic).