SOOO I figure SOMEONE on here has to have had this problem before....
This is the Mrs. Here........I used to have toe curling, almost pass out, orgasms. Frequently..... Now I cant get to that level anymore, I just get little whimpy ones. The only thing that changed is I had one a couple months ago and it caused alot of pain in my body from cramping up from it being so strong..... now its like my body doesnt want to go back there. I've tried EVERYTHING I can think of and nothing is helping..... Anyone had this issue before and solved it??????????
This is the Mrs. Here........I used to have toe curling, almost pass out, orgasms. Frequently..... Now I cant get to that level anymore, I just get little whimpy ones. The only thing that changed is I had one a couple months ago and it caused alot of pain in my body from cramping up from it being so strong..... now its like my body doesnt want to go back there. I've tried EVERYTHING I can think of and nothing is helping..... Anyone had this issue before and solved it??????????
Hmmm... that really sucks... perhaps it's somewhat of a mental thing, maybe subconsciously you're worried about it hurting again or even worried about it not being strong again and you're kinda blocking yourself from experiencing it...
Have you tried a fun toy?... maybe taking your time one night and teasing your orgasm and building it up until you just can't take it any longer and then just let it explode! I love doing that ;-)
Have you tried a fun toy?... maybe taking your time one night and teasing your orgasm and building it up until you just can't take it any longer and then just let it explode! I love doing that ;-)
You may want to try the magic wand from Hitachi. It's always worked for us. Also, not sure if you drink or not, but a glass or two of wine might help you relax if you are thinking about it too much.
CB& KB
CB& KB
Tried liquor, toys, different partners, different positions ect ect ect....... Its like my body gets "right there" and then freaking stops. Irritating in the worst possible way!
Maybe the difficulty comes from the fact that you're seeking the orgasm?
For some it might seem odd, but sensual play can still be very enjoyable without resulting in orgasm. What you might try is to play with someone and focus instead on enjoying the experience; let the orgasm happen as a side effect instead of the objective.
If you know someone who has experience in giving a Yoni massage, that might just be the ticket. :-)
For some it might seem odd, but sensual play can still be very enjoyable without resulting in orgasm. What you might try is to play with someone and focus instead on enjoying the experience; let the orgasm happen as a side effect instead of the objective.
If you know someone who has experience in giving a Yoni massage, that might just be the ticket. :-)
I used to NEVER orgasm during sex.... was wayy too worried about it and now I do (used to be alot better then what I'm getting now) Whats a Yoni massage?
I used to NEVER orgasm during sex.... was wayy too worried about it and now I do (used to be alot better then what I'm getting now) Whats a Yoni massage?
CBUTAH wrote:
You may want to try the magic wand from Hitachi. It's always worked for us. Also, not sure if you drink or not, but a glass or two of wine might help you relax if you are thinking about it too much.
CB& KB
I (Susan) love my Magic Wand!!! :-D
It always seems to help!! ;-)
Man what a problem. My wife squirts, n when I play with her it runs down her legs. It will wet the floor. I am a lucky bastard.
Man what a problem. My wife squirts, n when I play with her it runs down her legs. It will wet the floor. I am a lucky bastard.
Yeah I'm gonna go with weird. Not in an orgasm way. Just weird in general. Maybe it's because you work "weird hours" or maybe it's that you're looking for a "Poly Mff". Now I'm not exactly sure what a Poly Mff is but it sounds quite painful and/or non- biodegradable. I will Google it and if it's some kind of rash I would try a little coconut oil or maybe some Astroglide mixed with a little bit of Neosporin or possibly some Windex.
SEXYRIDERS wrote:
It always seems to help!! ;-)
Wow I want to help, I can be a good little helper.
DONTSTOP wrote:
SOOO I figure SOMEONE on here has to have had this problem before....
This is the Mrs. Here........I used to have toe curling, almost pass out, orgasms. Frequently..... Now I cant get to that level anymore, I just get little whimpy ones. The only thing that changed is I had one a couple months ago and it caused alot of pain in my body from cramping up from it being so strong..... now its like my body doesnt want to go back there. I've tried EVERYTHING I can think of and nothing is helping..... Anyone had this issue before and solved it??????????
we have been here before, failing business and money problems because of it, stress through the roof, makes for bad sex life, There needs to be some time in your night, week, that you put aside all of your fear and stress and kids and ( mother inlaw ) oops sorry my problem not yours. and just make time for you. I know easy to say but you need to try, and as time goes by things will get back to a good place, if even only for a day. We hope you can figure this out soon, sucks to work so hard to enjoy things just to fall a little short. Cheers
Stress could be a culprit here..... seems to be what alot of you are saying 
Glad I'm not alone in this situation haha..... Need to buy another bottle of vodka and relax and see where it goes from there!!!
Glad I'm not alone in this situation haha..... Need to buy another bottle of vodka and relax and see where it goes from there!!!SEXYRIDERS wrote:Tell ya what. I would pay to be in that position. And for Dontstop, quit worrying about it, get back to having fun and let things come back to you naturally. Ever think about having more than one guy taking care of business at a time? You need to get your mind off of it and just let it go.
It always seems to help!! ;-)
SEXYRIDERS wrote:Tell ya what. I would pay to be in that position. And for Dontstop, quit worrying about it, get back to having fun and let things come back to you naturally. Ever think about having more than one guy taking care of business at a time? You need to get your mind off of it and just let it go.
It always seems to help!! ;-)
SEXYRIDERS wrote:Tell ya what. I would pay to be in that position. And for Dontstop, quit worrying about it, get back to having fun and let things come back to you naturally. Ever think about having more than one guy taking care of business at a time? You need to get your mind off of it and just let it go.
It always seems to help!! ;-)
SEXYRIDERS wrote:Tell ya what. I would pay to be in that position. And for Dontstop, quit worrying about it, get back to having fun and let things come back to you naturally. Ever think about having more than one guy taking care of business at a time? You need to get your mind off of it and just let it go.
It always seems to help!! ;-)
SEXYRIDERS wrote:Tell ya what. I would pay to be in that position. And for Dontstop, quit worrying about it, get back to having fun and let things come back to you naturally. Ever think about having more than one guy taking care of business at a time? You need to get your mind off of it and just let it go.
It always seems to help!! ;-)
SEXYRIDERS wrote:Tell ya what. I would pay to be in that position. And for Dontstop, quit worrying about it, get back to having fun and let things come back to you naturally. Ever think about having more than one guy taking care of business at a time? You need to get your mind off of it and just let it go.
It always seems to help!! ;-)
Sorry to hear. As others have mentioned, stress can be an issue. In men it's visible. Can't get hard, can't stay hard. I recently was feeling a complete lack of sex. It finally occured to me how overworked I am these days. How much stress I'm putting on myself to get the job done the best it can be.
I started back to exercising and have felt better in so many ways. Stress is handled at the gym, and I feel better in general. During gym time, I can relax, or get aggression out, or enjoy some funky grooves. Its great cause you can choose how to experience your workout. It's like a mini therapy. And I sleep better to boot.
Try working out if you don't. Try Yoga to relax, or Zumba to have fun, or put on the headphones and get on the treadmill and zone out.
If that doesn't work after a few months, a trip to the doctor may be warranted.
Good luck, hope you find a way back to enjoying all the things you used to.
I started back to exercising and have felt better in so many ways. Stress is handled at the gym, and I feel better in general. During gym time, I can relax, or get aggression out, or enjoy some funky grooves. Its great cause you can choose how to experience your workout. It's like a mini therapy. And I sleep better to boot.
Try working out if you don't. Try Yoga to relax, or Zumba to have fun, or put on the headphones and get on the treadmill and zone out.
If that doesn't work after a few months, a trip to the doctor may be warranted.
Good luck, hope you find a way back to enjoying all the things you used to.