We have our profile pretty much filled out. We have talked a lot lately about what we really are looking for. Well we are curious if others feel the same way.
We enjoy going to parties and events and playing in public and watching others play. On occasion jumping in the mix. But that's not our ultimate goal.
We would really find a couple or two or three that we click with. Real friends. Where we can go out and have over. Friends where if were watching a movie or hot tub, anyone feel comfortable making advances on us or them. Where we both are attracted to the other couple. No taking one for the team concept.
True friends with benefits. We are kid free half the time and would like friends that would feel comfortable just dropping by and saying we were horney needed a quickie lets play.
We have tried the dating thing, seems strange. So we continue to attend parties hoping to click, yet it seems hard to get to know folks at parties. Seems everyone is trying too hard to something, us included.
We were just sitting here on thanksgiving wanting to be thankful for our new FWB with no jealousy, drama, tension, just fun time without pressure.
For the grammar folks, please forgive, in bed on an iPad.
Mr & Mrs Simple...
We enjoy going to parties and events and playing in public and watching others play. On occasion jumping in the mix. But that's not our ultimate goal.
We would really find a couple or two or three that we click with. Real friends. Where we can go out and have over. Friends where if were watching a movie or hot tub, anyone feel comfortable making advances on us or them. Where we both are attracted to the other couple. No taking one for the team concept.
True friends with benefits. We are kid free half the time and would like friends that would feel comfortable just dropping by and saying we were horney needed a quickie lets play.
We have tried the dating thing, seems strange. So we continue to attend parties hoping to click, yet it seems hard to get to know folks at parties. Seems everyone is trying too hard to something, us included.
We were just sitting here on thanksgiving wanting to be thankful for our new FWB with no jealousy, drama, tension, just fun time without pressure.
For the grammar folks, please forgive, in bed on an iPad.
Mr & Mrs Simple...
very good topic for conversation... our views seem to have evolved with time... I think we'd like the same kinda thing for us as well... although we're not opposed to some of the once in while types or the occasional quickie types too...our tastes are different with different couples... :-)
We really like regular basis fun! ;-) ...it's the kids that try to interfere with it but we usually still win that fight... LoL...
We're pretty much the same as SimplePleasures. We enjoy having good friends with benefits.
We like people in the bedroom that we would normally hang out with outside of the bedroom. People that would be the same we have as friends without benefits. When our vanilla friends have met our FWB, they've never thought anything of it. We would have no problem introducing our FWB to any members of our family. Would we tell our family our little secret? Hell no, but that's what makes it even better! We actually like our friends we met here more than our vanilla friends anyways.
We like people in the bedroom that we would normally hang out with outside of the bedroom. People that would be the same we have as friends without benefits. When our vanilla friends have met our FWB, they've never thought anything of it. We would have no problem introducing our FWB to any members of our family. Would we tell our family our little secret? Hell no, but that's what makes it even better! We actually like our friends we met here more than our vanilla friends anyways.
Wow great topic, made us think about it on this day of thanks. We have some great FRIENDS on here. Friends that we spend a lot of time with out of the bedroom, but they are also our FWB when its that time. We love our friends, and benefits. Its a good thanksgiving.
We are some what new to this and been on here looking for friends first, Friends we can enjoy camping, fishing ,diner and drinks, BBQ as well as some great fun. Seems some what hard though. We have met some nice couples at the meet and greets but when we have contacted them on here never get a response back. Starting to think our or my personality sucks??? We would never judge people on the first meet but seems maybe some people do.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone
Happy Thanksgiving everyone
It is hard to find a good friend, and then a good one that is sexy, and then have them think you are sexy, I think they are in the same universe as the unicorn. lol Would be so nice to be able to go boating with your friends and all the kids and just take off for a adult boat ride and 300 yards off the beach loose all your clothes and just enjoy, then go back to reality and get the kids lunch.
KRAZYGIRL wrote:
It is hard to find a good friend, and then a good one that is sexy, and then have them think you are sexy, I think they are in the same universe as the unicorn. lol Would be so nice to be able to go boating with your friends and all the kids and just take off for a adult boat ride and 300 yards off the beach loose all your clothes and just enjoy, then go back to reality and get the kids lunch.
We're in!!! LOL
In the 20 plus years we have met some very good friends that we thought we would have the relationship you all talk about. Some are still around that we love dearly others have come and gone. We just try to remember the good times and enjoy the times we get with our close friends. We just want to say Thanks to those that hung with us and enjoy our times we get to hang with them. Happy Thanksgiving to you all and to all the new friends we hope to meet.
Dave and Jackie
Dave and Jackie
Dave and Jackie just stood our thunder on this topic. We have found to make the friends that everyone wants and is taking about here you have to look inside your self and ask are we doing this right and treating people like we want to be treated. Are we open enough to let people see who we really are or are we trying to put on a show. We have found the best way is be our selfs and really be open to people so the friendship can develop.
It's nice to see so many people feel the same way as we do. Maybe this is a new beginning for us. We are off to grandma's house for turkey diner and we got a few message's since the last post. We will answer you all when we get back home. Enjoy and thank
Great post. We are looking for the same thing. We have found a few different couples that we love hanging out with, however it would be nice to find more than one couple to hang out with at a time.
We love meeting people at meet and greets and house parties.
We love meeting people at meet and greets and house parties.
Looks like we end to arrange a party that is tailored for couples to meet and see if they mesh.
That would be a fun party.
WETANDHARDUTCPL wrote:SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:
Looks like we end to arrange a party that is tailored for couples to meet and see if they mesh.
agreed!!!
Yep
Dates are alittle akward.. especially that point of whether ur going home or with them. We usually do the booty call thing, but people tend to be flaky with those..we are too akward for large parties.. we prefer small get togethers of 3 to 4 couples where its a more intimate and better chance of getting laid haha..
SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:
Looks like we end to arrange a party that is tailored for couples to meet and see if they mesh.
Sounds like a great idea - maybe one where no one has met so everyone is in the same boat!
WETANDHARDUTCPL wrote:CANDJ23 wrote:
Dates are alittle akward.. especially that point of whether ur going home or with them. We usually do the booty call thing, but people tend to be flaky with those..we are too akward for large parties.. we prefer small get togethers of 3 to 4 couples where its a more intimate and better chance of getting laid haha..
we will come to you , we wont flake out!!
Hey wetandhardcpl if you come up to their place we'll meet you there,..LoL.. they are up here by us too...PARTY!! ;-)
SEXYRIDERS wrote:WETANDHARDUTCPL wrote:
[quote=CANDJ23]Dates are alittle akward.. especially that point of whether ur going home or with them. We usually do the booty call thing, but people tend to be flaky with those..we are too akward for large parties.. we prefer small get togethers of 3 to 4 couples where its a more intimate and better chance of getting laid haha..
we will come to you , we wont flake out!!
Hey wetandhardcpl if you come up to their place we'll meet you there,..LoL.. they are up here by us too...PARTY!! ;-)[/quote]man we always get left out
Well the quoting of the quotes didn't work out right
I can get a van and drive,pick you all up on the way north. That way you can party and not worry about the drive, just need a days notice so I can get all the mirrors put back in the back so I can see.lol
Its not fun to get a plan put together and all ready and have the plans fall apart. Shit happens but sometimes it seems to happen all to much. Would love a meet with all these sexy couples.
Its not fun to get a plan put together and all ready and have the plans fall apart. Shit happens but sometimes it seems to happen all to much. Would love a meet with all these sexy couples.
ITSFUNTRYINGNEW wrote:
Well the quoting of the quotes didn't work out right
We wouldn't leave you two sexies out!! You're always welcome to join in the fun ;-)
KRAZYGIRL wrote:
I can get a van and drive,pick you all up on the way north. That way you can party and not worry about the drive, just need a days notice so I can get all the mirrors put back in the back so I can see.lol
Its not fun to get a plan put together and all ready and have the plans fall apart. Shit happens but sometimes it seems to happen all to much. Would love a meet with all these sexy couples.
btw I think the back of that van could get crazy!! ;-) count us in!!!
That van wouldn't happen to be picking up in St George would it? Seems like all you up there make ALL the fun.
I have a feeling once the word got out we'd need a bus to pick up everyone :-)
BUTTABING wrote:
That van wouldn't happen to be picking up in St George would it? Seems like all you up there make ALL the fun.
OK after a little more thought I think I may need a Bus, ( take out the seats and add some beds ) and should we start in ogden and go south? or south and go north, but I do need a chit load of fuel, and lots of mirrors.mmmm this could be fun
with a bus ride like that we'd wanna be picked up first... so start up north and go south :-D
SEXYRIDERS wrote:
with a bus ride like that we'd wanna be picked up first... so start up north and go south :-D
Well now with that said when should I arrive.
It is a little warmer down here.
BUTTABING wrote:
It is a little warmer down here.
Perfect so a no clothes policy can be implemented. Now for the starting date of this Bus tour.
KRAZYGIRL wrote:BUTTABING wrote:
It is a little warmer down here.
Perfect so a no clothes policy can be implemented. Now for the starting date of this Bus tour.
Just let us know when and what help you need. We are in!
Could set up something for the weekend on this side.
How bout this party tonight.. we r free haha...
We are free too 
Too late to drive up tonight. Can that van (bus) pick us up at the air port?
Dam now I wish I had kicked out the Inlaws last night. Would love to pick Buttabing at the airport and make it a Buttabang, lol This party needs to happen, and ITSFUN and CANDJ23 and Sexyriders all need to be on my bus.
KRAZYGIRL wrote:
Dam now I wish I had kicked out the Inlaws last night. Would love to pick Buttabing at the airport and make it a Buttabang, lol This party needs to happen, and ITSFUN and CANDJ23 and Sexyriders all need to be on my bus.
All you need to do is tell us when!! ;-)
BUTTABING wrote:KRAZYGIRL wrote:
Dam now I wish I had kicked out the Inlaws last night. Would love to pick Buttabing at the airport and make it a Buttabang, lol This party needs to happen, and ITSFUN and CANDJ23 and Sexyriders all need to be on my bus.
All you need to do is tell us when!! ;-)
WHEN ( dam we wish ) lol
when!!!
SIMPLEPLEASURES wrote:
Looks like we end to arrange a party that is tailored for couples to meet and see if they mesh.
We love these type of events, say ten couples or so in a casual type environment, to big and it seems you get lost in the crowd. Then you only talk to the ones you may already know.
Or maybe we should do a speed dating for swingers, ten couples and ten questions to give to each couple.
#1 do you like sex
#2 do you like sex
#3 do you like sex often
#4 if we have sex will we still be friends
#5 would you like sex now
#6 can we have sex again
#7-10 When can we ?
That may work huh
That may work huh
SEXYRIDERS wrote:
when!!!
Ok we can make that, see you in 30 min. LMAO
I think we best be heading for the airport. Who's picking us up?
As for the original topic.....,think we found ours!
KRAZYGIRL wrote:SEXYRIDERS wrote:
when!!!
Ok we can make that, see you in 30 min. LMAO
still waiting... where are you guys? ;-) LoL
BUTTABING wrote:
I think we best be heading for the airport. Who's picking us up?
if we could host we'd be happy to pick you guys up :-)
SEXYRIDERS wrote:KRAZYGIRL wrote:
[quote=SEXYRIDERS]when!!!
Ok we can make that, see you in 30 min. LMAO
still waiting... where are you guys? ;-) LoL [/quote]
sorry we might be a few min late had to stop by the airport and pick up a friend, hope they can come to.
absolutely :-)
Well we could always come here, some of you are just down the road from us
Well we could always come here, some of you are just down the road from us
Definitely seems like Simplepleasures hit the square on the head! We'd be down for a party like that!!!
What an excellent topic!
What are we looking for?? Humm.. We are looking for a couple that would feel comfortable enough to hang out on a regular basis and also vacation with us. We dont know if it's even feasible or just a sick fantasy of ours but we would love to vacation with a life style couple for a full week. Can you just imagine a full week of nonstop vacation sex??? I think we would require a vacaton from our vacation.. However, Its always fun to fantasize.. LOL
What are we looking for?? Humm.. We are looking for a couple that would feel comfortable enough to hang out on a regular basis and also vacation with us. We dont know if it's even feasible or just a sick fantasy of ours but we would love to vacation with a life style couple for a full week. Can you just imagine a full week of nonstop vacation sex??? I think we would require a vacaton from our vacation.. However, Its always fun to fantasize.. LOL
FIRSTTIME1 wrote:
What an excellent topic!
What are we looking for?? Humm.. We are looking for a couple that would feel comfortable enough to hang out on a regular basis and also vacation with us. We dont know if it's even feasible or just a sick fantasy of ours but we would love to vacation with a life style couple for a full week. Can you just imagine a full week of nonstop vacation sex??? I think we would require a vacaton from our vacation.. However, Its always fun to fantasize.. LOL
Sounds completely perfect!'
SIREROS wrote:
I am looking for that mysterious single female who wants to be a partner in that equally elusive special FWB relationship with a couple or three.. Seems a shot to the moon with a do it yourself backyard rocket kit would be easier! Seems we all are in search of the same thing.. ya gotta wonder why its so hard! That being said have met some amazing couples and a few singles here who are great FWB friends. (You guys are awesome!) Thanks!!
... now where is that amazing woman who wants to join me?
That was funny...you said three lol. Busted out laughing. Can I get a beer and, three girls. I SAY THIS ALL THE TIME!
Seduce them!
So! Let's say you decide to host a party, with the intention of helping couples hook up, or more accurately ween a couple they both connect with. Is It possible to do it without hurting feelings.
We were thinking say you have like a introduction, each couple introduces themselves and their likes dislikes etc. other couples give them a personal rating and each coupe,has a jar. In the jar you put your name if you think you could be interested.
All too often the guys find the gals hot but the ladies are more picky. Perhaps they just wanting to play with the girl.
Well then We keep track of the couples we placed our name in their jar, and if we received their name, yea, baby, perhaps a match made in "the jar" so to speak.
We understand that there will be couples we are interested in that their name will not be in our jar. We just have to realize for whatever reasons
How do you help those in attendance not be offended if their name shows up in your jar but you don't find them appealing.
Just trying to think how to make it work without hurting feelings. So high school. Or junior high mor likely.
We were thinking say you have like a introduction, each couple introduces themselves and their likes dislikes etc. other couples give them a personal rating and each coupe,has a jar. In the jar you put your name if you think you could be interested.
All too often the guys find the gals hot but the ladies are more picky. Perhaps they just wanting to play with the girl.
Well then We keep track of the couples we placed our name in their jar, and if we received their name, yea, baby, perhaps a match made in "the jar" so to speak.
We understand that there will be couples we are interested in that their name will not be in our jar. We just have to realize for whatever reasons
How do you help those in attendance not be offended if their name shows up in your jar but you don't find them appealing.
Just trying to think how to make it work without hurting feelings. So high school. Or junior high mor likely.
Love it Simples! You two are just full of goodness.... We mean good ideas!!!! Have a third party (hosts) read the names in the jars and the matching ones only get put back in?! Oh and, we're in!!! 
Have a third party (hosts) read the names in the jars and the matching ones only get put back in?! Oh and, we're in!!! Love it Simples! You two are just full of goodness.... We mean good ideas!!!! Have a third party (hosts) read the names in the jars and the matching ones only get put back in?! Oh and, we're in!!!
Have a third party (hosts) read the names in the jars and the matching ones only get put back in?! Oh and, we're in!!! I have found that sometimes you will find a new flavor that you really didn't look at before because of the package or the color that it came dressed in. For years I passed up a candy bar just because of the name and the package wasn't all that great. Can you imagine, the bar was called "u no" and it is now my favorite candy bar. Makes me wonder what else I might be passing up.... Just a thought.