So Mrs. Euro and I have had this discussion many time over the years in regards to what traits we find most attractive (gets our procreation juices flowing) with our partners. We usually come down to 3 choices being personality and within that it is the individuals confidence (not Cocky nor Arrogant) having their shoulder up, chin up, and eye contact. The Body and Face changes but typically the Body is number 2 followed by the Face for us (not always....lol)
Thus, we are curious to what other find sexy?
1) Personality
2) Body
3) Face
PS. There is no wrong answer as this is just your opinion except for Mr. Evil whom is not allowed to Post (as he can be a very Bad Boy...with too much time on his hands.....imagine that everyone....lol....okay Mr. Evil what would a thread be with out a post from you....please post away
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Thus, we are curious to what other find sexy?
1) Personality
2) Body
3) Face
PS. There is no wrong answer as this is just your opinion except for Mr. Evil whom is not allowed to Post (as he can be a very Bad Boy...with too much time on his hands.....imagine that everyone....lol....okay Mr. Evil what would a thread be with out a post from you....please post away
.really think it takes a little of all three for there to be any attraction here
At which point are we talking. The face and body will get initial attention but personality will definitely make or break either of those two, and if paired with face or body, personality will destroy the others. Examples a person with an attractive face and good personality can very easily (IMO) not have a good body or even a bad one, and visa versa on the face. With that said and I'm sorry to say this, especially since I (the mr) have more flaws than you could count on both hands, but its a lot to do with teeth and smile. No not movie star white and 10k dollars worth of corrective surgeries, but teeth that are blackened and stained, with several missing......well that is a deal breaker for anything sexual, friends are ok but otherwise it's like trying to stick your dick in a woman's ass without her knowing/wanting....usually resulting in a oh hell no.
To be more precise it seems that the Personality stems from the IQ/EQ area which we find sexiest and yes we like HWP and with teeth (most of time...hehehe) yet we do want to get know the individuals/couples as we find intellect sexier than just a hot body......whether to swing with or for a partner.
I think it all depends. If you have no real personality, I don't care how attractive you are, or what your body is like, I won't be attracted.
So my answer would have to be personality. Luckily, the people we have made friends with have all three!
So my answer would have to be personality. Luckily, the people we have made friends with have all three!
A sense of humor with great personality is by far the most important. I am not so picky on Body types as I have been with bigger men and find them very attractive and much easier to talk to. Face is also the same as a great personality can make a person look ten times better with a great sense of humor.
I love all types of body types and faces and again it comes down to personality!!!
I love all types of body types and faces and again it comes down to personality!!!
WAY too many variables to pick only from those 3 traits. For instance, breath that smells like ass can totally negate a stellar body, face AND personality. lol
HOTFIRELOVERS wrote:
A sense of humor with great personality is by far the most important. I am not so picky on Body types as I have been with bigger men and find them very attractive and much easier to talk to. Face is also the same as a great personality can make a person look ten times better with a great sense of humor.
I love all types of body types and faces and again it comes down to personality!!!
Hottie, my guess is that you pretty much have your choice!!!!
EVILDOERS wrote:
WAY too many variables to pick only from those 3 traits. For instance, breath that smells like ass can totally negate a stellar body, face AND personality. lol
PS>>>For those looking to get Sexy with with Evil make sure to take breathe mints and stop eating so much ass....
....hehehe....EUROCLASS wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:
WAY too many variables to pick only from those 3 traits. For instance, breath that smells like ass can totally negate a stellar body, face AND personality. lol
PS>>>For those looking to get Sexy with with Evil make sure to take breathe mints and stop eating so much ass....
I think salad tossing is another thread.
Ooops....a little ADD kicking in.....thus back to the post... 1) Personality, 2) Body, or 3)Face do you find the most attractive in your swinging partners or partner per say!!
I'll stick with personality and face!!! The stinky breath and body odor goes with a bad personality.
4 their money $$$$
Money....hmmm....good point....why does a big house make for Sexy?
EUROCLASS wrote:
Money....hmmm....good point....why does a big house make for Sexy?
if money is an attraction to you and I think you might be in it for the wrong reason, we like to think we do well financially but that is the last thing we look at, and it has never come up in a conversation nor have we ever asked people what or how much they make, we don't care, personality is our #1, body and face go together, as we try to look for people like us.
Body, then face on swinging/hookups/etc
Body, then face, then required personality on a significant other.
I keep personality last because typicslly its a hot body or face that makes someone go "ooh! i wanna talk to them!" and THEN you get to know them and see if personalities work out.
Body, then face, then required personality on a significant other.
I keep personality last because typicslly its a hot body or face that makes someone go "ooh! i wanna talk to them!" and THEN you get to know them and see if personalities work out.
ITSFUNTRYINGNEW wrote:EUROCLASS wrote:
Money....hmmm....good point....why does a big house make for Sexy?
if money is an attraction to you and I think you might be in it for the wrong reason, we like to think we do well financially but that is the last thing we look at, and it has never come up in a conversation nor have we ever asked people what or how much they make, we don't care, personality is our #1, body and face go together, as we try to look for people like us.
Itsfun.....lol...please reread as we were actually responding to the previous post from Dusty you silly peps.
FunCouple.......very interesting perspective as well as knowing that this is a fairly common conversation with couples.