http://www.salon.com/2011/11/04/the_fantasy_of_a_cheating_wife/
It's definitely heteronormative, and geared at the wife doing the cuckolding, but what about those of you that like it the other way around?
The lady of the twosome (and a fan of cuckolding, either way)
It's definitely heteronormative, and geared at the wife doing the cuckolding, but what about those of you that like it the other way around?
The lady of the twosome (and a fan of cuckolding, either way)
Whenever we play with another couple or in a group setting I have found I really enjoy watching my wife please and be pleased by others, it's one of my favorite aspects of sharing each other :-D
Couldn't have said it better Ebonyandivory!!! I get off on her pleasure, weather I am there or not; and she luvs to have me watch so a win win win for all involved.
Same here.. Love watching her cum with another guy(s).
I tend to set my gal up with a friendly cock its hot watching her be fucked...as she enjoys me having my turn as well.
Is it cuckolding if my wife is being ravaged pretty much equally by both myself and her live-in boyfriend? I like to think of it more as just sharing. As it is I get to watch her get fucked good every day now as well as joining into the mix.
I read the article and from a swinging standpoint don't consider encouraging and enjoying my wife's enjoyment of her sexuality as anything even approaching cuckoldry. I'm sure some vanillas might see it differently thru the lenses of their "vanilla goggles" but swinging is definitely NOT cuckoldry. The sad thing is that (yes, I have to go there) some single men view coupled male swingers as nothing more than cucks and often act accordingly and thus perpetuate the dreaded SM stigma. Don't get me wrong. There definitely are cucks in the lifestyle and to some the "hotwife" style of play approaches if not at times reaches the level of cuckoldry. But the vast majority of male swingers are definitely not cucks and simply enjoy the fact that their partners are free to explore their sexuality and "get off", if you will, on the fact that their partner is turned on and experiencing their sexual desires to the fullest.
I'm really fascinated by two things here: 1) The idea of "cheating." How do you define that? Playing alone? Or is it a more traditional, sneaky, dishonest type of sex? And 2) Deliciouslywet seemed to be the only couple that really enjoys cuckolding BOTH ways - watching her partner with another woman and having him watch her with another man (or any combination thereof). Are any of the rest of you ladies interested in watching your gentleman with another woman (or man, as the case may be)? I know I am, and it turns me on very much to watch him receive pleasure from someone who feels different from me.
Ok, I have a third question. For those of you that are only comfortable with MFM cuckolding, how does the idea of MFF cuck make you feel? I love hearing everyone's opinions and stories - I learn so much!
Ok, I have a third question. For those of you that are only comfortable with MFM cuckolding, how does the idea of MFF cuck make you feel? I love hearing everyone's opinions and stories - I learn so much!
FLAME_N_TJ wrote:
I will admit that was the one thing I worried about when we decided to join the LS...even though it was me that brought the subject up I worried about how I would feel watching him fuck another woman. To my pleasant surprise, I loved it! I love seeing another woman please him....its a huge turn on for me! One I can think about for days afterwards! ;-)
Flame
The "days afterwards" thoughts and discussion (we really like to talk about it afterward) are what really makes it for me!
I am interested in being the second in a MFM but it hasn't happened yet.
It doesn't turn me on to see her with someone but I do get turned on by the thought of a guy watching me and his girl for whatever reason.
It doesn't turn me on to see her with someone but I do get turned on by the thought of a guy watching me and his girl for whatever reason.
One thing that really drew me to this lifestyle was the lack of secrets. The pursuit of mutual pleasure and happiness, and the lack of secrets about it.
I don't play with single males very often, but I've sort of taken the position of "your fidelity is your business, just don't involve me." But if it was a swinger couple keeping secrets? No way would I get involved in that. I have no idea why the double standard, but there it is.
I don't play with single males very often, but I've sort of taken the position of "your fidelity is your business, just don't involve me." But if it was a swinger couple keeping secrets? No way would I get involved in that. I have no idea why the double standard, but there it is.
there are so many different definitions. Hotwife is the one we found that we like we have talked about cuckold but again it means something different to everyone. in our case we found it hard just to find a single guy... LOL
EBONYANDIVORY wrote:
I'm still not into her ACTUALLY cheating on me. As long as we are together, anything goes.
It isn't cheating if you know about it?