Here is the situation. You and your significant other have a threesome or foursome and the person you S.O. pairs up with has a new or better technique for creating an orgasm. This technique is either so new and different or good that they cum a lot easier and harder. The situation is that your S.O. blurts out "WOW You got to learn how to do that!!!!" How do you react? Do you get even slightly jealous, hurt, excited, offended, or what? :-)
I (him) would be excited at finding another way to provide pleasure to my partner and hope to learn from it....afterall isn't that why we are here? To find pleasure for ourselves and partners? I know that is why we enjoy the lifestyle. Just our two cents worth. G & M
I'm always anxious to learn. Tell me! Show me!
And, to help the ego, keep in mind that some of the reason we may be in Swinging - is to get something "new and different" - so don't take it that you were somehow inadequate before - just that you've BOTH found something new. You, too, may have something new for the other couple.
Abundance produces abundance: Don't keep the faith/knowledge: SHARE it.
And, to help the ego, keep in mind that some of the reason we may be in Swinging - is to get something "new and different" - so don't take it that you were somehow inadequate before - just that you've BOTH found something new. You, too, may have something new for the other couple.
Abundance produces abundance: Don't keep the faith/knowledge: SHARE it.
Now as Paul Harvey would say the rest of the story. I will admit for a split second there was a twinge of jealousy. *blushing* But I remembered I love her more than life itself and her pleasure is my goal. Then of course I asked the guy how he did it. He of course shared his secret and I have used it several times successfully. :-D We also discussed it and she admitted it caught her off guard as well and was sorry she said it. We now agree that we will use this as a learning experience and make sure we don't let things like this be an issue. We will also learn as much as we can from others and find news ways to tease and please each other. LOL I can hardly wait. :-)
we agree with forever, we both want to learn, never to old to learn, I love hearing Michele explode, cant be to jealous in this lifestlye. We have met some that have been, not a good thing.
Clay and Michele
Clay and Michele
LOL WEll insert two fingers to about the second knuckle. Curl the index finger (like come here motion) middle finger stays straight. Then curl middle finger and straighten index finger, then curl index and straighten middle finger. You continue to do this very very rapidly. :-)
Drove her to the peak and she came like gangbusters. :-)
Hope that makes sense. If not come on by and I can show you. :-0 WEG
Drove her to the peak and she came like gangbusters. :-)
Hope that makes sense. If not come on by and I can show you. :-0 WEG
Well keep in mind I said twinge. :-) I mean come on folks I am being honest here. It was a faint ego thing. I thought for sure I was the best at making the wife orgasm. Now this guy does his thing and she pops like crazy. But as I said it lasted about 5 seconds and then I laughed at how funny the situation was.
There is no jealousy at all now. :-) And we have a new technique that is super. :-)
There is no jealousy at all now. :-) And we have a new technique that is super. :-)
I would probably ask to be show how to do and what to do so i could learn the technique, or the corrrect way to use the toy or whatever. I love to make the women cum and if they are noisey, well that is like cheerleading.
Yeah hearing a woman cum is music to these ears.
That very way of wiggling the fingers in rapid alterneting motion is what I have personally used for a while. I find it is a bit different for each and every lady. At times just the slightest touch is best. then again other require more aggresive working over. However it hs been the case with me that even women that usually have a difficult time in reaching an orgasim can have several in just a short bit of time. I have no idea why except I have noticed that when doing that particular method of fingering a strong suction seems to build and draws her walls tighter onto your fingers. If you manage to find I tiny, tiny little kot ot bump really work that over. It will swell with stimulation but still be very, very small. Many times this little bump feels like a grain of sand. It is often located in the top just about 1.2 or 2 digits deep. If you can find such a thing hold on to your hat and keep your back covered, if not it is goining to get cat scratched.
Just my 2 copper coins worth.
Sterling
Just my 2 copper coins worth.
Sterling
I love to see my woman pleased. The more excited she is the more excited I get no matter who is doing it. Isn't it all about pleasure anyway?
Have to say the technique sure has made it wonderful and look forward to learning more. :-) Hope it has helpd others too. :-)