I was curious about how many in the lifestyle met their spouse or current partner in the lifestyle?
met my partner in the lifestyle 7 1/2 mos ago and we're doing great!
We know a handful of couples who met in the lifestyle. Many stop playing while they're getting their newfound relationship off the ground and a few stop playing altogether although they still seem to want the social aspects of swinging...just not the sex apparently.*shrug*
I had to look it up. Going on year #4 but it seems timeless.
Hmmm, that is a bonus when they are already active in the lifestyle I suppose.
Also looking for a fun Partner, Widower Here.
We both agreed to playing with others prior to saying, "We do" whereas not have future issues as we both enjoy sex with others. Thus, a lifetime together is happiest when being honest in the lifestyle...(although we actually met on match.)
Does meeting them in a bar scene of similar character close to swinging....In the small town of Tooele count? The things I can tell you about the underground of that small town would knock your socks off. We are going 7 years together. I had my girlfriend and my hubby fighting over me when we first met.(Not that he minded...He loved the challenge.)
We have been married for almost 4 years and we are still feeling like Newly Weds....we will grow old together....that is all that truly matters. Everything else is ICING ON THE CAKE!!!
Sara
We have been married for almost 4 years and we are still feeling like Newly Weds....we will grow old together....that is all that truly matters. Everything else is ICING ON THE CAKE!!!
Sara
I'm very happy for you HOTFIRELOVERS, may the flame burn forever. I agree with EUROCLASS honesty is like gold in a relationship worth having. I'm optimistic that I will meet my amazing swinger man someday.
KOIGIRL just realize that you are marketing and should use as many channels to market yourself. Mr. Euro was originally looking for a Lady within 25 miles then expanded his search to 200 miles and Mrs. Euro was 198 miles of the search engine geographically. We are confident that you will be inviting us to your wedding prior to the end of 2014!! 
Hoping all is oh so romantic in 2013/14...Euroclass.
Hoping all is oh so romantic in 2013/14...Euroclass.
Wow, 198 miles. That is incredible. I have been on her 2 years now and have met some fabulous couple snd singles. I really was not trying to market myself I just started thinking that most of my time is spent with couples and less with other singles so I started pondering the whole scenario.