An earlier topic got me curious about this. From my experience, men seem to be obsessed with penis size. Women strongly prefer a well endowed playmate, but downplay it because men are so sensitive about it. However, it's also very possible to be too large. I've also gotten the impression that thickness is more stimulating than length. I once found myself in a conversation with a few women who put it this way:
If it's smaller than 5" or over 8", it's fucking useless.
However, I never got a consensus about what the perfect size is. So ladies, if you were to order up a playmate, what would his measurements be downstairs?
If it's smaller than 5" or over 8", it's fucking useless.
However, I never got a consensus about what the perfect size is. So ladies, if you were to order up a playmate, what would his measurements be downstairs?
So, for you it's all about talent. Probably very true for most all ladies. In my experience, for women, sex is all about chemistry and connection. Swinging may be a bit of an exception. I've been treated like a walking dildo on more than one occasion, but talent was still a huge factor in such situations...
Assume that there's plenty of chemistry and talent, what would his penis size be if you were able to "order" it?
Assume that there's plenty of chemistry and talent, what would his penis size be if you were able to "order" it?
Honestly I've never had one that is too small and only one that was uncomfortably large. There is no perfect or ideal size for me. Really it is way more about the chemistry and how you use it
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.I think it's all about thickness.
Any length between 3" and 9" is fine with me. I'm not sure I'll ever understand some men's concern with the topic, as it's not a deciding factor for me. They are what they are, same as nose shape and shoe size and labial color.
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I am all about length my man has a very long one so for me small is a disappointment. I agree that attraction is important an ugly guy with a long one won't be a good thing.
Another analogy I was given...
Unzipping a guy's pants for the first time is kind of like opening a present. It might be an ipad or it might be socks. Either way, you have to act or be excited. Socks! just what I needed...
Unzipping a guy's pants for the first time is kind of like opening a present. It might be an ipad or it might be socks. Either way, you have to act or be excited. Socks! just what I needed...
+1 TOUGIRL. If it was all about a "perfect size" then a dildo would do just fine. Give me a guy with a huge brain and an even bigger sense of humor and I'll get off WAY faster than some prick with a big dick.
Ms. Evil
Ms. Evil
If I am going to have a night of sex in this lifestyle and I have to pick between a huge brain and a huge dick I would pick the huge dick. If I want to have a very intellectual stimulating conversation, I would definitely enjoy a huge brain but I wouldn't share bed with him, if doesn't have the rest. I am glad that they are not mutually exclusive characteristics, THANKS GOD!!!!
9 inch needle dick vs 7 inch + girth? ladies?
I have been told that all woman's anatomy's are different so the size or shape would totally depend on the woman. It would be like saying a big key would open doors better even though you have to jam it in there. I don't fucking know ?? Every time I am with a woman that I can hit the cervix with ( or the back ) she gets off the hardest, shaking the whole bit (cervical orgasm). I think it's funny how guy's become a fucking expert on this subject when the truth is the probably have no idea what it takes to get a girl going, I have more luck with wit, charm and making her feel comfortable in bed than anything. When I want to get some hot babe in the sack I just say hey, mines not long but... it's skinny. LOL
I've had an hysterectomy which shortened how much length I can take without pain. Big boys have to use my ass for that reason. Size does affect another part of the interaction... Those who show up with an attitude of "here it is, initiate worship" Are a major turnoff for me.
I prefer the attitude of "look what I brought, let's share!"
Another topic.. Body type of the man can change my approach to his package. Part of the fun is determining which position gets you both off best -a guy with a sizable belly doesn't often have as many positions available - the antithesis is that he tends to try harder.
I prefer the attitude of "look what I brought, let's share!"
Another topic.. Body type of the man can change my approach to his package. Part of the fun is determining which position gets you both off best -a guy with a sizable belly doesn't often have as many positions available - the antithesis is that he tends to try harder.
I've had a hysterectomy as well and i have experienced the polar opposite. Prior I couldn't even handle a 6" cock doggy because it would bruise my cervix. Now that it's gone I have had a 13" cock from behind with balls slapping my ass and loved it. To answer the OP I have enjoyed all but one cock that I have had the pleasure to experience. He was probably a little less than 4" and had the girth of 50 cent piece. Although the sex wasn't really enjoyable it was still fun because he was a really fun guy.
I have only met one cock that I didn't like. Most of that was because he was uncut and the foreskin was too tight to move. It was a cleanliness issue for me. I have never really been with a guy that was really small, so I can't really say. I pretty much like about any size and shape. I have never met one that was the same as another, which makes it fun to explore.
When we either become puffed up in our pride or overly fixated over one particular attribute or virtue we enjoy or possess or become deflated over one particular attribute where we may feel we are lacking we perhaps are diminishing our own joy and our ability to bring joy into the lives of others. We don
WAIT, you mean to tell me that not all guys in the lifestyle have huge 12" PORNSTAR cocks, like we think we do, WTF someone is not telling the truth.
Mrs. Cupl here.... honestly there is no perfect answer. My hubby has a nice about 6.5-7" dick with a very nice girth. His dick gets me much more excited than a 9" guy we hooked up with who was about as thick as a thumb.... Girth is by far more important than length... length is just a nice bonus!!
Perfect size for anal for me its between 5 to 7
Perfect size to deep throat is between 6 to 8
Perfect size for vaginal penetration is 7 to 10
My 3 cents LMAO
P.S No its not an invitation to send me friend request.!
Perfect size to deep throat is between 6 to 8
Perfect size for vaginal penetration is 7 to 10
My 3 cents LMAO
P.S No its not an invitation to send me friend request.!
As a bisexual male I always thought I was pretty average at just over 7". Turns out 7" is pretty big, for me girth all the way over length.
69ME wrote:
Perfect size for anal for me its between 5 to 7
Perfect size to deep throat is between 6 to 8
Perfect size for vaginal penetration is 7 to 10
My 3 cents LMAO
P.S No its not an invitation to send me friend request.!
So 7 would be a good general purpose penis?
SLOWHAND311 wrote:69ME wrote:
Perfect size for anal for me its between 5 to 7
Perfect size to deep throat is between 6 to 8
Perfect size for vaginal penetration is 7 to 10
My 3 cents LMAO
P.S No its not an invitation to send me friend request.!
So 7 would be a good general purpose penis?
I shall agree its the all around cock size but hey it doesn't matter if you have no clue how to use it and sorry no manuals available...LMAO
WOLFMAJESTIC wrote:
9 inch needle dick vs 7 inch + girth? ladies?
I don't understand the question...I didn't join the LS to settle. I'll take both length and girth. But to answer your question I would take a thick stubby over a slim jim any day.
MrsTj
Thickness over length for me too! Too long can hit the wrong spot.
Ok guys... what about vagina size? I know this post says ladies only, but I would imagine that all you guys are reading it anyways. So guys... how about it. Is there a perfect vagina size?
---the wife
---the wife
Yes please, I'll take two. 
69ME wrote:
Perfect size for anal for me its between 5 to 7
Perfect size to deep throat is between 6 to 8
Perfect size for vaginal penetration is 7 to 10
My 3 cents LMAO
P.S No its not an invitation to send me friend request.!
But what if we are your perfect size????????
I like to make them all hold still and let me do the work. Great excercize for the pussy muscles. Large ones are more difficult to work your muscles around. Also since I am bi, I know you don't need a cock at all to get a lady off.
To answer the vagina size question, I am a single man and I have been with women from under 5 foot tall and very slim, to taller then me and full figured and I have to say that although I do prefer small petite women, I also enjoy larger full figured women. From one size to the other and I have found that the size of a woman has nothing to do with the size of their vagina, and to add to that I have also found that as long as she keeps herself clean there is no such thing as a bad vagina, for me its not tight or loose, its more about wet, warm and body chemistry, as long as I know without a shadow of a doubt that I have pleased to the best of my ability then I am completely satisfied with every attribute of the woman I am with.
My take on the cock size discussion is, size shouldn't really matter as long as you know how to please a woman. I get that all men are different as well as all women, but lets face it gentlemen, if your not confident regardless your cock size, it will show while your trying to please. I myself have been told on more then one occasion that I am large, but I see myself as only average. My point is, I know how to please a woman, and I never even have to use my cock to do so, fellas learn to use your tongue and fingers to your advantage, learn that a woman's vagina is not the only pleasure spot on a woman's body, light touching, gentle kissing, soft passionate words are also wonderful ways to get a woman to tingle... correct me if I'm wrong ladies..
My take on the cock size discussion is, size shouldn't really matter as long as you know how to please a woman. I get that all men are different as well as all women, but lets face it gentlemen, if your not confident regardless your cock size, it will show while your trying to please. I myself have been told on more then one occasion that I am large, but I see myself as only average. My point is, I know how to please a woman, and I never even have to use my cock to do so, fellas learn to use your tongue and fingers to your advantage, learn that a woman's vagina is not the only pleasure spot on a woman's body, light touching, gentle kissing, soft passionate words are also wonderful ways to get a woman to tingle... correct me if I'm wrong ladies..
I’ve had cocks ranging from 5” to 11” and I loved them all. My perfect cock would be 8” long and really thick!
My sex partner is 7 inches but I don’t like too big 7 is my limit
TREETREE wrote:
Any length between 3" and 9" is fine with me. I'm not sure I'll ever understand some men's concern with the topic, as it's not a deciding factor for me. They are what they are, same as nose shape and shoe size and labial color.
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Well I think it's pretty obvious really when you think about it. Women are always fixated on size. Just look at the adds for gang bangs or couples seeking other couples to play. Being tall & or having a large cock is usually what is being requested. I watched a youtube that Steven Crowder did on a topic similar to this & he had some really good points on how women are actually more physically bias than what men are. I don't know why are women so concerned with their breasts to the point that they have surgery to make them the way they want? Or why are women so secret about their weight, we could literally go on an on. I feel both genders have their own insecurities & the opposite usually doesn't help indirectly. Just a few thoughts that came to mind!!!
007HOTTIE wrote:
I think it's all about thickness.
Preach! 🙌🏻
I think one should also remember that most women dont pull out a ruler to see the size they are told by a man who is or has "embellished" their resume time and time again. Much like the subway class action suit based on the fact that they advertised a 12" sub but it was less. Point being if your told over and over a 6" is a 7" or a 7" is an 8" you may say i want an 8 but really have been served a 7 all your life ??????????
Not sure what my size is but as a certified fuckologist (don’t look it up.lol) my penis don’t control me, I control him.. if 6inches makes her comfortable.. I’ll keep a eye on the cream mark- easy to notice on a BBC (if I am in control) and reserve the rest couple of inches for orgasm thrust.. based on DEEPER request.
EVILDOERS wrote:
+1 TOUGIRL. If it was all about a "perfect size" then a dildo would do just fine. Give me a guy with a huge brain and an even bigger sense of humor and I'll get off WAY faster than some prick with a big dick.
Ms. Evil
What SHE said! Ditto.
I can't be the ONLY one who read the thread header and briefly thought it was about chicks with dicks.
EVILDOERS wrote:
I can't be the ONLY one who read the thread header and briefly thought it was about chicks with dicks.
OMG . . . (trying to pick ourselves off the floor) Now THAT is funny!!
It cracks me up that this was a 6 year old thread (2013) ... and somehow it gets CPR and revived a week ago LMAO .. how does that happen? 😂... butt here are my 2 pennies ... it’s not just about the length and girth ... neither matter if you have an ugly cock. A pretty cock is important.
DANDTCURIOUS wrote:
It cracks me up that this was a 6 year old thread (2013) ... and somehow it gets CPR and revived a week ago LMAO .. how does that happen? 😂... butt here are my 2 pennies ... it’s not just about the length and girth ... neither matter if you have an ugly cock. A pretty cock is important.
I used to think it was a glitch in the site's code but now I'm convinced that it's the ghost of an angry single male who died at his keyboard cursing the gods of swinging for his relationship status (and perving and fapping just a bit to some of the hot profiles here) who managed to insert his malevolent spirit thru the ethernet and into the Swingular servers.
He awakens every now and then to wreak havoc on the site by resurrecting long-dead threads. If you happen to catch one when it first appears you'll notice NO new posts, just a creepy old thread suddenly popping up to say, "BOO!". And there are often multiple threads that 'Old Billy' will make Swingular regurgitate out of thin air. This one was obviously one of his Halloween pranks.
🤣
TOTALLY4FUN wrote:
I absolutely agree with you! Funny story, I met with a very attractive guy when he was visiting Vegas. He was young, so hot and in such great shape. He was fantastic in every way, but his cock was just.....well...too small. I may sound shallow, but it totally affected the experience. ...but damn he was hot!😉
Oh no hehe ... well small does not work at all for me either lol ... aaaand for me he needs to be circumcised as well. I know this is such a touchy topic for guys that aren’t circumcised lol ... but it’s just my personal preference 🚀 ✂️
I wonder what happens after someone clicks the “👍🏻“ icon at the upper right corner.
We would be remiss if we didn't mention, as an equal part of this equation, the bigger than normal vagina. It does 'take two to tango', so to speak. And a perfectly normal-sized penis will feel small if the lady in question has an abnormally large vajayjay...either naturally or as a result of, well, multiple factors. I mean, why should men feel all the guilt and/or anxiety for a less than perfect fit? 
Big penis and tight vagina for hire. Let us know. 😛
UTHOTCPLEXTREME wrote:
Big penis and tight vagina for hire. Let us know. 😛
After CAREFULLY reading your profile, and yes, I know, it's written in code...or possibly in Reformed Egyptian, I'm going to have to call bullshit. But just in case you're on the level how MUCH, exactly, does it cost to hire you both? And are you available for baptisms or bar mitzvahs?
Crap! It appears as though my 3 millimeter peter won't make the cut. I guess I need to resort to voyeurism and the five knuckle shuffle. I had such high hopes for my little guy. I was even militaristic in my training of him, you know, I have beaten him and whatnot. It has resulted in some serious growth (Nothing gargantuan in nature). I am happy to share the microscopic lab results with those who are either turned on or want to know more simply out of sheer morbid curiosity.
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EVILDOERS wrote:
After CAREFULLY reading your profile, and yes, I know, it's written in code...or possibly in Reformed Egyptian, I'm going to have to call bullshit. But just in case you're on the level how MUCH, exactly, does it cost to hire you both? And are you available for baptisms or bar mitzvahs?
Reformed Egyptian!!! 🤣🤣🤣😉
EVILDOERS wrote:
I can't be the ONLY one who read the thread header and briefly thought it was about chicks with dicks.
We thought the same thing!
It’s down right discrimination if you don’t like all cocks ! ... oh wait that’s another forum post 🤣
My hubby is average (6") and wonderful, sex is great with him most of the time. But I love bigger cocks 8" 9.5 " is my limit it won't go any further lol. Sometimes I get really wet (squirt) and with a smaller cock the guy doesn't get as much friction, coming from my hubby. I couldn't really feel it...like a hotdog in a hallway lol. But all the guys I have been with say I'm tight. That being said some men are very talented in other ways.
Don’t give me wrong, pennies size could look great and all, some work excellent but it does not define the quality of what I’m getting nor guarantee me a glorious “end”.
Taking with experience.
Taking with experience.