Hey y'all :-)
Well my bf and i have been together 10 years. We have went to swinger clubs in vegas and had 3 somes with my friends... which the friendship never ended well... Leson learned there :-/
Anyways we are looking for others to play... But we also needed to be kinda discrecte because of my profession.
Im not a social butterfly by anymeans but im well off with liquid courage. He says hes forgot how to talk to woman and feels kinda nervous.... Never was before.
We wana be able to go to a bar or someplace and be able to find someone. Can you give me advise on how to pick up a woman and bring her home with us. What do we say? What are signs that maybe other swingers know? Any help would be great.
Were just looking to be able to have fun with someone besides my friends.
Well my bf and i have been together 10 years. We have went to swinger clubs in vegas and had 3 somes with my friends... which the friendship never ended well... Leson learned there :-/
Anyways we are looking for others to play... But we also needed to be kinda discrecte because of my profession.
Im not a social butterfly by anymeans but im well off with liquid courage. He says hes forgot how to talk to woman and feels kinda nervous.... Never was before.
We wana be able to go to a bar or someplace and be able to find someone. Can you give me advise on how to pick up a woman and bring her home with us. What do we say? What are signs that maybe other swingers know? Any help would be great.
Were just looking to be able to have fun with someone besides my friends.
P.s. i have never been in another relationship besides with him. So i dont know how to pick up even men for that matter. Just advise on how to ask someone.
I think the key is just going to social settings and introducing yourself to new people. At first, it is new and you are a bit nervous, at least we were, and you get over it with time. Go to some meet and greets, chat with people in the chat room, maybe hit a few house parties. The flirting will come natural too. Some people want to build a relationship with you, some want no strings attached sex, you will find out which by talking to people. Main suggestion, get out and meet some people. The rest will fall into place.
I agree with two things here. First, it's hard to get back into the "game." Second, it's all about out there. No matter what you are looking for you can find. Get out of your comfort zone a wee bit and see what happens. You'll have successes and failures, neither are as big of a deal as you may make them out to be at first. The main thing is to have a good time and grow into the LS together. Good luck and Have fun! Oh, and GO SEAHAWKS!
Thank you guys:-)
What do i say to someone who were interested in?
Do i just go up to them and make small talk amd then ask or what?
What do i ask? Do you want to come play with my bf and i?
We live in a town where there are no swinger clubs that i have been able to find. :-( closest is about hr away.
Thanks again you guys :-)
What do i say to someone who were interested in?
Do i just go up to them and make small talk amd then ask or what?
What do i ask? Do you want to come play with my bf and i?
We live in a town where there are no swinger clubs that i have been able to find. :-( closest is about hr away.
Thanks again you guys :-)
Totally on board with Ebony, getting the initial play started always seams a bit awkward, I have always worried a bit about being to forward. For us it always seams a bit better if the girls kinda lead the way since it's typically their choice.
Bob
P.S EBONYANDIVORY Let us know if you wanna grab a drink sometime.
Bob
P.S EBONYANDIVORY Let us know if you wanna grab a drink sometime.
First with Men just look drunk works every time. For women you have to seduce them....bring them in on a line like a big fish.