In this Life-style we meet people from all walks of life and back grounds. Most groups we find say couples and like minded but no one ever really says what a couple is. Is a couple male/ female, 2 bi ladies , or two bi men, so what is your definsion of a couple?
As far as I know, a couple simply means two. Whether that is male/female, male/male, or female/female. But in these cases I beleve that couple is actually short for coupling, which means joined together. I would guess joined through a commitment, or in other words two committed people, or two people commited to eachother.
what we call a "couple" is a two people with some sort of history together who is attached emotionaly somehow. The couple WE are looking for however, would be a comitted couple (married or long term relationship) that is a man and a woman. Oh and if they are smokin hot....that is good too.
We agree about playing with committed couples only. We need to get a sense that they are into this not just for themselves but for their partner as well.
We haven't gotten together with a lot of couples on a one on one (or actually it's two on two) basis, but the couples we've met who aren't in long term relationships also come with a lot of baggage/issues, i.e jealousy, insecurity. It's even worse in a group setting. One person sill be the life of the party and the other is off in a corner having a miserable time.
We haven't gotten together with a lot of couples on a one on one (or actually it's two on two) basis, but the couples we've met who aren't in long term relationships also come with a lot of baggage/issues, i.e jealousy, insecurity. It's even worse in a group setting. One person sill be the life of the party and the other is off in a corner having a miserable time.
this has been brought up in a local group lately. when 2 bi ladies that have been togeather for over 1 1/2 yrs nows. and were excluded from the group because some couples M/F nin the group believe that they are not a couple because it is 2 ladies. personally i dont believe this was the right decission. so rules were change to m/f couple married or in long term relationship. which also makes a person ask how long is a long term relationship 6 months, 1 year, 2 years?
Lots of abiguity and vaguness in all of it to be sure! It's hard to know even if the posted info is right. We have to talk with both people in a "couple" anyway before any meeting would happen. It's our hope that by chatting before a meeting and a meeting before a night out will give us enough time to learn what the profiles can't tell anyone and avoid problems. So, we just figure a couple is the mathmatical definition and go from there! Lol
And... Lol at the "hot couple" thing! Another area of personal definition! No offense intended here... I just think it's funny because it reminds me of all the "hot" names that I've seen about people and then saw/talked with them and went "WTF?" after! I know we are not on the "hot" list as popularly applied and I'm good with it! I know I've had to trust in personality and things to help me for a long time! Lmao But hey.... in the geek/goonie circles I was fairly popular! Rofl.... Lmao!
Seriously, it is intersting that there are so many areas of personal definition and yet we can all usually connect with people we like, and like people we wouldn't necessarily give the time of day to on the street. Kinda cool.
Aj
And... Lol at the "hot couple" thing! Another area of personal definition! No offense intended here... I just think it's funny because it reminds me of all the "hot" names that I've seen about people and then saw/talked with them and went "WTF?" after! I know we are not on the "hot" list as popularly applied and I'm good with it! I know I've had to trust in personality and things to help me for a long time! Lmao But hey.... in the geek/goonie circles I was fairly popular! Rofl.... Lmao!
Seriously, it is intersting that there are so many areas of personal definition and yet we can all usually connect with people we like, and like people we wouldn't necessarily give the time of day to on the street. Kinda cool.
Aj
Oh.... and sorry for my several typos!! Anyone got the spell checker to work for them yet? Lol