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It will never go away. We only friend folks we have met. And NEVER respond to friend requests without an accompanied email. All such requests from single males, not taking time to write also get blocked.
If there is an email, if we hav time we respond explaining why.
And we also just leave them in the request folder so they can't send again.
To us, friends are friends.
It will never go away. We only friend folks we have met. And NEVER respond to friend requests without an accompanied email. All such requests from single males, not taking time to write also get blocked.
If there is an email, if we hav time we respond explaining why.
And we also just leave them in the request folder so they can't send again.
To us, friends are friends.
If you delete a Friend Request, that person can resend/re-request again - whether or NOT you opened it.
However, if you open it, then close it, without taking any action, and without deleting it from your e-mails, it blocks that person from ever sending you another request.
However, if you open it, then close it, without taking any action, and without deleting it from your e-mails, it blocks that person from ever sending you another request.
We don't take friend requests. Have your people call our people. We'll do lunch.
I started it and then accidentally deleted. I am just getting frustrated and annoyed with all the requests, only for people just to want toget ahold of photos. Also, what's with all the requests agefrom people old enough to be my dad or even grandpa! Oh, and the lying about the.age, I'm not blind!! Sorry about my awful typing, I'm on my phone and it's freaking out on me.
We do however take song requests and dedications. This is Radio Amor FM 69.1. All hits, all the time. This next one
goes out to Ron J. from Jenna J. "Dude, you're old and creepy. Time to hang up the ole Johnson and take up shuffleboard or something."
SEXFANZ wrote:
Almost all the ones we get are from single guys that want to see my wife naked or in action
I'm sure the couples out there have no interest in that! Lol
Yup, frustrating. Almost as bad as those f*ucking tops on pill bottles. 
Damn, it does get "old" hearing about the age thing. Just because we get a couple of miles on us does not mean that we can't still start the motor! As a matter of fact, many things get better with age like good whiskey, old cars and some great women that really blossom in their older years. No, I am not nor is many of the people my age going to just shrivel up and die or go away to some old folks home just because a few of you think that you still smell so great in your wonder years.
Your reaction and your preference are reasonable and understandable. We respond to request from people our children's age but we don't send request to people that young. Younger people like to be acknowledged by older people and older people by younger people but may not see each other as peers and lovers as we might see people our own age. There is a difference between being friendly and such and thinking the friendliness means something other than just friendliness. I have co-workers my age that rather than enjoying friendships with younger female co-workers insist on innuendo and more. Never-the-less, your reaction is what is upsetting you. I do not think a shapely young lady will ever stop getting hit on by all sorts of people in or out of the lifestyle. So, you will most probably have to live with the nature of your appeal and enjoy the gift of being just that. Appealing.[/quote]
I agree with what your saying. I guess my biggest issue is I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings and when I do try to let people know were not interested, people get all butt hurt about it. Its not like I don't find any older people attractive, but there has to be attraction. Anyway, I don't mean to offend anyone.
I agree with what your saying. I guess my biggest issue is I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings and when I do try to let people know were not interested, people get all butt hurt about it. Its not like I don't find any older people attractive, but there has to be attraction. Anyway, I don't mean to offend anyone.
Everyone needs to get over the age thing. If a couple is not interested in people much younger or older, respect it. There are plenty of 20 and 30 somethings that like older couples and plenty of people your own age that you can pursue your fantasies with.
Charlie & Kathi
Charlie & Kathi
I am pretty sure we are all here for friends . So what's the big deal with friends request? If your worried about people that want to just see your pictures there is a easy way to solve this . Take all your naked pictures out of your profile .We only want to see you naked if we hangout with you . I mean really I think people have a hard time talking to others it is really stupid kind of childish .Even if you get a friends request followed by a e-mail 90% of the couples on here wouldn't have the balls to just easily say we are not interested most would not even reply back kind of sad really but it is a fact . If you look at a profile and say omg she has a few extra pounds or doesn't have blonde hair or omg hes 40 or 50 and never take the time to see how they are as people then your really shallow . Sharing is caring happy humping
Bad
Bad
I appreciate the feedback and I don't take anything anyone said personal. Like I said in my first post, its when you feel like people friend request you just for your photos AND I mentioned the age thing. I'm not talking 10-15 years older... I'm saying 20,25,30 years my senior. Everyone is grasping to the age comment, and that's fine. My real issue lies with people only friend requesting ( no message attached)no message after, it feels like people just want to photo gawk is all, otherwise delete me as a friend and move on, I won't be offended.
well this was five minutes of my life I cant get back. oh ya no friend requests
Our problem with the whole process is; We get a nice email and a friend request. Great! We accept and email back thanking them for their interest in us, possibly suggesting we meet sometime or ask more about them.
After that it is resounding silence... Sure everyone gets busy and a certain amount of time going by would be expected, but weeks of nothing... If you didn't want to communicate, possibly meet us why did you send the request? Pretty much the same type of pictures are in our private album as our public, so if they decided we are butt ugly they should have known up front
Is it "OMG I didn't notice before that (he is bi|she so much younger|they expect me to *talk* to them!!), shit! I'd better ignore them.
Mysteries of the ages... Oh well we are starting to drop people back out of the friend list.
After that it is resounding silence... Sure everyone gets busy and a certain amount of time going by would be expected, but weeks of nothing... If you didn't want to communicate, possibly meet us why did you send the request? Pretty much the same type of pictures are in our private album as our public, so if they decided we are butt ugly they should have known up front
Is it "OMG I didn't notice before that (he is bi|she so much younger|they expect me to *talk* to them!!), shit! I'd better ignore them.
Mysteries of the ages... Oh well we are starting to drop people back out of the friend list.
The underlying problem is the "we're swingers, you're swingers" mindset. We've been around the scene for a long time and met many many people who don't understand why we won't just fuck them...afterall, they're swingers and we're swingers...so let's just fuck already. This "hobby" is for fantasy fulfillment. If you aren't at least a little bit attracted to someone for any reason then what the hell is the point of fucking them? Especially when most of us can stay home and have WAY better sex with someone we love.
EVILDOERS wrote:
The underlying problem is the "we're swingers, you're swingers" mindset. We've been around the scene for a long time and met many many people who don't understand why we won't just fuck them...afterall, they're swingers and we're swingers...so let's just fuck already. This "hobby" is for fantasy fulfillment. If you aren't at least a little bit attracted to someone for any reason then what the hell is the point of fucking them? Especially when most of us can stay home and have WAY better sex with someone we love.
Well put!!!
EVILDOERS wrote:
The underlying problem is the "we're swingers, you're swingers" mindset. We've been around the scene for a long time and met many many people who don't understand why we won't just fuck them...afterall, they're swingers and we're swingers...so let's just fuck already. This "hobby" is for fantasy fulfillment. If you aren't at least a little bit attracted to someone for any reason then what the hell is the point of fucking them? Especially when most of us can stay home and have WAY better sex with someone we love.
Exactly!!! Couldn't put it better myself!!
EVILDOERS wrote:
The underlying problem is the "we're swingers, you're swingers" mindset. We've been around the scene for a long time and met many many people who don't understand why we won't just fuck them...afterall, they're swingers and we're swingers...so let's just fuck already. This "hobby" is for fantasy fulfillment. If you aren't at least a little bit attracted to someone for any reason then what the hell is the point of fucking them? Especially when most of us can stay home and have WAY better sex with someone we love.
Well fucking said!
AZWETNWILD wrote:SEXFANZ wrote:
Almost all the ones we get are from single guys that want to see my wife naked or in action
And that's a bad thing? she's hot.
i have to say so is yours
Who cares why anyone does it really? You always have the choice to do whatever you want with it. We get ignored when we email, we get ignored when we friend request, ok, no biggie. We get it, you're likely not interested or busy with real life. Also, why is it somehow offensive that a guy or older or younger person may find you attractive? Slow down people. Let's quit taking little things and making them into something. An introductory email, while polite, isn't going to make us more or less interested in anyone. Too much real shit to worry about to be sad about swinger site unwritten rules of etiquette!
Mrs DD
Mrs DD
what offends me are the 20 somethings that hit on me, and ms. karma has to beat them off (no pun intended)with her walker or a 4 iron, and potentially inflaming her bursitis (sic).
Exactly. Whippersnappers. Hey...you kids...get off my lawn!
yea...I usually just get out the hose...(oops again, no pun intended).
yea...I usually just get out the hose...(oops again, no pun intended).
yea...I usually just get out the hose...(oops again, no pun intended).
triplicate...time to take me back to the home!