we've talked about it for awhile now and have decided if we can find that dpecial bi lady we would a poly couple the thought of a second wife sometimes scares me then again it doesn't. anyone know a good place to find single woman looking for a poly lifestyle
Hilldale? Colorado city? Ah, sheez, I'm just teasin!
Prolly not a swingers site. There are actually poly communities on the internet where you can start exploring but be forewarned, a lot of polys abhor the notion of swinging almost as much as the vanilla world does.
EVILDOERS wrote:HUH? Who the heck are you? The Evil that I know could not POSSIBLY let this post go without some kinda wise-crack or joke! IMPOSTOR I say, IMPOSTOR!
Prolly not a swingers site. There are actually poly communities on the internet where you can start exploring but be forewarned, a lot of polys abhor the notion of swinging almost as much as the vanilla world does.
Says the woman who mysteriously disappears for days or weeks at a time. The smart money is on alien abduction but I'm thinking something more along the lines of a court mandated convent stay due to excessive sluttiness. :-P
PALS4FUN wrote:
Hilldale? Colorado city? Ah, sheez, I'm just teasin!
No you were not! lol
How about a nice Cocker Spaniel instead? WAY less trouble. 
(easier to housebreak too...)
(easier to housebreak too...)
There are a lot of poly groups on Facebook. I have done tons of research on it because I am a sexologist and writing a book on sexuality right now. I can turn you on to some people I know that are poly. There are some very successful poly relationships that I know of personally.
BIBIBABYBIBI wrote:
I am amazed at the level of asshole-acidity that exists in the lifestyle. Is it because the original poster was from someone less than perfect in appearance or are you really just this stupid? What makes you Jr. High level morons come out of the woodwork and start your bullying?
Any intelligent person should be able to tell that they were talking about "polyamorous" not "polygamy."
Bully the bullies, is that it? No one mentioned the original poster's appearance until you did. You call people bullies, at the same time calling they stupid and un-intelligent. What the original poster did do was say "second wife", and that's a polygamy term. So who's the asshole now?
1. Some poly relationships are not a three way love match but dedication, love, devotion etc to one central figure.
2. Religious Polygamy is a form of poly where it is only necessary for the women to get along. Each may or may not have their own house etc.
3. Every relationship has its drawbacks. It does not matter if it is poly or otherwise.
4. There are joinings and separations in every community. Some call it marriage and divorce and some use other names such as covenant.
5. The more people you add to a relationship the greater the difficulty in making it work.
Good luck!
2. Religious Polygamy is a form of poly where it is only necessary for the women to get along. Each may or may not have their own house etc.
3. Every relationship has its drawbacks. It does not matter if it is poly or otherwise.
4. There are joinings and separations in every community. Some call it marriage and divorce and some use other names such as covenant.
5. The more people you add to a relationship the greater the difficulty in making it work.
Good luck!
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Funny shit !!!! She asked a question about poly and she gets a bunch of jokes and lame ass stories with big words . I just love how open minded and helpful the swinging community is 
And we love that you love it, BAD. 
EVILDOERS wrote:SOB, that was supposed to be a sealed record....DAMN ALL THE LAWYERS
Says the woman who mysteriously disappears for days or weeks at a time. The smart money is on alien abduction but I'm thinking something more along the lines of a court mandated convent stay due to excessive sluttiness. :-P
BADBOY8P wrote:Actually the postings that you find funny keep the OP's post up on the list, a polygamy post that may well have degeneratated off the list and received NO helpful responses otherwise. It's really not that hard to sort through to the good stuff--whatever it is that you consider good stuff. Except that they now have to sort through posts from the self-appointed "forum police" as well. Oh, and HE asked a question about a 2nd wife which I'm not all that sure has anything to do with swinging? I gotta agree with you though ... there's nothing worse than a bunch of folks being light-hearted about it all. We really need some more seriousness and drama here ... so thanks for that.
Funny shit !!!! She asked a question about poly and she gets a bunch of jokes and lame ass stories with big words . I just love how open minded and helpful the swinging community is
Been attempting poly relationships for oh... about, 10 years now - VERY, VERY difficult!!! But came real close a few times and it was amazing while it lasted!
If you think it can be tough to find another couple where everyone likes each other at a simple swing party then we suggest you dont even try to take it to the next (much more emotional) level!
I think DELICIOUSLYWET might know a little bit about that to. ;-)
If you think it can be tough to find another couple where everyone likes each other at a simple swing party then we suggest you dont even try to take it to the next (much more emotional) level!
I think DELICIOUSLYWET might know a little bit about that to. ;-)
1DIVA wrote:Hmmmm...how would you feel about adding a chapter about Logan and how amazing it was??? LOL. Okay now I'm bragging... It would be more like a paragraph that you slept through, but hey, you're the author right? So jazz it up as much as you wish!!! I'm certainly open to the possibility of becoming a "case study" *wink*
There are a lot of poly groups on Facebook. I have done tons of research on it because I am a sexologist and writing a book on sexuality right now. I can turn you on to some people I know that are poly. There are some very successful poly relationships that I know of personally.
BADBOY8P wrote:
Funny shit !!!! She asked a question about poly and she gets a bunch of jokes and lame ass stories with big words . I just love how open minded and helpful the swinging community is
Right Tony Tiger! Just Sayin!!! (= Wink, Wink!!!
Great thread. You guys been watchin' the new season of Sister Wives? It's cray cray. Robyn is all up in Meri's bi'ness and Christine is all like, "Yeah fuck you, Janelle." And Kody is all like, "Hey whose turn is it to ride my trouser snake tonight, bitches?" 
I for one would be interested in polyamorous relationships. My late wife and I were more polyamorous, her wanting to remain in contact with her former lovers from Calif. I certainly was secure in our relationship. After all she left Calif to be with me in Utah. Had to be for something more than what is between my legs.
The last few months I've been the only one attending the polyamory meeting at Grounds for Coffee, on Harrison in Ogden on the first Saurtday of the month at 12 pm.
The last few months I've been the only one attending the polyamory meeting at Grounds for Coffee, on Harrison in Ogden on the first Saurtday of the month at 12 pm.
We've thought about maybe dabbling in polydactylism. Anybody interested? 
For those who actually gave us some useful advice thank you for the rest of you we may not be of a perfect appearance we have been in this lifestyle 17 yrs happily married and in the gym he is down over a 100 lbs and im down 75 most of the bullshit we get on here are from young people well here is some advice for you when you have a few kids and you get older shit starts to sag and hang like never before and for you others the mr here hasn't been able to get into a gym since serving his country and being injured while rich little punks partied on mommy and daddys dime he was crippled by a truck bomb being dropped on his barracks so if you dont like heavy people kiss our big fat asses and move on. we dont need youradvise matter of fact we call you plastic people put on a good show to our face but when you leave you melt that fake look away and say all kids of hateful crap sorry now im just ranting we just wanted some advise and should of know we wouldnt get it on here we been on this site since it came online and it sure has alot of assholes on here now
There was an ad in the paper (british) stating: Wedding Dress For Sale..
Worn only once, by mistake.
Worn only once, by mistake.
CHETDO wrote:
We hope you find what you are looking for. We would like to know what it is
called when a lady wants two men to come home to? Why is it OK for a man to
want two or more women in his life and it is way different my wife want one
more man in hers?
I was dating a married woman for a while, while her husband had a girlfriend. She had another boyfriend on top of that too. And then she realized she was a lesbian when she finally truly fell in love for the first time ever with a woman.
One of the hardest parts about poly is that there are very few people you talk to about it. And when it's over, you can't tell any of your vanilla friends why you've been completely heartbroken for the last few months. And if you're a single male in it, a swinger might just say "she was married....get over it." in response. Getting out of any relationship is tough, and just because it's poly doesn't mean it's any easier in the end.
CHETDO wrote:
We hope you find what you are looking for. We would like to know what it is
called when a lady wants two men to come home to? Why is it OK for a man to
want two or more women in his life and it is way different my wife want one
more man in hers?
ok, so polygamy is marriage between more than just 2 people at once. Polygyny is one man married to more than one woman. Polyandry is one woman married to more than one man. Your text to link here... It was practiced in Tibet, usually with multiple brothers taking on one wife, except it's been outlawed since China took it over.