Maybe someone here can help....we are having a really hard time finding real couples. We have chatted with several, but once the discussion turned to video chat, they don't have a cam...or don't have time.....or "she" is away (always something). this is all very frustrating b/c we would love to find a couple that we get along with, do some video chatting and see where it goes. Any tips....or takers?!
To bad your not in Utah !!! Lots of real couples here .......... 
we have one couple that we video with from time to time...we always have a good time. I think that it is the best way to know who you are chatting with. We really aren't into meeting up for real....but then again we haven't gotten to know many couples. my hubby and I just enjoy watching and being watched sometimes....
You wont find many couples that are into just video chatting !!!! Once you tell them you dont wanna meet just video fuck im sure people say why bother ...... Honestly we could just watch porn . But happy hunting
well yeah so could we....but interacting with another couple is much sexier....but that is just my opinion
I agree but in person not on my laptop !!! Not much different then porn . But to each their own
I think that the sense of hanging out with another couple, getting to kno each other as couples, then possibly playing together is exciting...I don't think I could let someone play with my hubby in person....but online is all in fun, we kinda look at it as a sex toy, just an addition to our sex life
Why are u on a swinging web site then ???? There are sites that will accommodate you ........
[quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]We are not Gamers ourselves but we know about such things. Is there a sexual version of World of War craft where people can fuck each others avatars online?
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Yes. Its called Second Life actually.
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Yes. Its called Second Life actually.
We'll chat online here as a social deal, but we don't do one on one video chat. We'd rather meet the people in person to see if there is a connection. That's where the real come into play. JMHO
whoa guys...don't take everything so personal! as far as the people who commented about "chatting" with me... I don't think you did... I prefer to video before anything else. to make sure I am not chatting with an undesirable pervert. It IS about building a connection that is what all of you are missing. We have never swapped before, nor have the desire to do so right now. we are just looking to get our feet wet I guess.....I am by no means ready to share myself or my husband with someone else in reality, but video chat IS a way to get use to the idea.
aff is exactly where you need to be. there are alot of couples that just like to be watched and to watch with no expectations of meeting. and they will chat with you as well.
Amazing! we bring so many new couples from aff to here! Never discount aff to simply cammers because we have met some of the best real play couples there, and brought em here.(Hey our one boner couple was from SLS..lol) bottom line camming sucks, be real, meet in person, or your not legit..sorry
BADBOY8P wrote:And were called soft..lol
I agree but in person not on my laptop !!! Not much different then porn . But to each their own
Most people understand that you're trying to get your feet wet and respect that, but a full blown swing site is the wrong choice at this time in your relationship, the fact is that the one thing people dislike the most is the long drawn out endless emails or chat or texts, people on here want to meet and see if they click. AFF has lots of couples on cams at all times and all flavors of perversion that you might want to try, to see if this is something you really want to do, just our 3 cents.