I was talking with a couple that I love to hang with and we come up with an idea to have a speed swinging event at a hotel or home. Everyone arrives and has a drink then you set a timer for 3 min and you talk, touch whatever you want with one person for 3 minutes then a timer goes off and you switch partners till everyone has met everyone then you set a timer for 5 or 10 min and you keep going until you find a couple or a single that you want to spend more time with. Anyone think it would be fun? Any thoughts. Hopefully, I made sense.
Interesting
I like it too.
Sounds good to us!!!
Pass, we never hurry..lol
Sounds great
that would be BLAST. WHAT a great way to introduce people to each other. I got some ideas that would work for this .. hmu.
i would love it. what a great way to put single into the mix of things
count us in would be fun
Nice.......put in a time out refresh zone.....keep the party going.....count me in ...
We are totally down. 
This is interesting !!!!! But I don't see this working well . Most couples have so many different rules and are looking for so many different things . But too each their own !!!!!!
This is funny I just last week had a conversation with a friend about this. Saying how it could be a fun way to get out there. I would say the idea isn,t to touch or grope for 3 minutes but to introduce yourself and have a couple minutes of conversation. How many times at meet n greets do most people just stay in the little groups and don't go around and say hi to people. Putting all the "risk" on the new people who don't know any body there. Same goes for the parties. It's hard to be the couple on the block and get comfortable with people who have known each other for a while.
Anyway again thought it was a funny coincidence about the idea and I think it would be kind of fun and count us in.
And there is always going to be the possibility of creepiness, at least it has been there at almost every event/gathering we've been to, but that would be why certain information is kept confidential by the host so there has to mutual interest for any of the information to be passed along.
Anyway again thought it was a funny coincidence about the idea and I think it would be kind of fun and count us in.
And there is always going to be the possibility of creepiness, at least it has been there at almost every event/gathering we've been to, but that would be why certain information is kept confidential by the host so there has to mutual interest for any of the information to be passed along.
We think this would be great for a meet and greet type set up. We are picky but not so snobbish that we can't talk to someone for three minutes even if its to say thank you but we are not interested in you. Meeting people is what keeps the world going around. Think of the two or three connections that could make a friendship that otherwise would never have happened.
We would make the time to show up.
We would make the time to show up.
Wow, great ideas and perspectives all of you. That is what is so amazing about the forum is you hear views that you did not think of at the time. The idea could be tweaked by whom ever is setting up the meeting. You could do it more like a meet and greet so everyone mingles or you could just invite the tried and true friends or you could be a little more adventurous and go with it as originally stated.
I'm taking notes and going to set in motion my first one. Hmmm, oh, the fun options. I will be sending out some invitations to my first speed swinging session.
WEWNT2PLAY wrote:
This is funny I just last week had a conversation with a friend about this. Saying how it could be a fun way to get out there. I would say the idea isn,t to touch or grope for 3 minutes but to introduce yourself and have a couple minutes of conversation. How many times at meet n greets do most people just stay in the little groups and don't go around and say hi to people. Putting all the "risk" on the new people who don't know any body there. Same goes for the parties. It's hard to be the couple on the block and get comfortable with people who have known each other for a while.
Anyway again thought it was a funny coincidence about the idea and I think it would be kind of fun and count us in.
And there is always going to be the possibility of creepiness, at least it has been there at almost every event/gathering we've been to, but that would be why certain information is kept confidential by the host so there has to mutual interest for any of the information to be passed along.
That is too funny about the similar idea. Love it.
All of the fun thoughts made me wanna have a party so that is just what I'm going to do. Check it out on the home page under parties. It will be a show and share party. No pressure, but we would love to have you experiment with hot wax, or share a skill that you might have or explore being tied up or what other kinky thoughts you might have.
I actually think it is a great idea. I am not sure any play would immediately come out of it, but it would certainly be a quick way to decide which couples you would want to contact further. Especially given busy lives, it may be just the think busy swingers need!
CNKISS wrote:
I actually think it is a great idea. I am not sure any play would immediately come out of it, but it would certainly be a quick way to decide which couples you would want to contact further. Especially given busy lives, it may be just the think busy swingers need!
My thoughts exactly.
BADBOY8P wrote:As long as everyone went in open minded and ready to play I think it would be ok, as long as everyone was attracted to each other, sounds fun
This is interesting !!!!! But I don't see this working well . Most couples have so many different rules and are looking for so many different things . But too each their own !!!!!!
We would be interested, given a meet and greet style. I would also say make sure it's CLEAR no means no beforehand 
CANDJ23 wrote:BADBOY8P wrote:As long as everyone went in open minded and ready to play I think it would be ok, as long as everyone was attracted to each other, sounds fun
This is interesting !!!!! But I don't see this working well . Most couples have so many different rules and are looking for so many different things . But too each their own !!!!!!
I say tear it up !!!!!!! I think we all go into swinging with a open mind and there are people that will play with anyone but we don't but we do hope the speed dating thing works for all of you ..... Its funny how it went from speed dating to a house party .......
That sounds awesome. Sign us up!!
BADBOY8P wrote:CANDJ23 wrote:As long as everyone went in open minded and ready to play I think it would be ok, as long as everyone was attracted to each other, sounds fun
[quote=BADBOY8P]This is interesting !!!!! But I don't see this working well . Most couples have so many different rules and are looking for so many different things . But too each their own !!!!!!
I say tear it up !!!!!!! I think we all go into swinging with a open mind and there are people that will play with anyone but we don't but we do hope the speed dating thing works for all of you ..... Its funny how it went from speed dating to a house party ....... [/quote]
I did kinda go off the subject but now I'm back on track and the party will be a first Speed Swinging Party. Hopefully, I explained it well and if you have any ideas or better ideas please feel free to share. My mind was racing and so hopefully I worded it well. lol So party on Friday is a speed swinging party!
So, I did go off track for my party on Friday night so I did switch it to a First Speed Swinging Party. Checkout the details on the home page Please feel free to give some helpful tips if you like. I'm open. Now all you sexy people sign up and or send me an email so we can start visualizing the first party. Thanks for putting up with my change of mind. lol
sounds like it could be fun
What do you all think about if I have name tags that you put your name or profile name and then you place stickers on your tag to symbolize what you are game for. I would have the stickers there and for example a smiley face would mean just talk a set of lips would me open to kissing and then another sticker for touching and then one that means all of the above that way there is no groping by someone you do want and no means no.
Well I think it is worth trying because meet and greets are so difficult to get to know everyone there. I would love try something new
I'm hoping this will be like a normal meet and greet where there is no pressure, but hey if you wanna wear something really sexy such as lingere you can or if you wanna show off your breasts or dance in a way that you can't at a public meet and greet well, in a private setting you can. You could also after meeting everyone you could select just a cpl to sit on a couch and talk more intimately and touch a little without being on display in a public setting If you meet someone you don't connect with you are only stuck with them for 3-5 min and then you do not have to interact with them again if you do not want. You would move to the next person or cpl.
Sounds like a great idea single males allowed at this event
I'll try anything once as long as I am comfortable - if not I'll just say no thanks. We are game...
So what time would the speed swinging part actually start. Like I said we would to try this out but she won't be off work until 830 just want to see if she would have time to make it.
Probably 930 or so after everyone can get there. Please come and I have not invited any single men.
CPLWHOSHARE wrote:
I think the key is to just stay in your comfort zone, no where was it said that in the first 3 minute round that you had to drop your panties and take the shaft...so to speak, and maybe if there was someone that "creeped you out" the first go around there are some "pass chips" or something to use the next time around so you don't have to spend 10 minutes with someone you couldn't stomach for 3 minutes.
But nice thinking outside the box, it will be interesting to see how it goes off! *Thumbs up*
Exactly, I have name tags that will indicate whether you are bi or straight,just want to flirt, kissing okay, oral, touching etc.. So whomever you are paired with knows right away what is game so there is no misunderstanding. We need more couples to make it fun. I have not invited any single males yet and when I do it will be only a couple of them that I know and feel comfortable with.
I hope someone tries this again. We'd love to attend something like this. It's just a little short notice for us.
This would be awesome! Let's do it!
Sounds like fun..
Thank you k&k for hosting events where all are welcome you two rock and are the mark to be compaired to
1FUNN1 wrote:
Thank you k&k for hosting events where all are welcome you two rock and are the mark to be compaired to
I must agree K and K do a fantastic job of the meet and greets where all are welcome. Sorry that at some house parties not everyone is invited, but wouldn't that be just an ideal world where you just happen to have a house that is set up for a large number of people and able to be prepared with enough supplies that would serve the large number of party goers. I appreciate the large venues and the freedom to host smaller get togethers in a more private setting too.
Wow, what a lot of fun last night. Thank you to everyone who came to our Speed Swinging party. A few after thoughts are: mingle for an hour then start, and it helps if you use a timer or you forget how long, I would not number people off it is best just to say switch, and let everyone go from couple to couple in what order they would like, name tags a plus, we needed and wanted 6 mins. for the first round. The second round was about 20 min then it switched to everyone getting together and played Just Dare then after about 40 minutes it went from hot to "ON Fire", the nice thing is that you did not need to wait around till midnight to get naughty everyone was loosened up and wanting more. We had 10 couples and that seemed perfect to me. Let's do it again! Oh, thank you Scott84067 for hosting. Much appreciated.
what a great idea and party. we had a great time and what a great group of people and cant wait till the next. thanks Koi and Scott for hosting.
Invite us next time please
You would have the completely 100% "I don't give a fuck, I just wanna get laid" mentality. I don't see it working that great unless you had couples (3 or 4) you have played with before. If you could care less about who your spouse or partner went off with, then go for it. But we'd rather have fun together with people we already know.
Wow..this sounds like a lot of fun! Sorry we missed it. Maybe next time!
TIFFND wrote:Would love to have you attend on of my parties. I have always had a blast at your home parties.
Wow..this sounds like a lot of fun! Sorry we missed it. Maybe next time!
CB8071 wrote:
You would have the completely 100% "I don't give a fuck, I just wanna get laid" mentality. I don't see it working that great unless you had couples (3 or 4) you have played with before. If you could care less about who your spouse or partner went off with, then go for it. But we'd rather have fun together with people we already know.
Ya know I don't think many if any had that mentality. Partners were together so no one was going off with just any body. It was all in the same room, and so it was about adults enjoying the the company of other similar minded adults. I noticed that everyone was respectful of boundaries, and it was a good time by all that attended. I now know 3 other couples that I would love to spend more time with.
I want to try this...
[quote=TIFFND]Wow..this sounds like a lot of fun! Sorry we missed it. Maybe next time![/quote
this would work great for one of your smaller parties.
this would work great for one of your smaller parties.
DDRIVER03 wrote:Yeah it would! But it is nice for us to get to go out once in awhile, too! Lol
[quote=TIFFND]Wow..this sounds like a lot of fun! Sorry we missed it. Maybe next time
We'd love to try it, too! Sorry we missed the last one!
good idea if made with hot couples and zero single males