Why is it so hard to find a girl to come join us an play with us are we not what u are looking for or are we just not the type anyone want I don't get it we try an try but never get anywhere
Seriously put up a booty call !!! There are so many couples looking for single females on this site anymore ....... If there are any hot ones left on here im sure they are hiding . You will have better luck at a club
Yeah we are a couple we just want a girl to join us but nothing an we dint go to clubs hubby works a lot
All the new couples are looking for the same and single females are scarce !!! Good luck put up a booty call
We have have put up a booty call but nothing
Like I said good luck !!!! 
20 years ago when we got into the lifestyle we were looking for the same. Over the years we got lucky having a couple of ladies join us. It was the same back then same now. Good Luck but your chances of being with a woman is far greater if you ever get interested in couples. Just saying.
I think in our 5 years of the lifestyle, we have been lucky enough to have 3 threesomes (FMF), and 2 of them were married ladies with a hall pass!
They are called unicorns for a reason, and i doubt you will find one on the booty call, or by venting on the forums.
If you really want to meet people (single ladies), you need to go to the events, meet and greets, parties, etc. And even then, they are scarce! Really, your best bet in our opinion, is to go to a gay club, have the lady half of your relationship toss back a few drinks and go flirt!
They are called unicorns for a reason, and i doubt you will find one on the booty call, or by venting on the forums.
If you really want to meet people (single ladies), you need to go to the events, meet and greets, parties, etc. And even then, they are scarce! Really, your best bet in our opinion, is to go to a gay club, have the lady half of your relationship toss back a few drinks and go flirt!
Ok, are you effin' kidding me? I am so sick of ppl whining because they can't find a single woman. Does this website look like finda3sum.com? No, it's a site for swingers! Go to craigslist and come back when you're ready to play the game like it's supposed to be played!
Hahaha .......... 007 my thoughts exactly
007HOTTIE wrote:
Ok, are you effin' kidding me? I am so sick of ppl whining because they can't find a single woman. Does this website look like finda3sum.com? No, it's a site for swingers! Go to craigslist and come back when you're ready to play the game like it's supposed to be played!
not that we have anything against MFF threesomes arising through this site (please oh please oh please), but to 007 we say: HERE! HERE! and AMEN!
Recently came across a profile of a couple ONLY HERE to find a single female to move in and live with them as a standing 3rd, room and board and a new 4-wheeler provided (for incentive I guess).... are you kidding me? this isn't russianbrides.com (or wait, is it, nope, closed that tab... whew). I mean more power to them, but c'mon, the name of the site is SWINGular right? or am I missing something?
BamBam; you are too comical! And say hi to Peblz for us.
PEBLZ_N_BAMBAM wrote:007HOTTIE wrote:
Ok, are you effin' kidding me? I am so sick of ppl whining because they can't find a single woman. Does this website look like finda3sum.com? No, it's a site for swingers! Go to craigslist and come back when you're ready to play the game like it's supposed to be played!
not that we have anything against MFF threesomes arising through this site (please oh please oh please), but to 007 we say: HERE! HERE! and AMEN!
Recently came across a profile of a couple ONLY HERE to find a single female to move in and live with them as a standing 3rd, room and board and a new 4-wheeler provided (for incentive I guess).... are you kidding me? this isn't russianbrides.com (or wait, is it, nope, closed that tab... whew). I mean more power to them, but c'mon, the name of the site is SWINGular right? or am I missing something?
Will do, sexy Smithies! Ok...done. She says "Hollo" .... I think her mouth is full? and no, not like that... get your minds out of the gutter.
Simple fact: It is difficult to find a unicorn when you are poor, over weight, have bad breath, homeless, etc. If you are buff, but not too buff and have lots of money to spend on her she can be found on craig
Don't be a KA DOUCHE....Not saying you are but, really if your lady half wants a female....she will have to work towards it...show she is interested. On the game of finding a women you have to have a full house or a winning hand. Maybe even FOUR ACES in the hole. They want to be wowed not just a toy.
You taking the lead will not work....she has to do the talking and the flirting....that is how this works. Will always be the way and it won't change.
Your wife looks very sexy so I assume she can do this and find some fun times ahead. Patience in this case is very important.
You taking the lead will not work....she has to do the talking and the flirting....that is how this works. Will always be the way and it won't change.
Your wife looks very sexy so I assume she can do this and find some fun times ahead. Patience in this case is very important.
wtf.. so you think the unicorns on here or Craig list are only out for the barbie and kens or money? I am on here because I originally wanted to meet up with couples because I enjoy both men and women. I have met some awesome people on here and still have interest in a few different couples. The timing has just not allowed us to meet.. yet. I am not all talk. May seem that way to some, if so then its not meant to be. I am very busy working full time and school full time. When I play I want it to be with a definite physical attraction and some getting to know each other prior to meeting. Time is valuable for all of us. I can't waist time meeting someone I am just not interested in. No offense to anyone but for one to say that the unicorns on here are only out for specific qualities.. is insane. Yes I have qualities I am looking for.. certainly does not include barbie and ken look a likes or a wad of money.. wad yes, but not money ... hahaha that was funny. My advice is a good picture of both and not of physical anatomy, not interested, faces is a must, read my profile first.. there are certain things I do not want to be asked that state on my profile. good luck with the search.
LISSA2TERESA wrote:
Why is it so hard to find a girl to come join us an play with us are we not what u are looking for or are we just not the type anyone want I don't get it we try an try but never get anywhere
You are taking this waaaaaayyyy to personally! Plus people judge you on here in a lot of different ways. Like if you whine, your profile is sub-par in their opinion or your grammar and spelling suck. Just little things like that.
Our 3some experiences have been from friends that found out about events and wanted to go with us. Then once there chose to play with us. We have taken several single gals we have meet on here to parties with the understanding that we were just a safety blanket if needed and never played with them, no stings attached just went with us. Which works for us.
Simples.
Simples.
BEARZYKINS wrote:
You guys think you're the only ones looking for a single girl? Welcome to the club. You have to aak yourself what you bring to the table, that sets you apart from the literally thousands of couples here looking for the same thing! My advice is to be patient, respectful, social and realize that YES this is a couples site!! Also a more flattering pic of the hubby wouldn't hurt. (Just opinion, no offense intended!!)
Oh Oh!!!! guess I better not use this site and tell my friends and swing partners that I can't play here..... Didn't know it was a "Couples Site" ONLY, WTF? This is not a couples site.............. How lame.........
There are pleanty opportunities for real swingers here be it M, F or couples.... I have had plenty of contacts and playing on this site. Yes Unicorns are real and very hard to find, but once you have found one, you will love it. Question: Why are the single women called unicorns, they don't have a big protrusion sticking out like a single guy does, why isn't he a unicorn????
Maybe you aren't finding one cause you are all the way out in Hyrum......... Deet-da-Deet, Deet.....
Swinging is a couples sport !!! Look it up ...... Singles are just let in for added fun !!!! To bad u guys aren't looking for a single male they are taking over the booty calls !!!!! #just sayin
Find a friend to do it, we have found a couple single females on here but thats less than 1 a year, so not good odds lol, try making a swap with a couple, borrow a wife for a day and offer the same to them for another night
Ummm being a single female. I am looking for fun. Hot sex, Drama free, no surprises fun. If you dont sound fun, open,and honest. I will have concerns about hooking up. I am honestly usually two weeks out on a hook up. You need to look for a female that umm arouses your interest. Then start by sending an email. Yes, unfortunately it takes some work. To be honest couples make me the most uncomfortable (probably my personal issues) I like to hear from the lady first so I know there is one If your a couple we play as a couple. If you want to play seperate then advertise yourself that way. I am pretty new to this and these are just my thoughts hope they help
arouses your interest. Then start by sending an email. Yes, unfortunately it takes some work. To be honest couples make me the most uncomfortable (probably my personal issues) I like to hear from the lady first so I know there is one If your a couple we play as a couple. If you want to play seperate then advertise yourself that way. I am pretty new to this and these are just my thoughts hope they help Ummm being a single female. I am looking for fun. Hot sex, Drama free, no surprises fun. If you dont sound fun, open,and honest. I will have concerns about hooking up. I am honestly usually two weeks out on a hook up. You need to look for a female that umm arouses your interest. Then start by sending an email. Yes, unfortunately it takes some work. To be honest couples make me the most uncomfortable (probably my personal issues) I like to hear from the lady first so I know there is one If your a couple we play as a couple. If you want to play seperate then advertise yourself that way. I am pretty new to this and these are just my thoughts hope they help
arouses your interest. Then start by sending an email. Yes, unfortunately it takes some work. To be honest couples make me the most uncomfortable (probably my personal issues) I like to hear from the lady first so I know there is one If your a couple we play as a couple. If you want to play seperate then advertise yourself that way. I am pretty new to this and these are just my thoughts hope they help I have met some amazing couples and singles on here. I'm thankful for the friendships that have come out of it. I know for me location is priority. If I have more than one couple asking me to meet, and one is a lot closer then I will consider them first. I also agree that it is nice when the female gets involved in the conversation so I know that it is not just the male half. I do not play alone with the male half of a couple. I love meeting new people and if it just nsa sex then that is cool, but I personally like connecting as friends too.
BEARZYKINS wrote:
You guys think you're the only ones looking for a single girl? Welcome to the club. You have to aak yourself what you bring to the table, that sets you apart from the literally thousands of couples here looking for the same thing! My advice is to be patient, respectful, social and realize that YES this is a couples site!! Also a more flattering pic of the hubby wouldn't hurt. (Just opinion, no offense intended!!)
I like that look he has. I mean it really does look like he just took a shit in his pants look and to me that's fucking sexy. Hyrum Utah is not a hotbed of sexy young women? I am in shock.