We have been members almost from the beginning on this site and had limits set even before, they changed over the years but were always the same for both of us. By doing so we had no conflicts or arguments between us no matter how an ADVENTURE turned out.
Question is how many couples had a problem getting boundaries because its the first thing we give, almost every time we try and sometimes even PUSH we can't get a complete answer. When we made a decision to play without them what we found was the less they gave the more likely a problem would arise.
Another thread mentioned doing something with another play partner you refuse to do with your own partner. We both agree that would be an instant end to the lifestyle but more than that a sign of serious problems in our own relationship.
Question is how many couples had a problem getting boundaries because its the first thing we give, almost every time we try and sometimes even PUSH we can't get a complete answer. When we made a decision to play without them what we found was the less they gave the more likely a problem would arise.
Another thread mentioned doing something with another play partner you refuse to do with your own partner. We both agree that would be an instant end to the lifestyle but more than that a sign of serious problems in our own relationship.
My grandpappy aways said, "Good fences make good neighbors." That's what ya meant, right? 
EVILDOERS wrote:yes and we wanna move to his neighborhood.
My grandpappy aways said, "Good fences make good neighbors." That's what ya meant, right?
Why the fuck would you want to move to the cemetary? Pretty sure the restrictive covenants there are really strict. And they have some very specific requirements for residency there that most people find somewhat off-putting. 
EVILDOERS wrote:Ya but their boundaries are written in stone.
Why the fuck would you want to move to the cemetary? Pretty sure the restrictive covenants there are really strict. And they have some very specific requirements for residency there that most people find somewhat off-putting.
We had a whole bunch of boundaries when we first started. The walls came tumbling down the more experience I had (she was already in the lifestyle when we got together). We don't have a lot of boundaries, but now, after several years of swinging, the ones we have are pretty solid and well understood. Most all of them are about our personal preferences rather than limits we place on each other. That just comes with experience and trust. The more trust you have in your partner the less inhibited you'll be with what they do.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Mr. Sexperimentors
Our boundaries have changed drastically over the past year. And they change depending on the other couple. Not that they're lining up outside out house, but there are some couples that we feel comfortable doing certain things with, others might not be as comfortable. It's a matter of trust. Not as much between the Mrs and I, but between us and the other couple.
We try to find others boundaries when we're getting to know them. I definitely don't want to cross any of the other couples, and don't want them to cross any with us.
We try to find others boundaries when we're getting to know them. I definitely don't want to cross any of the other couples, and don't want them to cross any with us.
I was going to enter something clever and then I realized the simple fact is that Pussy will do absolutely anything with anyone, any time, any place with no restrictions and it works for us because I allow her to. That makes her pretty popular at most parties. But those are the rules we use and as long as I agree, she's happy and we party. It makes her very popular at Fantasy Fest, in Key West doing 30-40 guys each day. A club in Atlanta used to announce which nights we were there. This has been going on for years. She told me she used to go out with 2 guys at once in high school. The fact is Pussy has no boundries. We noticed at one of the Atlanta clubs a really popular girl seemed to get around a lot, but watching closely, the ONLY guy she had intercourse with was her husband. I think she wanted to look like she slept around, but only her husband was ever in her pussy.
In my personal opinion if you have a lot of boundaries as a couple then you are in the wrong lifestyle of swinging. There is a difference between boundaries a couple has made and personal preferences of what one likes and is willing to try or do sexually and what one does not like and is not willing to try or do. To hopefully help clarify a little more if you do not have trust in your partner so to not do full swap is a boundary then like I said, you are in the wrong lifestyle.
We have been doing this for a little over a year now. We had rules at first. Now we are of the opinion that as long as everyone is comfortable and into what is going on then party on! Personally, I (Mrs. 007) would prefer to just avoid the newer couples and all their rules. It's just too much! Let's just fuck and have fun!
We dont really have too many fences, before we meet a couple we make sure we are compatible so there isnt akwardness. We are up for whatever sounds exciting and gets people naked
no boundaries if the people we meet are hot 