Just curious. What does soft swap mean?
For us it means everything except sex by the Clinton definition. For a while we had our own rules within that definition though. We have since relaxed a lot.
Just not intercourse. Play time that's not as serious.
WETANDHARDUTCPL wrote:LOL We like this! Seems to be a pretty good defination. Have to say tho, for us, we enjoy it all!
It's like warming up the engine for another driver to take it for a spin..lol, some people prefer it but we want to take the vehicle out for a good fun test drive...
Soft swap we say is like teasing a child with a piece of candy!!! You can look, touch, smell, but can't devour the whole thing!!!!! What a Blue ball let down lol, good thing for a wife, or hubby that has your back lol 
We have to giggle when we see some,
1. Just looking for a female to join us only! "Key word" "One of us is very insecure"
2. One person can play other can't
3. We just like to be watched.
4. we just like to have sex in front of other people.
Hell could go on and on lol, but in our opinion and that means ours, Swinging is you swap partners, full on !!! SEX WITH OTHER SPOUSE!!!
Who the the hell puts on foot on the swing and says look everyone im swinging lol, We say jump on and hold on for the ride lol.
Maybe there should be another site called Soft Swingular
Our 2cents, have a nice day
We have to giggle when we see some,
1. Just looking for a female to join us only! "Key word" "One of us is very insecure"
2. One person can play other can't
3. We just like to be watched.
4. we just like to have sex in front of other people.
Hell could go on and on lol, but in our opinion and that means ours, Swinging is you swap partners, full on !!! SEX WITH OTHER SPOUSE!!!
Who the the hell puts on foot on the swing and says look everyone im swinging lol, We say jump on and hold on for the ride lol.
Maybe there should be another site called Soft Swingular
Our 2cents, have a nice day
Maybe soft swap for swingers is kinda like anal sex for little Christian virgin chicks. They don't call anal "God's Loophole" for nothing. LOL
Like we said!! Our 2 cents, but we knew someone would get butt hurt!!!
The definition of Swinging is just that!! So yes looks like they do need a Swingular soft for what you are looking for now!
The definition of Swinging is just that!! So yes looks like they do need a Swingular soft for what you are looking for now!
Soft swap is when the guy can't get it up and the girl says "here, I'll swap ya"
Soft swap = same room sex & causal touching the other couple.
Full swap = same room couples swapping partners for sex
Anything goes = partners engaging in sex but the other doesn't need to be present.
Hot wife = Man is watching wife fuck another man or lady for sexual voyeur pleasure.
Hot husband = female is watching husband fuck another lady or man for sexual voyeur pleasure.
Full swap = same room couples swapping partners for sex
Anything goes = partners engaging in sex but the other doesn't need to be present.
Hot wife = Man is watching wife fuck another man or lady for sexual voyeur pleasure.
Hot husband = female is watching husband fuck another lady or man for sexual voyeur pleasure.
Soft swap means different things to different people. We have been with couples that just wanted to watch and that's real soft. It's anything but intercourse but everyone will define it differently just like full swap, everyone defines it differently. Even in full swap, which you presume would include intercourse everyone has limits on what they want to do. As with everything else it has it's good and bad points but everyone has the ability to say no.
Top definition according to our Unabashed Urban Dictionary via google search and everything is according to google, right?
SOFT SWAP:
To share spouses/mates with another to the point of digital and/or oral copulation only.
This term comes from the home of Stephen, SuperGenius, who invented it spontaneously while referring to timid wanna-be swingers unwilling to take the PLUNGE
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HARD SWAP:
When you trade sexual partners...as opposed to soft swap where you just watch, or be watched, the other couple having sex. Sometimes soft swap does entail the trading of oral sex between the different couples.
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No Seriously, everyone most likely has their own definition of these "soft swap", "hard swap" terms. So rather than leave it up to each individual's own version or opinion...wouldn't it be a good idea to simply discuss with all what each is comfortable doing and what the boundaries may be on a particular night and/or with a particular couple or play partner? We believe communication is the key and everyone should feel comfortable and that there should be no pressure and no expectations.
SOFT SWAP:
To share spouses/mates with another to the point of digital and/or oral copulation only.
This term comes from the home of Stephen, SuperGenius, who invented it spontaneously while referring to timid wanna-be swingers unwilling to take the PLUNGE
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HARD SWAP:
When you trade sexual partners...as opposed to soft swap where you just watch, or be watched, the other couple having sex. Sometimes soft swap does entail the trading of oral sex between the different couples.
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No Seriously, everyone most likely has their own definition of these "soft swap", "hard swap" terms. So rather than leave it up to each individual's own version or opinion...wouldn't it be a good idea to simply discuss with all what each is comfortable doing and what the boundaries may be on a particular night and/or with a particular couple or play partner? We believe communication is the key and everyone should feel comfortable and that there should be no pressure and no expectations.
JUSTDIDIT wrote:We have found each couples definition is diffeeent.
Just curious. What does soft swap mean?