Okay so maybe I'm naive lol but I'm confused... Can someone please explain what you feel the difference is between bisexual and bi comfortable??
From a male standpoint without referring to any dictionary. bisexual, lets get with it. Still attracted to opposite gender but fine with anything with same gender. Bicomfortable, just means if swords cross, or he grabs my dick etc. im not going to freak out. Just not getting in my ass.
From a women's perspective bi comfy means you like girls from the waist up- but don't mind if they go south of the border on you 
According to Ms. Evil the difference is that if you are bisexual you enjoy sexual play with someone of your same sex and actively seek it out whereas bi-comfortable is simply that you don't mind engaging in a little bit of sexual play with members of the same sex but (in Ms. Evil's case) it's usually more about doing it to excite the males present than it is about any real same sex desires.
Woah it all makes sense!!! LOL thanks errybodddy!!! I think I may actually have figured out where I fall... Bi comfortable
MYOHMY wrote:
Bisexual is when...
Two male friends discussing a wife swapping scenario decide to go away for the weekend with their wives. They check into a cabin and after a nice meal they pair off and head to the bedrooms. After an intense night of wild sex the two friends meet in the kitchen the next morning.
"That was awesome!" says the first guy, "We must do that again!"
"Yeah," says the second, "I wonder how the girls got on?"
Then I definatley am not bisexual. i have no problem with men, but would never choose a night with a man over a night with his wife.
Mrs Sojocouple calls herself 'boobie bi'
She enjoys kissing another woman and playing with their beautiful 'boobies' but that is about it for her.
She enjoys kissing another woman and playing with their beautiful 'boobies' but that is about it for her.
I don't believe in labeling and giving yourself a name....just sayin!!
Some Joe Smoe made up names for different desires and it use to be a slang term....rather be know as SARA HOTFIRE if I need a label hehehe
Some Joe Smoe made up names for different desires and it use to be a slang term....rather be know as SARA HOTFIRE if I need a label hehehe
My wife and I like to use the term "hetero-flexible" We would never go looking for an encounter with the same sex but have no issues with everyone being in a pile. It really is fun when you don't have to worry about who's touching who. And since the Mrs. LOVES DP and DVP it's just that much easier.
Gosh Iresqyou - love your attitude, ours exactly. Like your new term too :-)
I agree labels can be limiting, but a common understanding is helpful here where we are communicating preferences to find compatible couples/singles for play.
So here is my question for all of you...
I have no experience with girl on girl at all, but I am very interested in trying it out--not just for his enjoyment, but for mine as well. I find women's bodies fascinating and think I would really get off on pleasuring another woman. But, again, it has been fantasy so far as the opportunity has not come up. Does that make me Bi-Curious, Bi-Comfy, or Virgin-Bi-Sexual???
So here is my question for all of you...
I have no experience with girl on girl at all, but I am very interested in trying it out--not just for his enjoyment, but for mine as well. I find women's bodies fascinating and think I would really get off on pleasuring another woman. But, again, it has been fantasy so far as the opportunity has not come up. Does that make me Bi-Curious, Bi-Comfy, or Virgin-Bi-Sexual???
I aim to please. Bi, to me, is in the giving and having fun with everybody. I am polite and respectful of boundaries. I have always had penis envy. I have always wished I had one. I love to give to women. I don't have a penis of my own so, it is great to have men that will share theirs with me..lol
MYOHMY wrote:
I never do jokes about bisexuals because they can go either way.
I see what you did there
almost every person has a different idea about what it means. that's why you email them & try to guess if they are straight like there profile says. or bi like they are trying to tell you ( or they just thinking they will get to play with the wife. or single & really married & trying to sneak away (might show most the time won't )