We'll go first. Ours is actually a very common story, I think, here in Utah and the reason a lot of us are now total sluts!
Both of us grew up in VERY strict religious households. Virgins (barely) when we married (in college) and took to sex like ducks to water. Soon we started discussing fantasies and realizing that we both had serious doubts about religion and one day I brought home a swinger's magazine with couples ads, p.o.boxes, etc. . This was pre-internet by a few years and we thought it was probably made up like Penthouse Letters. Couldn't imagine people swapping spouses. Eventually the fantasy talk got the better of us and we decided to see what it was all about and decided to start exploring it. Imagine two very sexual people who had only experienced each other now giving each other permission to explore others sexually. Almost twenty five years later here we are.
Both of us grew up in VERY strict religious households. Virgins (barely) when we married (in college) and took to sex like ducks to water. Soon we started discussing fantasies and realizing that we both had serious doubts about religion and one day I brought home a swinger's magazine with couples ads, p.o.boxes, etc. . This was pre-internet by a few years and we thought it was probably made up like Penthouse Letters. Couldn't imagine people swapping spouses. Eventually the fantasy talk got the better of us and we decided to see what it was all about and decided to start exploring it. Imagine two very sexual people who had only experienced each other now giving each other permission to explore others sexually. Almost twenty five years later here we are.
Real men start swinging ON their missions.
I was 16 when I started swinging, well before I knew there was a word for it, other than slut.
So were married at 16 or just fucking a lot of different people or like partying with married couples? Maybe this goes back to semantics and what constitutes swinging vs. hooking up or whatever.
Had a threesome with my boyfriend and his best friend. We were all sober.
Btw, I read "married at 16" and shuddered, thanks.
Hell, I just remembered I shared the guy I was with when I was 15.
Btw, I read "married at 16" and shuddered, thanks.
Hell, I just remembered I shared the guy I was with when I was 15.
I (mr fun) started at about 19, its a long story but for years my parents would ship me off to grandmoms or to stay at little billys house for a sleep over. I would come home the next day and most of their friends would just be leaving. I finally realized what was going on, here i am at 50 with a beautiful wife and we are still going strong.
It started with one day as I was bringing in the garbage cans I noticed someone had thrown away a swinger magazine and some mens magazines. I took them in the house and we started reading the swinger magazine. We were also brought up strict and we read the magazine thinking, there is no way this happens in UT. Well it got us talking and here we are.
Chastity is bisexual and wanted another female in the mix, so we joined aff and then learned about this Utah based web site from people we met. Things slowly progressed from mff to full swap, and now thinking about mfm. Mr chastity was also raised strict Mormon and successfully completed a mission, despite his actions. Chastity never really saw herself falling in love and getting married, but ended up falling in love with mr when she was 19. She didn't want to fully commit because she didn't have enough notches on her bedpost. With swinging she gets to sew those wild oats and be in a loving marriage with her best friend
We both started post divorce. We knew there had to be more than either of us had had in our marriages, which wasn't much. We met at a nude swimming party. She'd been actively swinging with a boyfriend and some other couples for about a year. I expressed an interest and she got me involved. Now we're happily married and still swinging when we can.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Mr. Sexperimentors
We were older and went to a club to be nosy. Just observed turned down a few. At the end of the night Fae allowed one guy to give her a passionate kiss. When we got in the car she said I think I could like this. So we visited a club closer to home made our first contact and here we are.
A lot of couples that we have met were married in the temple. Just wondering what the turn around time is between getting married in the temple and joining the lifestyle?
TREETREE wrote:
I was 16 when I started swinging, well before I knew there was a word for it, other than slut.
My kind of girl.
"Just wondering what the turn around time is between getting married in the temple and joining the lifestyle?"
Took us about 5 years.
Took us about 5 years.
I married the man who helped me escape my virginity....we were each others first time. We had college friends who were swingers and when I started to feel trapped and agitated about monogamy at age 21, it was natural for us to consider the lifestyle as the best of both worlds.
We had already had an over the top sex life. Once we watched the HBO sex series, we both looked at each other and said,"That looks fun!" Took us a while to act on it though. We have been in it for 9 years and finally acted on it 2 1/2 years ago. Love the hell out of it!
Ours is a multi-faceted, complex, and intricate mosaic of reasons, centered around an all-encompassing driving force. We like to boink. Always have. 
After I got divorced from a 23 year marriage I found my wife had been cheating on me for years. Fascinatingly our marriage was fairly sexless by most standards.
After divorcing I was very disillusioned and stunned when I was treated by a leper from people I had know most of my life. Having been LDS and fulfilling a mission to South Africa I decided I had the choice to associate and not associate with some people. That is a difficult choice to make when you want your children to be in church and have a solid upbringing.
Eventually I met a beautiful woman and we started dating. My gf and I started messing around and then we branched out into this site and found that the feelings we have are normal and exciting.
Eventually she moved on and got married. I still stop in now and then but have not tried too hard to meet people. I guess I'm shy but I like the people. They are better than the others I associated with for years.
After divorcing I was very disillusioned and stunned when I was treated by a leper from people I had know most of my life. Having been LDS and fulfilling a mission to South Africa I decided I had the choice to associate and not associate with some people. That is a difficult choice to make when you want your children to be in church and have a solid upbringing.
Eventually I met a beautiful woman and we started dating. My gf and I started messing around and then we branched out into this site and found that the feelings we have are normal and exciting.
Eventually she moved on and got married. I still stop in now and then but have not tried too hard to meet people. I guess I'm shy but I like the people. They are better than the others I associated with for years.
DORIANGRAY wrote:
The free T-shirt and coffee mug enticed me...
Fuck, where do you get the T shirt and coffee mug? We missed out and we are pissed.
Couples, like ENLIGHTENED. What else.