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Ran into Ms. Evil's cousin a few years ago. Were invited to an annual bbq non-swing party by a couple who WERE swingers but they said even though all vanilla sometimes the party could got quite steamy. Hung out, drank a lot and flirted with all the cute vanillas and our hosts. Suddenly (while naked in the hottub) I saw Ms. Evil's cousin walk in. I quickly alerted her and tried to dress her quickly and sneak her around the side of the house but she was just drunk enough to think it would be hilarious to say hi to her cousin. Turns out the cousin was a FWB of the hosts since high school and frequently joined them for sex. Of course the host instantly wanted to play kissing cousins with Ms. Evil and her cousin but she had sobered up enough by then to not want to go there. Still see the cousin every so often and though nothing was ever mentioned we all know...LOL
On a boat a boat, fishing, with my boss and his wife when she starts asking Raychel about our swingers profile her daughter saw on the internet. Aside from all the obvious problems like why is their HS aged daughter cruising swinger profiles; the other daughter lives in boston and would not know us from anywhere; why are they talking to each other about this; and can I swim to shore. So that's pretty odd.
Bob
P.S. We went for the Clintonesque defense of what do you mean by "swinging".
Bob
P.S. We went for the Clintonesque defense of what do you mean by "swinging".
Here her father lives with us and does not know that we swing. Not that we necessarily hide the fact that we swing but we just don't feel that family should and needs to know.
We had someone come over to join us. Her father said that he would not be home so we all get naked and playing on our bed with the door open when her father gets up to the stairs to go into his room which is across from our room. When we realized that he was there his back was to our room and we immediately closed our door and continued on. I have a hard time believing that he didn't see anything but if he truly was not paying attention he may not have. He either did see us and isn't saying anything about it or he didn't see us. We aren't going to ask either.
We had someone come over to join us. Her father said that he would not be home so we all get naked and playing on our bed with the door open when her father gets up to the stairs to go into his room which is across from our room. When we realized that he was there his back was to our room and we immediately closed our door and continued on. I have a hard time believing that he didn't see anything but if he truly was not paying attention he may not have. He either did see us and isn't saying anything about it or he didn't see us. We aren't going to ask either.
I ran into a shirt tail cousin at Trapeze a few years ago. She was occupied at the time & didn't seem to notice me. I just got busy on the other side of the club.
Went to a 'Meet and Greet' at a restaurant/bar, was enjoying ourselves (not current, but the former gal), suddenly out of the kitchen came my nephew.
I grabbed my girl and snuck out, just to LITERALLY bump into him.
He'd been working there a while, no one told me.
It's cool, he ended up asking if we'd take him to places so he could enjoy. We were going to, but he ended up getting a GF that he really loved and didn't want to cheat, so never took him.
I grabbed my girl and snuck out, just to LITERALLY bump into him.
He'd been working there a while, no one told me.
It's cool, he ended up asking if we'd take him to places so he could enjoy. We were going to, but he ended up getting a GF that he really loved and didn't want to cheat, so never took him.
My now Ex outed me to my entire family when her and i where still a couple
We know of people in the family that are active n the lifestyle, but nobody in the immediate family. Wouldn't be concerned at all if they were. It would probably do some of them a world of good to be in the lifestyle.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Mr. Sexperimentors
So I have a client that I do work for and I am at their offices a lot. I also have one of my really close girlfriends that is there a lot as well. Today actually we were talking about an event that was happening this Friday (a MMA fight downtown) and she asked if I could video it. I said I couldn't because I was trying to get a date for it.
I said it loud enough that everyone could hear including the client and facepalmed because that doesn't make much sense being a normal married guy right? I think I was able to play it off as oh, a dinner date with friends but some people got the idea.... shit.
TLDR: I accidentally outed myself to some of my closest associations.
I said it loud enough that everyone could hear including the client and facepalmed because that doesn't make much sense being a normal married guy right? I think I was able to play it off as oh, a dinner date with friends but some people got the idea.... shit.
TLDR: I accidentally outed myself to some of my closest associations.
We found my wife's cousins... On this site.
You might be a redneck if you found your cousins on swingular and .... ;-) (not saying that Yellowcake are rednecks, but it is a valid redneck test...)
YELLOWCAKE, it would be a good excuse to be kissing cousin's, I suppose. What do they say? Incest is best? I'd totally do my cousin if she were a swinger and willing.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Mr. Sexperimentors
Have to say it happens quite frequently with us...comes from knowing so many folks, I guess. I tend to run into friends of my kids..at meet and greet locations..as well as a relative or two of my own...a nephew that frequents 48...A couple of coworkers are on this site...
Tif has run into former bosses..co workers...a few have turned out to be swingers! Most recently, one of her son's girlfriends at a swingers birthday party...oops...
One we know quite well here, is actually the daughter of a guy I've known since I was a kid...yep..THAT long ago. So far, no ill consquences have come from any of these encounters...but I do suspect my kids my not be quite as naive to all of their dads doings as I'd like to believe..lol
Tif has run into former bosses..co workers...a few have turned out to be swingers! Most recently, one of her son's girlfriends at a swingers birthday party...oops...
One we know quite well here, is actually the daughter of a guy I've known since I was a kid...yep..THAT long ago. So far, no ill consquences have come from any of these encounters...but I do suspect my kids my not be quite as naive to all of their dads doings as I'd like to believe..lol
My boss and wife were at 48, he hasn't said anything yet.... I should ask him to introduce me with some of their friends... that happened after I got hired but before my first day at work...awkward
Just about everyone we know knows. Our kids know, their friends know (because for some reason my kids brag about it). More of our vanilla friends know than don't. I get why so many folks keep it all hush hush but believe me there is something liberating about not having to hide everything.
Our defense is our relationship. I think our kids know (our daughter for sure, we recommended "the life style" to her some time ago)our boys have told us we have raised the bar as to what a relationship should be. We would hate to lose our jobs but ever one else can just can just fuck themselves. We are a bit smug about our relationship.
Our 2 oldest kids and their spouses (26,25,21,19) know about our swinging activity but don't know any details, thank God. They are both OK with it.
walked in to find grandma at the mansion a few weeks ago.
just kidding
just kidding
SEXPERIMENTORS wrote:
YELLOWCAKE, it would be a good excuse to be kissing cousin's, I suppose. What do they say? Incest is best? I'd totally do my cousin if she were a swinger and willing.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Hell, bring her over, we'll all do her!!!!
My wife was dancing at the Cheetah, Pompano, Florida, which is totally nude dancing, when who comes in but my sister-in-law with a male dancer who worked for me as an salesman on the day shift. By coincidence this guy was very hot for my wife to do a 3-some with his girl freind, which we thought was a little too close to home. The first question was what was my sister-in-law doing with a good looking, male straight dancer? That got answered when my brother and sister-in-law separated a few weeks later. My brother had been partying with his secretary and evetually married her. My wife played it cool and acknowledged them and finished her set, and they left. I can't say how long ago this was, but we never heard a word about it. My wife and I realized years ago, if anyone came across her picture from the web, are they anxious to explain what they were doing on whatever site they were on?
We were out with some naughty friends at Habits (which is more or less the unofficial swinger hangout here in Salt Lake) and Ms. Evil was wearing something fairly slutty and on the dance floor dirty dancing with another sexy lady. I was doing the same with the wife of a good friend when all of a sudden Ms. Evil's niece's ex-husband tapped her on the shoulder. She made up some lame excuse and we left quickly. Don't know if he ever ratted us out to the rest of her EXTREMELY Mormon fam.
We bumped into one of the my former co-workers at Habits. I was visiting with a sexy female friend, who happened to be sitting on my lap when he came over to say Hi. After he turned red and realized that she wasn't my wife, he leaned over and whispered, "Where's your wife?" I just smiled and pointed to her hanging out in another part of the bar with some other friends. He asked if everything was okay. I told him everything was great and that he should go say Hi to her. Apparently, he had a surprise of his own. When he went over to say Hi, he asked her permission to hit on me :-O only she didn't bother to tell me until after we left the club (she found it rather amusing).
Mr. here
a few years ago, I was invited to a party, at the old mansion in Draper, I ended up in a room where few people was playing and after playing with a cpl of ladies I started playing with this older but WOW very sexy woman, I guess her husband and her got separated at the party, Well he was calling her name, she responded in here hun... and gave me the look to keep going, to my surprise when he walked in the room... FUCK it was my Boss... lol yes things got weird after that, but then again we were all in the lifestyle...
a few years ago, I was invited to a party, at the old mansion in Draper, I ended up in a room where few people was playing and after playing with a cpl of ladies I started playing with this older but WOW very sexy woman, I guess her husband and her got separated at the party, Well he was calling her name, she responded in here hun... and gave me the look to keep going, to my surprise when he walked in the room... FUCK it was my Boss... lol yes things got weird after that, but then again we were all in the lifestyle...
Side by side,
I wish I had neighbors like you.
Which brings up a question...
How does one go about finding a play-friendly neighborhood to live in?
I wish I had neighbors like you.
Which brings up a question...
How does one go about finding a play-friendly neighborhood to live in?
we live next to my wife's parents, weird I know, but different reasons lol anyway, mom in law "saw" someone leaving our house early one morning and had to ask who it was of course. she just went on and on because she was just sure it was one of becky's old boy friends. finally we just played it off as we are all friends and we were just catching up an it got too late to drive home. dunno if she bought that, but we have not heard anything since. a big "whew" since lots of family liv close by and all talk, not to mention we are all very "good" in our local church, lol
It's kind of nice being 800 miles away from any family!!! If friends or coworkers catch us, well if they're at the same party/gathering, we know their little secret too then!!