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There seem to be a multitude of single females on here, but very few of them are verified. We have been burned before by fake single females, if it wasn't for that then we would be a lot more open to them. Does anyone have advise on how to tell the difference?
We pick carefully. Usually if the actually show up for the first date, we listen to the life story and it usually speaks for its self on their life story. We have been very fortunate in our meeting. Not sure if that helps
Most are fake, picture hunters, guys just wanting attention, or maybe porn bots? Well i would assume after having real conversations with them, that you would be able to tell if they are real or fake... Things they like, if they just keep asking for pics, or trying to talk dirty
We haven't been so lucky. We haven't actually had to deal with a fake single female, but we haven't been able to meet a real one either. Too bad; Mrs. Sexperimentors loves to pleasure other women.

Mr. Sexperimentors
The greatest night I ever had was at the NY Hilton. There was an absolutely beautiful girl at the lobby bar and because girls this pretty were at that time working girls, I asked and she took as a compliment. It turned out she was married from New Jersey, looking for a night out. We had sex until 6:00 in the morning, I walked her to her car which was few blocks away, I don't know her real name and never saw her again. But what a night.
SJA wrote:

There seem to be a multitude of single females on here, but very few of them are verified. We have been burned before by fake single females, if it wasn't for that then we would be a lot more open to them. Does anyone have advise on how to tell the difference?


We usually just poke a finger in their ribs..if the giggle...we go for it....if they say in "Hey, Buddy..stop it!" in a real gruff voice, we move on.
If she seems too good to be true... I send all their pics thru reverse search engines to see if their pics pop up anywhere. And usually the legit single females will show up at parties and meet&greets.
My hubby loves the fake single girls. He says they don't argue, are always ready for sex, don't constantly purchase beauty products ... blah ba blah ba blah ... Sometimes I get sick of hearing about them. I also worry about him having some kind of aneurism while blowing them up -- perhaps the cheap bastard should purchase an electric pump ... Oh. You weren't talking about THAT kind of single girl. Ahem. Sorry. Carry on.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:

HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:

If she seems too good to be true... I send all their pics thru reverse search engines to see if their pics pop up anywhere. And usually the legit single females will show up at parties and meet&greets.


Their pictures show up? We are confused. Do parties and meet and greet pictures show up on the internet?


No. I take the pics they have in their profile and do a reverse search on them. If they stole them, I'll find out where. For example, there was one in the chat room the other night and I reverse searched "her" images. I found out that the pictures were located on 5+ different porn sites and I got the porn star name that was associated with those pics. (I've never seen party or meet n greet pictures on the internet that weren't supposed to be there.)
How do you do a search on images? I mean, is there a Search feature that uses images, or is it a file name, or is it a manual (visual) search?
Please tell us how to do this. We want to make sure they took our pics off that ferret BDSM site.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:

HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:

[quote=DELICIOUSLYWET][quote=HELLO_KITTY12984]If she seems too good to be true... I send all their pics thru reverse search engines to see if their pics pop up anywhere. And usually the legit single females will show up at parties and meet&greets.


Their pictures show up? We are confused. Do parties and meet and greet pictures show up on the internet?


No. I take the pics they have in their profile and do a reverse search on them. If they stole them, I'll find out where. For example, there was one in the chat room the other night and I reverse searched "her" images. I found out that the pictures were located on 5+ different porn sites and I got the porn star name that was associated with those pics. (I've never seen party or meet n greet pictures on the internet that weren't supposed to be there.)[/quote]


Okay, that makes sense Kitty. We just did a Google image search on our own public and private pics and they did not show up anywhere. Maybe it is a good idea to do that every now and again just to make sure that you are not in some 16 year old kids fake profile somewhere.[/quote]

I've had mine show up in all sorts of places. Most commonly people steal them for other dating/swinging profiles. If I notice that a particular picture is showing up too often I take it off my own profile. Its also why I only have 3-5 pics in my profile at a time and use my webcam to verify myself.
I actually found a verified couple that had comments from local people (also verified) that said they had met, played, and enjoyed the experience. Then I reverse searched their pics (since each pic looked like a slightly different person) and found some on porn sites, some on UK escort sites, and some on escort sites from GA. Always interesting what pops up. :p
URIAH wrote:

Profiles of fake single females are as easy to spot as bogus financial statements. A pic that looks like it was torn out of Cosmopolitan, an essay that is heavy on "feelings" and looking for the perfect man or couple, and no certs are all clues. Real single females just want to fuck, and they say so.


The only problem is that I've found plenty that are somehow verified. Otherwise, I agree wholeheartedly.
I just reverse searched my pics. According to Google, my rear end resembles a kitchen counter. Lolol.
ADDILYN931 wrote:

I don't think real single females just want to fuck that's not why I'm on here to just fuck... I like the friendships that I have made with the couples that I'm talking to. The fucking is just an added bonus if we all like each other. Just sayin!


We'd love to be friends with you!!!
We have yet to understand why ANYONE puts up bogus profile and pictures! Perhaps there little lives are that boring who knows. As far as guys putting up single woman's profiles well, Caitlin Jenner answer that question, they must want to be women! The only thing we can come up with.
But several ways we have found that tend to tell us if they are fake really quickly; 1. How many pictures do they have? If they don't have a lot chances are they aren't who they say. Many will argue that it's simply not the case, but more often than not it is. 2. If they never go out, always a bogus person! 3. If they won't voice verify! We voice verify anyone we are meeting away from a party or event, if they won't do that they aren't either real or sincere.
I'm the real deal!
It's as simple as baking a pie. You stick your finger in and if it comes out wet and sticky, you know she is real. teehee
UtahBarbie, it sounds like you might be a candidate for the SameRoomOnly fake-girl test. Call us. :)
UtahBarbie, it sounds like you might be a candidate for the SameRoomOnly fake-girl test. Call us. :)
Yes this is a problem, but what about fake shemales?!!?

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Look at the stamp on their bottom; if it says 'Made In China', that's a fake.
Ok, so any step by step reverse image search instructions. I believe we may have fallen prey to this as well and we are very new to this site.
Thanks Mr. SexyUtahCouple for showing us that trick. We have used it with much success.
I'm a real unicorn! Well, when I'm not dating that is. BUT I don't go to the parties alone & since all of my friends are vanilla, I don't always get to go. Now after making some friends within the LS, that may change. We will see but still, that doesn't mean I'm jumping into bed with everyone. I'd rather meet in person and see how it goes. I've talked to some people and thought I may be interested but realistically, it's not very safe to meet people you met on a sexually explicit site ALONE Give the girls a break! I'm sorry we are few & shy & maybe sometimes lose our nerve. Trust me. I get it. I've looked for them too. I get the concern over the fake profiles but dont be negative and run the real ones off! ;) its quite an interesting perspective from our POV.
We just assume they are all fake. Unless we happen to meet them in person at a party. We have never had any luck meeting one on this site!
GLITZY wrote:

We just assume they are all fake. Unless we happen to meet them in person at a party. We have never had any luck meeting one on this site!


Another thing-I brought a date last time I was at a party. How would you know who is who?