Is there anyone out there that really wants.to go out, get to know each other, have things in common, a mutual attraction to each other, and maybe even chat a little bit before we all get naked, or do we need to frickin sign up at "Eharmony.com"???
Either we aren't "hardcore" enough, or we move too slow, or we don't party enough, or we don't drink enough, or we're just uglier than Shrek & Fiona, or we need to re-evaluate who we wanna fuck!
We keep getting all these GAWD-forsaken friend requests, and creeps that wanna see our pics, but ya know what??? We're just an average couple with high standards. We know we aren't beautiful and amazing! But we really care about those that we let in, and we never EVER judge, until we have met you face to face.
Oh by the way, I don't really care if you agree. We all do this for our own personal reasons. I have mine, and my wife has her's. But there comes a time when you really have to look at yourself, your mate, and your fantasies, and make GAWD-damn sure you're doing this together, and for the right reasons, or ya just might as well take your partner to the bar, cut-er-loose, and hope for the best!
Not in my house! Not in her's!
But hey, rock it like ya own it! Just kinda wondering if we're gettin old.
Peace my brutha's and sista's!!!
Johnny The Rock
Either we aren't "hardcore" enough, or we move too slow, or we don't party enough, or we don't drink enough, or we're just uglier than Shrek & Fiona, or we need to re-evaluate who we wanna fuck!
We keep getting all these GAWD-forsaken friend requests, and creeps that wanna see our pics, but ya know what??? We're just an average couple with high standards. We know we aren't beautiful and amazing! But we really care about those that we let in, and we never EVER judge, until we have met you face to face.
Oh by the way, I don't really care if you agree. We all do this for our own personal reasons. I have mine, and my wife has her's. But there comes a time when you really have to look at yourself, your mate, and your fantasies, and make GAWD-damn sure you're doing this together, and for the right reasons, or ya just might as well take your partner to the bar, cut-er-loose, and hope for the best!
Not in my house! Not in her's!
But hey, rock it like ya own it! Just kinda wondering if we're gettin old.
Peace my brutha's and sista's!!!
Johnny The Rock
We agree !!!!!!!!!! Most of the time it feels like a booty call ..... We say friends first and the sex is just the bonus but most couples have so many issues that they cant seem to have fun . But to each their own I guess . Pebblerock ...... We have no naked pics on our profile if people wanna see us naked you better come hangout ........ Just sayin
Badboy8p
Badboy8p
BADBOY8P (Couple 34f, 39m)
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REALLY!!!! TELL ALL US HOW YOU REALLY FEEL, CAN WE SAY IT REALLY DOES FEEL LIKE A BOOTY CALL WHEN YOU HAVE ONE UP AND POST THAT SHIT!!!!! THATS THE PROBLEM WITH A LOT OF PEOPLE, SAY ONE THING DO ANOTHER!!!
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Jimmy 801-706-7634REALLY!!!! TELL ALL US HOW YOU REALLY FEEL, CAN WE SAY IT REALLY DOES FEEL LIKE A BOOTY CALL WHEN YOU HAVE ONE UP AND POST THAT SHIT!!!!! THATS THE PROBLEM WITH A LOT OF PEOPLE, SAY ONE THING DO ANOTHER!!!
(H) Humm, we have been here longer than most and I don't see any signs saying let's be friends, maybe AFF would put you more in the middle ground, personally I am here to fuck and if a friendship comes out of it "and it has" great. Any experience good or bad that is more intertaining than watching the history channell works for me.
SINS4FUN wrote:
Very well said
UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY
Maybe they should go to E harmony, or find a friend lol Sounds like to us they need a friend or 2. Seem to recall this is an adult sex site, the front door dindt say , you must make friend if you enter, do you accept!!
Should we vote on a name change so there is no confusion, Like CUM IN AND GET LAIDSounds like a new thread to me.
BADBOY8P (Couple 34f, 39m)
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Details: Just looking for a fun seperate room couple !!!!!!! We can host ...... If interested give us a text Jimmy 801-706-7634
REALLY!!!! TELL ALL US HOW YOU REALLY FEEL, CAN WE SAY IT REALLY DOES FEEL LIKE A BOOTY CALL WHEN YOU HAVE ONE UP AND POST THAT SHIT!!!!! THATS THE PROBLEM WITH A LOT OF PEOPLE, SAY ONE THING DO ANOTHER!!!
When you post a pic then you can talk shit !!!!!!!! Read the booty call it says maybe sex !!!!!!!!
We have been here for 5 years we see people like you come and go ........ Anyone that knows us knows we are all about the friendships .... just sayin
Badboy8p
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Location: West Jordan, UT (US) (38 miles)
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Details: Just looking for a fun seperate room couple !!!!!!! We can host ...... If interested give us a text Jimmy 801-706-7634
REALLY!!!! TELL ALL US HOW YOU REALLY FEEL, CAN WE SAY IT REALLY DOES FEEL LIKE A BOOTY CALL WHEN YOU HAVE ONE UP AND POST THAT SHIT!!!!! THATS THE PROBLEM WITH A LOT OF PEOPLE, SAY ONE THING DO ANOTHER!!!
When you post a pic then you can talk shit !!!!!!!! Read the booty call it says maybe sex !!!!!!!!
We have been here for 5 years we see people like you come and go ........ Anyone that knows us knows we are all about the friendships .... just sayin
Badboy8p
I think there's different levels for everyone here. Some are ready for a free for all, and some are as you describe. We're like you guys. We're looking for more of the "we'd like to get to know you before" type, a friends with benefits. We're hoping to find other couples that want to hang out together outside as well as naked fun behind closed doors. Others are out for a booty call with no strings attached. I don't think either is wrong. As far as I knew, the only rules are what you set down for yourself.
Think this is not about getting laid but his partner getting more attention than him, hell we all go through that but after time I learned to laugh about it, the sexy bitch always comes home with me and that's a turn on in itself. She is going to kick my ass for that word if she reads this.
So you say your like a COCK-ROACH around here, you never go away????
PUSSYPOPPERS
First day on the site your making a great name for yourself !!!!!!!!!!!!
First day on the site your making a great name for yourself !!!!!!!!!!!!
Who says its the first day???? seen you in your Mac Daddy mode, nothing like someone who treats some women like there a piece of meat,
PUSSYPOPPERS wrote:
Who says its the first day???? seen you in your Mac Daddy mode, nothing like someone who treats some women like there a piece of meat,
Hahahaha !!!!!!!!!!!! You rock
Hell yess i do, Glad you realize that!!
Peace out ROACh
Peace out ROACh
We so AGREE with DOMELIGHTANGEL!Friends to hang out with and have something in common with is such a comforting thing!
What we do after the lights go out, just heightens the fun even more, being friends first. If the chemistry is just not there but the friendship is good, that too is an added bonus, one can always open their hearts up to more friends, even if you only have a vanila relationship with them. One never knows they too might enjoy yard sale hunting!
Being picky is a good thing in our minds, ones that only want to put another notch on their bed post can just pass us by. We are not saying that a good fun fuck spur of the moment is bad, quite the opposite! But its always better with close friends.
We enjoy getting to know others and what their interest are outside of the bedroom. You never know what aspects of someones life you might have something in common with,without taking your clothes off! Its exciting and fun!( but so is great sex!especially with great friends!)
What we do after the lights go out, just heightens the fun even more, being friends first. If the chemistry is just not there but the friendship is good, that too is an added bonus, one can always open their hearts up to more friends, even if you only have a vanila relationship with them. One never knows they too might enjoy yard sale hunting!
Being picky is a good thing in our minds, ones that only want to put another notch on their bed post can just pass us by. We are not saying that a good fun fuck spur of the moment is bad, quite the opposite! But its always better with close friends.
We enjoy getting to know others and what their interest are outside of the bedroom. You never know what aspects of someones life you might have something in common with,without taking your clothes off! Its exciting and fun!( but so is great sex!especially with great friends!)
Yes there are lot of folks that just want to see pics instead of anything else ...those I never understand. We like to meet and go out but some folks that we meet on here ( not all mind you ) just expect everyone to show up drop clothes and go for it than go their own separate ways. We have lots of single guys that hit on our profile , have had some ask if she plays alone? If they have to come from a distance can they have a blow-job even if it doesn't work out ... I'm thinking the person that put up this topic had a individual (s ) that said or did something that made them snap and thats what we all read
We do enjoy meeting, chatting, and making friends and lasting friendships. We like to take it slow getting to know someone and flirting makes having sex more exciting and leaves us all wanting it again. Knowing we can hang out either have sex or not is totally fine if we dont get to play then maybe we will get to have sex another time.
Could very well be, Lookyloo. These threads pop up every once in a while, because this site never works exactly the way people want it too so they complain about it. IT just happens, because everyone comes into the lifestyle with different expectations. I've certainly been confused a couple of times by couples who add me and then never talk to me again, even if I make the first contact. And that's as a single male; I can't imagine how much spam some of you others on the site get!
Btw, nice to see some lifestylers from So Cal, especially so close to home. I'm a Redlands native, so I was just around the corner.
Btw, nice to see some lifestylers from So Cal, especially so close to home. I'm a Redlands native, so I was just around the corner.
You need to stick to what you believe in & what works for you. There are lots of different types of swingers out there. Some like to dive into a dark room with a bunch of naked bodies that they can't even see & go to town. Others just about want to know your whole life story & be reassured 9 different ways to Sunday before the clothes start to come off. Most are somewhere in between. The right ones for you are out there somewhere. You just need to find them. Look on the bright side. You know what you are looking for. That's a good start.
Hey,
My friend Badboy rarely post Booty Calls and if they did....then they are allowed!!! Just Sayin!!!
To Pebblerock I am not sure of the answer to your question but, it took us a long time to find great friends like Badboy and Badgirl and many others out there. One step at a time and yes take your time we did! Not everytime we play but, when we do we go all out with a bang all because we did not rush anything it all happened naturally!
Hotfire
My friend Badboy rarely post Booty Calls and if they did....then they are allowed!!! Just Sayin!!!
To Pebblerock I am not sure of the answer to your question but, it took us a long time to find great friends like Badboy and Badgirl and many others out there. One step at a time and yes take your time we did! Not everytime we play but, when we do we go all out with a bang all because we did not rush anything it all happened naturally!
Hotfire
PUSSYPOPPERS wrote:
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REALLY!!!! TELL ALL US HOW YOU REALLY FEEL, CAN WE SAY IT REALLY DOES FEEL LIKE A BOOTY CALL WHEN YOU HAVE ONE UP AND POST THAT SHIT!!!!! THATS THE PROBLEM WITH A LOT OF PEOPLE, SAY ONE THING DO ANOTHER!!!
I am not sure who you all are meeting out there? We have tons of friends and not all are sexual either. We seem to have just been friends forever now! We seem to go out a bit more this opens up the chances of meeting a fine ass couple more often. We hang out with our swinger friends all the time and sex is not the main topic....friendship with them is far better then any sexual moment.
I love our friends.......You know who you all are!!! Hehehe HOTFIRE BABY!!!
I love our friends.......You know who you all are!!! Hehehe HOTFIRE BABY!!!
I think not only to each their own, but if the mood was right, any one of us could go for some spontanious sex with a random chick/dude/couple/whatever those people in Lehi go for. I have certainly been in moods where I wanted to find some random girl and go for it, my personal concern about that is not MY comfort level but theirs and my wife's. I have to know that whoever is filling my wife with joyful bliss has to respect her enough to want to treat we well while getting treated very well in return. So I agree with all of you! Except thise that like to troll and call out others because of their own inadequacies.
P.S. Lehi peeps, no need to be offended, I was joking. I love the north end of Utah county!
P.S. Lehi peeps, no need to be offended, I was joking. I love the north end of Utah county!
CALLETSPLAY wrote:Exactly! We've never had a bad experience, and we don't want to. It's critical for me to be cautious and protective of her, because she means the world to me. I never wanna lose respect for her due to my own selfish fantasies, or put her at risk with someone that we aren't totally sure is worth taking, in an already high-risk lifestyle.
We do enjoy meeting, chatting, and making friends and lasting friendships. We like to take it slow getting to know someone and flirting makes having sex more exciting and leaves us all wanting it again. Knowing we can hang out either have sex or not is totally fine if we dont get to play then maybe we will get to have sex another time.
I don't have a problem at all with people that wanna play every weekend with anyone they choose. Rock on! The problem I have is with the one's that say everything you wanna hear, and pretend to really be interested in you as a human-fuckin-being, and then when you don't fuck them on the first date, you never hear from them again. Well alrighty then. Go eat someone else's dick. LOL.
We just feel like the minute we quit being selective and cautious, then we've lost respect for ourselves and each other. There has to be more to attraction than just making sure our parts fit together and hoping to get a nut, right? (although girl-parts seem to fit together too for some yummy reason). Anyway, thanks for all the comments either way. Everyone has their own rules and know what works for them. I'm not knocking it. We just wanna mean something more to our playmates than a good orgasm. Hell your hand can do that and there's a lot less drama. Peace!!
Swinging is different for everyone and even with us, it could be different with different couples. We love making friends and enjoy spending both lifestyle &vanilla time with them. On occasion, we may find a couple we just click and go with the flow - even if it does not lead to lasting friendship - at least we had a great time. We know what we are looking for as a couple and we don't let others dictate. Rather than judge what others want, just concentrate on what you want as a couple and move on if it's not right for you.
Sometimes if we all click on the first date, it happens, alot of times not, but definately has to be all 4 and sometimes that takes time. No pressure or expectations is our rule of thumb. We love all the friends weve made here over the last 7 years!
UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY wrote:I'm in the right mood, and the stars are aligned just about right. So I wanna know, Z. why did you delete your post? Are you afraid of pissin me off? Hurting my feelings? You got butt-hurt when when deleted you from our "friends" list. I tried to explain that I had a bad night and pretty much deleted everything and everybody but our profile. I asked you not to take it personal. We were about to call it all "quits". It was my moment, and nothing more.SINS4FUN wrote:
Very well said
UTAHCOUPLE4PLAY
Maybe they should go to E harmony, or find a friend lol Sounds like to us they need a friend or 2. Seem to recall this is an adult sex site, the front door dindt say , you must make friend if you enter, do you accept!!
Should we vote on a name change so there is no confusion, Like CUM IN AND GET LAIDSounds like a new thread to me.
We were brother's...I trusted you with my wife, and you trusted me with your's. That's what makes all of this a beautiful thing. We were your 1st. And it was amazing even the 2nd time. But you changed brother! When you invited us to your house party, and all of a sudden you let B. move around and allow anyone and everyone to treat her like an object, and piece of meat, then I have a problem with that. She tried to have a conversation with me while another guy squatted down behind her and started rubbing her pussy from behind. She was drunk, and just going with the flow as if it wasn't even happening. Where the fuck were you to watch out for her???
It made me feel worthless, low, protective of her for you, and very uncomfortable. Not cool.
I always hope...no EXPECT that our girls are number ONE...none of this happens without them. That's what we assured each other from the start. Then...THEN, you left us to your bedroom to have some fun, and didn't even invite us, and that's fine, but you know we're reserved, usually quiet, and the first ones to come and help you and show some love when you needed a hand. Now you're gonna treat us this because we wanna keep it low and slow??? That's fucked brother!
I never call you out. Never have. But you keep throwing all this shit in my face without saying names. Well ya know what man? We know what you mean. We know who you're talking about with your little digs. And that's fine. You moved on, and there's nothing wrong with that. Party on man! It's just not us, and we know what we want. And it takes time and trust, and respect. You're losing that in all the glory of your parties and crazy fun. And honestly, it's not really my business...until...UNTIL, you start flappin your lips about OUR personal choices, and then I have a problem. I don't call you out, I don't bash you, and never have. I was always there for you. But if you wanna bring this to the the table in a public forum, and then try to hide it or take it back, then I say "game on". You wanna open a can of worms? I say "hell yes"! I love to fish! So either keep us out of your nasty comments and have your fun, or let's get it on!
I never EVER call anyone out like this. We're just trying to play our own game with rules that everyone involved promised to play by. When you all of sudden change not only the rules, but the whole game...then I think somebody is dealing from the bottom of the deck. And I really don't give a flying fuck if you have a "full house", cuz it'll never beat my "two pair". Now, who's deal is it???
I'm so frickin pissed right now, I don't even wanna send this bullshit. But it never seems to end. So "click"...yeah why not!?
s
Hey pebblerock way to get that out !!! Sucks to lose so called friends but what can ya do .........
Badboy
Badboy
Pebblerock, I do not consider a partner a play toy to be used and discarded as some do. To me that attitude cheapens the whole experience and I might as well be having sex with myself or a rubber doll. No matter what else is said in the posts by others, I still prefer sex with someone I like or consider to be a friend. I can think of nothing lonelier than a string of one night stands.
It is sad when that trust is broken. It hurts to find that a friend does not measure up. That is the chance some of us are willing to take. Some of us seem to have a need to find people that we can be close to and trust and not just fuck. That does not make us any better or worse, just different. But as long as you are happy with your self and your significant other the rest of us should not matter.
It is sad when that trust is broken. It hurts to find that a friend does not measure up. That is the chance some of us are willing to take. Some of us seem to have a need to find people that we can be close to and trust and not just fuck. That does not make us any better or worse, just different. But as long as you are happy with your self and your significant other the rest of us should not matter.
We learn way more about people from their posts on forums then any profile info.