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No its not a new disease :-D it's something seen several times regarding spotting your fellow swingers. Here's something going around on a simple way to identify yourself as a swinger. It's simply a black ring. Not going to give a long explanation that's already been done here.

http://swapfu.blogspot.com/p/black-ring-right-hand.html?zx=a792a03cce0fab39

Sounds simple and easy you'll see Mr and Mrs playground wearing one at our next outing.
LOL We've been doing this for a LONG time and it cracks us the fuck up to see these frequent "ways to tell if someone is a swinger". We've heard everything from a white rock in their front yard to an upside down pineapple in their grocery cart. Even stuff like wearing an ankle bracelet on a particular ankle or a single earring in a particular ear. Bottom line is, in this world of almost instantaneous and pervasive communication even if there WAS a ubiquitous symbol of swinging acceptance almost nobody would display it as they would quickly be outed to people they might not want to know about their little hobby. We've gone to conventions and hotel takeovers many times in the past and it usually took about a day for any vanillas nearby to learn what the wristbands mean and start gawking (or even trying to sneak in) and for the swingers to start hiding them under watches and bracelets or removing them entirely so as not to be identified. Another swingsite we're on even started a new smartphone app using GPS that alerts you if there is another swinger nearby. Almost nobody uses it in fear of somehow being ID'd as a swinger.
We've lost a lot of good men over the years who were trying to "read" lakes. They totally get caught up in the plot and forget they're underwater and don't have gills.
Looked at the link in the OP. I didn't know there was an "asexual community".
Cool a secret decoder ring! I love it. EVILDOERS, could you even imagine what you'd look like it you actually had all the stuff you're supposed to so that others could identify you as a swinger? You'd be like a walking neon sign blinking "Swinger" in over sized electric letters.

Mrs. Sexperimentors says if you think someones a swinger you should use the "Cone of Silence" to have a conversation about it. She says that she's sure Inspector Gadget would have something appropriate for the situation.

Mr. Sexperimentors
Novel concept here but I think just walking up and talking to people can get the conversation started.
After it's started drop a club name or some other tidbit and see if they know what you are talking about. Or just use the term vanilla.