Ok, I am actually a hubby with a hall pass. But like you, when I see this in the booty calls I think, "The lying cheating bastard." We have all run across a few, I'm sure. So my question....Ladies, what would a guy need to do to prove to you that he isn't a lying cheating bastard? Or do you play it safe and ignore those guys or do you just not care, one way or another?
Only time I even consider a male with a "hall pass", is when the hubby and i have met with the couple before and are comfortable with them, and know the wife really is ok with it. Outside of that, all lying cheating bastards 
I agree with sxyt1me. We have talked about playing alone but for any of us to feel comfortable we definitely need to know the couple/single in advance. No way would I feel very good letting Mrs Hottie go out with or have some unknown guy come over.
my hubby has a hall pass and don't mind meeting with cpls or talking to them on the phone
[quote=DELICIOUSLYWET]We all have our personal preferences and preferences as a couple which manifest themselves as something we might call our personal swinger
356KINKY wrote:
Never have liked the term "hall pass." We both play separately, but find many couples have a problem with this. It seems every couple is after the elusive single female unicorn, but if a girl is married it just doesn't work? Hmmm...
I don't know about that one. Seems to me that people are only after girls about 99% of the time, and it is really apparent that most could care less if she's married, single, cheating, lying, what have you as long as she's cute. It's only the males that are asked to substantiate the claim of "Hall Pass". Then again, we don't play separate so I am only going on about the thousand e-mails we have had that assume they are only talking to her everytime, and the content within them.
First of all.... you all have no right to judge (or name call/label) anyone. Glass house etc., you know the drill. Second... we ultimately only care that he has a big cock anyway. As far as the male/female split on who couples seem to be seeking goes... when we meet couples we encounter two types of males; those with a "narrow" view thats only considers their own needs & desires, and fortunately others that realize that their partner loves sex, is insatiable and his mindset is "more cocks are better".
This is an interesting topic - especially for me right now. We both have hall passes, but neither of us uses them often. When we're together we prefer each others company and never play separately. I travel extensively and Mrs. Sexperimentors insisted I have and use a hall pass while traveling. I have NEVER had any reply from any single woman or couple that we've contacted on Swingular in the areas to which I'll be traveling. There are some areas I go to frequently enough that a relationship could be built and it wouldn't even be a one night stand. So what are we to make of this? Clearly I'm experiencing the plight of the single male in these situations, or worse, I'm thought of as a cheating husband. Mrs. Sexperimentors has even gone so far as to contact couples and single women in the target geography and offer to have a conversation on the phone with them to dispel the notion that I'm cheating, but that didn't work. So what gives? Am I that much of a troll?
Mr. Sexperimentors
PS. Mrs. Sexperimentors doesn't play with single males or couples on her own so don't bother asking. Single women or married women who play singly, she's very interested in exercising her hall pass with you.
Mr. Sexperimentors
PS. Mrs. Sexperimentors doesn't play with single males or couples on her own so don't bother asking. Single women or married women who play singly, she's very interested in exercising her hall pass with you.
WILD24U wrote:
We both have full time hall passes, if something comes up go for it while you can.
Same here. If everyone there is having a good time and the mood is right. Why ruin it? Of course she has more chances to use her's. But I get to enjoy hearing the details later.
In our relationship I (the husband) have a hall pass yet she doesn't. Some have told us that seems unfair or assume I am cheating, yet what they don't understand is that the wife is a cuckquean in a pretty big way. Shes just doesn't have a desire to have a hall pass.
I would guess that we are the rare exception, but in any case when I get offers to use the hallpass we all make sure we know each other first.
What I am getting at is that every couple is different. That is why we try to never jump to conclusions but even then yeah, cheating scum! :P
I would guess that we are the rare exception, but in any case when I get offers to use the hallpass we all make sure we know each other first.
What I am getting at is that every couple is different. That is why we try to never jump to conclusions but even then yeah, cheating scum! :P
Best Hall Pass contact I've ever had... Johnny... Brought his wife to meet me the same time he did... Then she and I texted about it afterward.... Makes things feel more adult when you aren't half suspicious that you are helping a man be untrue to his commitments.
There is nothing missing from our marriage and have talked about the hall pass. We tried the separate date at the same time hall pass. Only to have the guy show up and his imaginary wife have a "baby sitter emergency" and have to return home just as she was arriving at the set meeting spot. He had a hotel room and was trying to force it. No we never saw her and she would only text.(RED FLAG) Lesson learned!! We don't understand why a guy would think he is going to trick someone into this and have sex before we figure out there is no wife. Oh well he wasted his money on a nice room. We had not rented ours as we were making sure it was legit before we checked in.
But who knows if the fantasy comes up and we find the right person or persons we might try it again.
But who knows if the fantasy comes up and we find the right person or persons we might try it again.
Hall passes? Sure I have a hall pass. We both do. But I don
Hall passes? Are we still talking about wife swapping? You young whippersnappers have a crazy name for everything nowadays. Why back in my day, when we had to walk barefoot to key parties, in the snow, uphill both ways, we didn't have all these fancy schmancy terms. We just called it wife swapping or making whoopie. If anyone did something unpleasant or untoward we settled it like gentlemen via fisticuffs. The sweet science. Marcus of Queensberry rules. Of course we didn't have mouthy women like you have in this day and age. Women stayed home, in the kitchen, baking and taking care of the offspring until the man of the house came home and then she ran to greet him with his favorite pipe and slippers. Then she made him a dry martini and massaged his feet. There was no bra burning or people marrying outside their species. Hall passes were something the teacher gave to little Billy when he went poopie (another term you youngin's seem to favore) in his pants. Wait, what were we talking about again? Oh yes, crazy vernacular. So now everybody's using words like "groovy" and "the bees knees" and "double anal" to describe what used to be a very simple transaction. I get to bang your wife and you get to bang mine. Of course occasionally women got the short end of the stick (if you catch my drift) but hey, boys will be boys. So let's put aside all this modern terminology and just get back to coitus. "Hey Madge! My keys are for the Ford Fairlane with the lucky rabbits foot on the keychain. Be sure to pick mine!"
I don't understand some of the comments, If you are going to be in this lifestyle you can't have so many rules. My wife and i are free to play alone or together. She can cum multiply times in a short amount of time and everyday, Hence she can outdo me anytime. So sexually she can handle more than me. When we got rid of the LDS religious expectations, family expectations, and the community expectations she really started to cum more often and really started to enjoy sex. Before all the rules she could not relax, now without the rules and pressures she really enjoys sex. The way we look at it is if the partner is cheating, thats their business and there responsibility not ours. They are adults and are responsible for their own actions. We are concerned about enjoying the thrill of the moment. We do have three rules, We sleep at home and we let each other know where we are at all times (for safety reasons) and we discuss everything. Since most of the guys and girls on here are after the unicorn My wife gets to chose how many, when, and where. She doesn't let it get to her head to much, even though she has a hard time finding not only a long cock but a much preferred thick cock. Be Happy and enjoy the freedom!
We don't do Hall Passes we call ours the WILD CARD. A WILD CARD is a sexual fantasy bucket list. We prefer full couples more then the elusive Unicorn rather male or female.
A horny female and a horny male act completely different not even the same creature at all. Why compare the two when they are completely different from each other. Women are far easier to add to the bedroom because Women naturally bond.....Men not so much though they are in the same room....they never play the game the same way ever. Women rock at playing this game.....I have seen it a hundred times with women.....but, men have to fly low to get notice. We have invited both sexes fairly to our house. Most women don't do hall passes. though it happens its not the normal thing to do in this society.....this is a single male or single female is not a hall pass as they are single.
I don't think we will do the Hall Pass it is not our thing but, have so many friends that do it and whatever floats their boat. We are Happy for you either way!!! GO BE WILD!!! WILD CARDS ROCK!!!
A horny female and a horny male act completely different not even the same creature at all. Why compare the two when they are completely different from each other. Women are far easier to add to the bedroom because Women naturally bond.....Men not so much though they are in the same room....they never play the game the same way ever. Women rock at playing this game.....I have seen it a hundred times with women.....but, men have to fly low to get notice. We have invited both sexes fairly to our house. Most women don't do hall passes. though it happens its not the normal thing to do in this society.....this is a single male or single female is not a hall pass as they are single.
I don't think we will do the Hall Pass it is not our thing but, have so many friends that do it and whatever floats their boat. We are Happy for you either way!!! GO BE WILD!!! WILD CARDS ROCK!!!
Yeah! Why doesn't everyone swing like WE do? WE'RE the only ones who do it the right way! Jesus Scrapbooking Christ, people. Just live your lives and do and think everything WE do and think and the world (and swinging) will be a better place. 
My Personal favorite is when 100% of the Booty calls are From Men with "Hall Passes"
There are certain "couples" that should just drop that moniker and open a Single Male, Because you never play as a couple, yet every week (3-4 times) They post a booty call about heir "HALL PASS"
Like some magic your "wife" has let you out to play.
Instead of Single male or Couple; Swimgular can we create the I am Lying Cheater category?
There are certain "couples" that should just drop that moniker and open a Single Male, Because you never play as a couple, yet every week (3-4 times) They post a booty call about heir "HALL PASS"
Like some magic your "wife" has let you out to play.
Instead of Single male or Couple; Swimgular can we create the I am Lying Cheater category?