I am doing a little research. How did you get into the lifestyle? What was your background before getting into the ls? For example: relationships, divorce, married, single, cheater or cheated on, how many partners. who decided to give the ls a try, him or her? cum on people eight viewed this and only one response ???
Got into this by talking about our fantasies, roll playing a little in bed, reading stories about swinging in magazines. Background...grew up, like many here in Utah, in ultrconservative households where sex before marriage was forbidden. Met in college and married young because we were SO fucking horny. Virgins when we met. Became swingers probably because we wondered what we had missed out on not sleeping with other people. Why do you think there are so many horny swingers in little old conservative Mormon Utah? LOL
for us it was alot of talking in bed. grew from there. Here in northern nv its so damn tough to find the right people. everyone talks around here so its rough.i think the older we get the freakier we get !
We talked about it for awhile, kicked around the idea of adding another, once kinda played with another, then the mr. Found out about a website, joined it and then found out about this one, have been enjoying it 
as far as background, she was raised fairly religious, he was not. He had been with one person prior and she had never been with anyone else. We were married a few years before deciding to give this a try.
as far as background, she was raised fairly religious, he was not. He had been with one person prior and she had never been with anyone else. We were married a few years before deciding to give this a try.Much like Evildoers, we talked about fantasies, role played a bit but really left it there for a while. A vanilla girlfriend of the Mrs. got real flirty with her and started her to thinking "What if...". An opportunity came about for some play time with a male vanilla friend, she got the thumbs up, ok, what are you waiting for from the Mr. and voila!
As far as background, we are also both raised mostly here in Utah so we have a similar background to most from the area. Her family being a little more conservative in the sexual area but both families pretty much "sunday" church goers.
As far as background, we are also both raised mostly here in Utah so we have a similar background to most from the area. Her family being a little more conservative in the sexual area but both families pretty much "sunday" church goers.
It was a party we saw advertised. We went, sat in the car watching folks go in for 45 minutes before we got enough nerve to go in. We met some fun folks that invited us to habits the next weekend. Down hill from there. Some great folks on here.
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Always wanted to "dabble" in it but never did in my first marriage. Second marriage we discussed it for a year, about our fantasies and so on. Then decided to take the plunge. 3 years in and still having a blast!
it started like many other couples do with a little bit of liquid courage, both women fooling around while us two males watched like two teenagers watching their first porn movie, not sure what to say or do about it we just watched. This only happened once, so as time went by we kept wondering how we could find people that were into the same thing as us, long story short we are glad we found some great peeps and hope that more sexy peeps want to get to know us in the future.
Both grew up Mormon & ultra conservative, I went on a mission. Got married at 21. I became bishop at 29, a couple came in to confess to swinging. They were way hot, and we had talked about it in the recent past so I was curious, there I sat asking lots of questions everyone was getting horny so a call was made the wife showed up and we all played right there in the church! Played quite a few times with them after that till I got released from being bishop. Then got on the site. It's been a fun ride ever since!