I do not make habit of hooking up with single guys but honestly I would like to find a single guy to go to parties with and have fun alone sometimes too. but not just sex.. mostly sex, yes, but dinner, movies all of which could include some naughty fun. I have met up with a few guys but honestly, they are more interested in getting their nuts off. I am such a giving person.. ok I am just a horny girl who likes to give. So is it the girls responsibility to do whatever I am supposed to do so the guy doesn't shoot his load too soon. No big deal if that happens but good grief it doesn't mean I am done... heeelllffuuucckkiinnnnoooooo. Am I choosing the wrong guys.. obviously. So tell me how to do this shit.. lol. I love the lifestyle but am very shy about the bars or even house parties ... yet. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. (I am not looking for a ton of requests Unless you truly know how to please me... massage, licking, sucking, spanking, twisting, pounding etc.. if not.. just suggestions.)
My wife gave me 2 woman for my birthday last year & I would love to give her 2 gentelman for her to enjoy but I feel the same way that you do I think all they want is to get there nut off & they do not want to really satisfy there playmate so if you can help us out send us a message & we will see it it will work
It sounds like your problem is you're just not finding the right guys. It's all about the attitude. For a lot of guys (enough that it's the stereotype), sex is all about having fun, getting one, and then they're done. Not a lot you can do about them besides maybe try and teach them some techniques to help their stamina. Unfortunately, a lot of single guys on this site are like that and they just view the lifestyle as an easy way to get laid. (ha!)
I'd recommend you keep shopping around. I know you say house parties scare you a bit, but there are some darn fine lifestyle events out there that are great places to meet people. And the kinds of single guys who go to events are, in my limited experience, more likely to be people that care about pleasing their partner more than just finishing off. Alternatively, you could ask around; some of your couple friends might be able to recommend a decent single guy.
I'd recommend you keep shopping around. I know you say house parties scare you a bit, but there are some darn fine lifestyle events out there that are great places to meet people. And the kinds of single guys who go to events are, in my limited experience, more likely to be people that care about pleasing their partner more than just finishing off. Alternatively, you could ask around; some of your couple friends might be able to recommend a decent single guy.
WHITECOCOCPL wrote:
Your too picky obliviously because there available and ripe for the choosing
to quote a hotty on Scrubs, she loved the "chubbers" because they try so hard and are so grateful afterwardsI appoligise for the lenth of this.
OMG there are sooo many factors involved here. To begin with you really need to discuss this completely with a potential date and attempt to find out where his expectations lie. His muscles are not as important as his attitude. Don
OMG there are sooo many factors involved here. To begin with you really need to discuss this completely with a potential date and attempt to find out where his expectations lie. His muscles are not as important as his attitude. Don
I think that you just have to keep looking for the right person, They are out there and when the time is right you will find them. Unfortunately that does mean going to the house parties and the big parties as well. Grab a group of friends and go with them that way you will always have a buffer zone to hang out with.
no matter what...you should have experiences where the guy you are with should be attentive and wanting to fulfill your needs....As an older guy, I spend less time on me..more time on the lady I am with. I want her to feel great...and then know in turn she will make me happy.
You will meet someone. Just takes time and patience. WE are there.
doc
You will meet someone. Just takes time and patience. WE are there.
doc
I am giver. And my lady always demands it. Thats what a gentleman always does before he pleases himself.
read the member comments... see what others have written about that single guy... sometimes they are false but for the most they are true...
There are also a lot of married men out here who have a hall pass and are as interested in a rewarding social experience as they are in a sexual experience. You should probably connect with the wife as well to make sure he's not a cheater.
Mr. Sexperimentors
Mr. Sexperimentors
We older folks (men & women alike) are a well-kept secret in the Lifestyle.
Those who play with us know the benefit.
Those who don't can just stick with their attitude about "OLD FARTS" and be left out.
If you're looking for quality - go with a more "seasoned" man.
You'll understand the difference very quickly.
Those who play with us know the benefit.
Those who don't can just stick with their attitude about "OLD FARTS" and be left out.
If you're looking for quality - go with a more "seasoned" man.
You'll understand the difference very quickly.
WHITECOCOCPL wrote:
Your too picky obliviously because there available and ripe for the choosing
Tico you know this isn't true! They are as rare as unicorns and rainbows, and even if you think you found one it's fleeting. While there are some really decent guys out there, there are far more "one and done" selfish men who will lie to get you in the sack and then not perform as promised.
I love being pleased orally and get lots of guys telling me how much they love licking pussy but they get hard and they get off and I am left wanting!
funsize44 you are welcome to hang with me at the meet & greets and parties, we can search for this rare creature together
(M) Where do I apply, I cum with refrences.
We men that have been married for a while or have been in long term relationships have learned that pleasing the woman before ones own pleasure provides for a much better experience for both. There is a lot more communication as to what she wants over the years. This make us a better student. While I'm sure that there may be single guys that have learned, they don't get the feedback that us married or committed guys have gotten. Our significant others usually have no problem telling us what we're doing wrong, or what we're doing right, or how to do it better.
JMHO on what you may be experiencing.
JMHO on what you may be experiencing.