Swingers Forum - House Parties....

As many of you know, we like to host house parties....and have hosted a great many of them. We have, of course, learned what we like to feel is important at the parties in the way of respect, comfort, no pressure or drama, etc. And are pleased to have found a niche that enough people seem to like to make most of the parties very well attended! Thank you, all! It's been fun! But we do like to add new things....

One thing we often wonder, is should there be some activities that are more structured, than just a "get together and socialize, and see what happens" sort of thing.

So far our parties for the most part, have been a bit of everything in the way of activites, ranging from some guests spending all night standing around the kitchen, to others bare assed nakey playing downstairs in the bar...or off in a more secluded area...but still we wonder..are we missing an element that should be present?

Games? We have a twister board we bought for the very first party, and have yet to get it out...cards? Thinking some might need just a little game of strip something or other to break the ice....We haven't really explored this...

So, asking those who have attended, or heard about our parties...What do you think? Do we need something else? And no...a Playboy type Grotto won't fly...sorry. Damn.

Thanks guys! We enjoy having you all attend! LOL Twister...hmm...best do it early...so I have time to get "untwisted". Could take me awhile! Just might need a little sexy lady to help....

Mr. Tif

We really enjoy your parties. We like to socialize to. We love the swing, hot tub, and the excitement of the atmosphere. Your parties are very comfortable even though we are a little shy. I think it would be fun to play some blindfold games with you all. We love you guys and always look forward to being around you. You always have a good group of people at your parties. Yes twister would be fun to. Love ya. See you soon.

We would love to attend/host a party that was a little more structured and had some fun, sexy ice breaker type games and stuff. We hosted one last fall. A back to school party where everyone was supposed to dress like they would have for a high school party (but maybe sexier) in whatever era they were in high school. We were going to play some high school type games like maybe spin the bottle, 7 minutes in heaven, maybe even strip poker but unfortunately a few guests (even though they were told well ahead of time about the games and encouraged not too attend if they weren't up for that type of thing) kind of shut the whole game thing down by pouting and refusing to play. The dress like you would in high school part was a big success and a lot of fun (we had prizes for the most authentic) but the game part was definitely a bust. We thought we had done our homework and cherry picked the right people but we knew a couple might be hesitant for whatever reason about the games and sure enough...sigh. Lesson learned.

EVILDOERS wrote:

We would love to attend/host a party that was a little more structured and had some fun, sexy ice breaker type games and stuff. We hosted one last fall. A back to school party where everyone was supposed to dress like they would have for a high school party (but maybe sexier) in whatever era they were in high school. We were going to play some high school type games like maybe spin the bottle, 7 minutes in heaven, maybe even strip poker but unfortunately a few guests (even though they were told well ahead of time about the games and encouraged not too attend if they weren't up for that type of thing) kind of shut the whole game thing down by pouting and refusing to play. The dress like you would in high school part was a big success and a lot of fun (we had prizes for the most authentic) but the game part was definitely a bust. We thought we had done our homework and cherry picked the right people but we knew a couple might be hesitant for whatever reason about the games and sure enough...sigh. Lesson learned.

We learned the same thing...one of our friends told us of parties that used to be popular when they were in school..."underwear parties" where everyone put their clothes in a bag at the door....sounded like lot's of fun to us, so we tried it. Some did..and had lot's of fun...but as a whole it was a bust. Since then we've sort of gave up on theme type affairs. Still think it would be lot's of fun tho! LOL

MYRNASTWINS wrote:

The best Party's seem to have, Clowns, Midgets, Elephants, Tigers, and lots of Cotton Candy! But unless you go to the Zoo or Circus, then the next best thing is one of Tiffnd's Party's. You can find just about anything you want there. If you want to Socialize there you are, if you want to Hot Tub there you are, if you want to hang from the Ceiling in the Love Chair there you are, if you just want to be there there you are. We would love to Watch the World Finals of Neked Twister, While engaging in a little game of Strip Poker that leads to that wonderful "Old Austrian Game" of "Hide the Bratwurst".

Hmmmm...not sure how we'd keep the monkeys off the sex swing or the Hippo's out of the hot tub....but I'm game! Bring in the clowns!

Thanks for the kind words Big Steve! We love to see you guys show up at our parties!

TIFFND wrote:

As many of you know, we like to host house parties....One thing we often wonder, is should there be some activities that are more structured, than just a "get together and socialize, and see what happens" sort of thing. ...a Playboy type Grotto won't fly...sorry. Damn.

We've never attended 'cause you people live too far away, damn it! Oh wait, no, maybe it was 'cause we weren't invited!! We do like the idea of some structured activities though ... 'cause we're about as outgoing as a non-descended testicle when left to our own devices, and that can come off as "aloof" rather than just not being the best conversationalists with folks we don't know.

EVILDOERS wrote:

We would love to attend/host a party that was a little more structured and had some fun, sexy ice breaker type games and stuff. We hosted one last fall. ... We were going to play some high school type games like maybe spin the bottle, 7 minutes in heaven, maybe even strip poker but unfortunately a few guests (even though they were told well ahead of time about the games and encouraged not too attend if they weren't up for that type of thing) kind of shut the whole game thing down by pouting and refusing to play. The dress like you would in high school part was a big success... We thought we had done our homework and cherry picked the right people but we knew a couple might be hesitant for whatever reason about the games and sure enough...sigh. Lesson learned.

Again, WE weren't invited. Butt-heads! Ahem ... anyway, I (we) think we'd like something like that. Anything you learned? Maybe modifying the guest list a tad? Or enlisting the help of the couples who WERE willing to go for the games to be more exuberant about their support of those games at the next party? Or just even several (or more) card games going on that were shorter games by nature and people had to rotate tables after each round. Kind of an opportunity for "speed dating" without actually being speed-dating! Seems like when anyone talks cards it's immediately strip poker and some of us aren't comfortable with that but don't mind the striping later once we've figured out the who and where. But then I understand too that many folks are like "Hey, lets cut the crap, get naked and fuck," so, coming from a woman who's never been to a house party, my advice ain't even worth the two-cents normally offered!

PALS4FUN...We will definitely remady that. Not going to use that excuse again! We'd love to meet you guys!

Your parties rock.... We always have fun at your place.

TIFFND wrote:

Awww... thanks Spexdex and Tammy! Being comfortable with the party is one of the things we'll always strive for. For us, that is the most important party element. We wouldn't think of changing that.

Ya'll made us very comfortable at ur parties and we luv when ya'll come to ours too.

Awww Mann...you all have us blushin' now. Didn't start this thread to blow our own horn, sorry. We were just looking to see if there was something we could do to make them even better, yet.

It would appear we ought to just leave what isn't broken alone! Thanks all!

NAKEDFNCPLE wrote:

ICE seemed to work LOL

Yes it did! Thanks Iceman!

The thing I like best about a house party is getting an invitation.

Mr. Sexperimentors

Wow....thought this thread had pretty well gone away...lol Thanks for all the kind words, Always nice to know folks are having fun! And..for all who are interested..the BRBQ will be on again this summer! Including the very popular wet T contest....thinking we may have to include a new catagory or two, tho....maybe best nipples, most enthusiastic, etc...give all the girls a chance to win something!

As for house parties..we tend to invite a core group of people from our friends list....but always try to add a new couple or two to the mix, as well. If anyone really is serious about being invited...drop us a friend request or at least a note saying so..and we'll invite ya! One rule tho...we prefer couples or single girls only... Single males are usually welcome..but only with a date. Sorry guys, has just worked out best for us.

And..as most of our "regulars" know...we trust our friends well enough to know they are always free to invite anyone they may know that they think will fit in...