It is always helpful to find out what others think and I am sure that there are differing opinions on this subject.
If you have been in the lifestyle for awhile you are aware that there are always new couples looking to fit in. At some point the new couples will like to host lifestyle parties but may not quite know how to put one together.
We all know that there are all sorts of house parties from Manor size on down and there are those folks that put on great parties and have lots of room. There are also those with more limited means that accomplish it on a smaller scale.
Realizing that not everyone has a huge yard or house or can accommodate a lot of guests let
If you have been in the lifestyle for awhile you are aware that there are always new couples looking to fit in. At some point the new couples will like to host lifestyle parties but may not quite know how to put one together.
We all know that there are all sorts of house parties from Manor size on down and there are those folks that put on great parties and have lots of room. There are also those with more limited means that accomplish it on a smaller scale.
Realizing that not everyone has a huge yard or house or can accommodate a lot of guests let
We like a good old fashioned house party. We have been to a few and all but one were great. Each had limited space but it was used very well. Each room for a different activity. The one that was not so great was all clustered in two rooms and everything happened in them with no room to spare, that party had too many people for the space it had. A friend of our sets up parties in our area and each time they are great, right number of people for the space and enough room and people for all sorts of adventures.
what makes a good house party? the right people...end of story.
UTAH-CPLE-2006 wrote:.
what makes a good house party? the right people...end of story.
So true.
MINKNIGHT
Couple (Layton, UT (US))
Posted on Jan 17, 2013 04:01 PM
we have not been to one yet But imagine it would all come down to the people and comfort level.
Well then you need to come to ine of ours!!!
As for a good house party: We have had open invite, and invite only parties of all kinds,as UTAH-CPLE-2006 said, it is all about the people, on our open invites, anyone was welcome to come, but we have had more invite only parties, and getting a good mixture of people tht will mesh well, and someone for everyone style kinda is key! Really dont think the house needs to be huge or elaborate, we live in a 2300sq split level and seems to be great for 30-60 people. Now who doesnt wana rub elbow's or other things with others at a lifestyle house party lol.
If you can focus on beingthe host and make sure everyone has fun, will be a hit every time, Our secret to ours is Mrs.Sins and her smile, who cld resist lol lol, ok im bragging my wife,but damm sheis the best and Beautiful!!
Couple (Layton, UT (US))
Posted on Jan 17, 2013 04:01 PM
we have not been to one yet But imagine it would all come down to the people and comfort level.
Well then you need to come to ine of ours!!!
As for a good house party: We have had open invite, and invite only parties of all kinds,as UTAH-CPLE-2006 said, it is all about the people, on our open invites, anyone was welcome to come, but we have had more invite only parties, and getting a good mixture of people tht will mesh well, and someone for everyone style kinda is key! Really dont think the house needs to be huge or elaborate, we live in a 2300sq split level and seems to be great for 30-60 people. Now who doesnt wana rub elbow's or other things with others at a lifestyle house party lol.
If you can focus on beingthe host and make sure everyone has fun, will be a hit every time, Our secret to ours is Mrs.Sins and her smile, who cld resist lol lol, ok im bragging my wife,but damm sheis the best and Beautiful!!
FUCKADOODLEDOO wrote:
The right peeps, great music, and a great hot tub. I know everyone says this but no drama. When drama erupts folks gotta go. We have been way lucky only drama 2 times.
Gina
What kind of drama? We have set to see any drama..
We actually prefer a party of maybe 6 or 8 couples.....and we like to have the ages and body types varied enough that everyone feels they fit. It dosen't always turn out that way, of course, but that's our hope! And , as Mrs Fuckadoodle says....compatibility is paramount!
TIFFND wrote:
We actually prefer a party of maybe 6 or 8 couples.....and we like to have the ages and body types varied enough that everyone feels they fit. It dosen't always turn out that way, of course, but that's our hope! And , as Mrs Fuckadoodle says....compatibility is paramount!
YOu two host awesome parties.....Don't change a thing....You know what a true swinger is like and always bring the big dawgs in all the fun involved!!! Hugs!!
When we host we also like about 6-8 couples so everyone has a friend and everyone always feels comfortable. It is about the right people and we only do a few parties a year because our awesome friends also have awesome parties.....You know who all of you are.....Hugs to those awesome host and friends out there.....Thanks for always having us come along.....Love the lifestyle and there is no place for drama but it happens and you learn that people are just people and love them for who they are with or without drama. So live long and, prosper!!! Let you bad self out from time to time and things seem to happen!!! hehehe
Agree with SINS4FUN, they put on a hell of a great party and the mix was off the hook! And regardin Mrs. SINS4FUN, he's absolutely correct also!
We have been throwing house parties for some time now. First we think its who you invite. Make it to wear everyone will feel comfortable. So we try and invite cpls that have a similar interest. To make sure if a cpl is new that you introduce them to some cpls when the first get to the party. Let them know where 1 the bathrooms are. 2. let them know if there are rooms to play. 3. Tell them to make there self at home and if they have any problems to let you know. Hopefully there are never any problems. Let them know they don't have to drive. When you have a big party as a host always take time to sit and talk with them.
So true, a good group of people and great host make a huge difference
UTAH-CPLE-2006 wrote:
what makes a good house party? the right people...end of story.
great friends , respectful and non judgmental and REAL& TRUST when we host parties the people that we invite and love to be with are the people that we could meet at the store and say HI hows the family? those we invite into our home we trust them to respect our home and every guest that we have invited. They are friends that we trust so we don't have to worry about what or who they are, everyone is free to be who they want to be. There are lots of you that have been to our home and we hope that you have felt safe and open to be who u want to be . So thanks to all those that we call friends and hope to meet a lot more in the future.
thanks T&D
thanks T&D
DDRIVER03 wrote:
great friends , respectful and non judgmental and REAL& TRUST when we host parties the people that we invite and love to be with are the people that we could meet at the store and say HI hows the family? those we invite into our home we trust them to respect our home and every guest that we have invited. They are friends that we trust so we don't have to worry about what or who they are, everyone is free to be who they want to be. There are lots of you that have been to our home and we hope that you have felt safe and open to be who u want to be . So thanks to all those that we call friends and hope to meet a lot more in the future.
thanks T&D
We love your parties! Always a blast to see old friends and new!
I prefer to attend parties that are not extremely last minute. I don't demand to see the guest list, but do hope to see a wide variety of interests. It always seems like some people are more restrained, while I'm the one of the first ones naked, so I appreciate a party with either separate floor levels or rooms, so that everyone can find a niche that fits their comfort level.
I prefer to know the people touching me at least a little .... The creepy guy who tries to join in without a word is not a welcome sight. The judgmental "saint" is also unwelcome. So, having a bit of group conversation helps avoid that.
For me, the best caveat is knowing and trusting the hosts. If they demonstrate that they are consistent in introducing people who are fun and feel safe, I will always try to attend their events.
As for newbies.... I used to host Beginners only parties. They would start off more like a group therapy session where each person would Share their interests and their rules. This provides a more gentle and less aggressive introduction for people who were testing the waters.
I prefer to know the people touching me at least a little .... The creepy guy who tries to join in without a word is not a welcome sight. The judgmental "saint" is also unwelcome. So, having a bit of group conversation helps avoid that.
For me, the best caveat is knowing and trusting the hosts. If they demonstrate that they are consistent in introducing people who are fun and feel safe, I will always try to attend their events.
As for newbies.... I used to host Beginners only parties. They would start off more like a group therapy session where each person would Share their interests and their rules. This provides a more gentle and less aggressive introduction for people who were testing the waters.
FUCKADOODLEDOO wrote:
K so the hubby said for his 2 cents is basically maybe you should go to a house party and decide from there. He said we can all advise you but really gotta see for yourself. Gina
Yes everyone should go to several before hosting their own. We go back 10 years and have been to a number of them over the years both good and not so. We have noticed some general changes take place and thus I thought this question could be informative as to current expectations. Clearly no one wants to through a bad party.
Of course there are some standards for legal reasons like BYOB. That way you do not get sued if they wreck going home. Even then I think that the host should have some common sense in how much the guests drink.
But the question is What Makes The Best Parties Today. Of course all do
FUCKADOODLEDOO wrote:
ME LMAO. If Im there its gonna be great LOL J/K
Gina
Thats no lie:-) your defently a fun lady and Robs not so bad himself
Yeah tiffnd we love your parties. You all make it a comfortable party. No pressure. Can't wait for the next one.
HOTFIRELOVERS wrote:TIFFND wrote:
We actually prefer a party of maybe 6 or 8 couples.....and we like to have the ages and body types varied enough that everyone feels they fit. It dosen't always turn out that way, of course, but that's our hope! And , as Mrs Fuckadoodle says....compatibility is paramount!
YOu two host awesome parties.....Don't change a thing....You know what a true swinger is like and always bring the big dawgs in all the fun involved!!! Hugs!!
Thanks Hotfires! But with guests like you guys...how could the party miss??? LOL
2FORA3SOME wrote:
Yeah tiffnd we love your parties. You all make it a comfortable party. No pressure. Can't wait for the next one.
Exactly what we strive For! Thinking it might be about time for another one, too, we love seeing everyone have fun!...just need to find the time!
We think the best parties are when nobody gets drunk and/or pissed off and pulls a gun or a knife on one of the other guests.
EVILDOERS wrote:
We think the best parties are when nobody gets drunk and/or pissed off and pulls a gun or a knife on one of the other guests.
Haha
Those are some of the most uncomfortable parties to be at. I think I would rather have a 3 sum in the back of a VW lolz
SHERA_HEMAN3 wrote:EVILDOERS wrote:Haha Those are some of the most uncomfortable parties to be at. I think I would rather have a 3 sum in the back of a VW lolz
We think the best parties are when nobody gets drunk and/or pissed off and pulls a gun or a knife on one of the other guests.
Do you have a preference which model?
We've been to several house parties, the fun ones are the ones where the host gets everyone involved ..the worst one for us host and most of the group locked themselves in bedroom and the very small remainder which included us stayed downstairs and there was no chemistry between any of us so ended up leaving was very disappointed ... glad this only happened once if it had happened more would've givin us a complex and we'd have stopped swinging lol
UTAH-CPLE-2006 wrote:
what makes a good house party? the right people...end of story.
My thoughts exactly.
Suggestions for a great house party:
1) Six couple maximum
2) Similar ages - within about 10-15 years of each other
3) Everyone needs to be willing to participate in some way
4) A clear understanding of the goals of the party (playing board games vs. a full on orgy, for instance)
5) A clear understanding of the "window of opportunity", when the party is over it's time to go home
6) A list of attendees - it's hard to remember who you met and want to re-connect with sometimes (can you imagine - while in the middle of a mind blowing orgasm - thinking that you want to connect again but don't know the Swingular handle of the person giving you the orgasm?)
7) Food and drink - everyone should bring something
8) Bring your own stuff (lubes, condoms, etc.) If the host has it all, great but participants should be willing to bring their own
9) Sometimes themes are fun
Mrs. Sexperimentors
PS. Mr Sexperimentors doesn't like single males in a smaller group setting. He says that way there's no "pair-ity". On the other hand, he says that single females are always welcome and calls that "pear-ity".
1) Six couple maximum
2) Similar ages - within about 10-15 years of each other
3) Everyone needs to be willing to participate in some way
4) A clear understanding of the goals of the party (playing board games vs. a full on orgy, for instance)
5) A clear understanding of the "window of opportunity", when the party is over it's time to go home
6) A list of attendees - it's hard to remember who you met and want to re-connect with sometimes (can you imagine - while in the middle of a mind blowing orgasm - thinking that you want to connect again but don't know the Swingular handle of the person giving you the orgasm?)
7) Food and drink - everyone should bring something
8) Bring your own stuff (lubes, condoms, etc.) If the host has it all, great but participants should be willing to bring their own
9) Sometimes themes are fun
Mrs. Sexperimentors
PS. Mr Sexperimentors doesn't like single males in a smaller group setting. He says that way there's no "pair-ity". On the other hand, he says that single females are always welcome and calls that "pear-ity".
OLDCOWBOY wrote:TIFFND wrote:
[quote=2FORA3SOME]Yeah tiffnd we love your parties. You all make it a comfortable party. No pressure. Can't wait for the next one.
Exactly what we strive For! Thinking it might be about time for another one, too, we love seeing everyone have fun!...just need to find the time!
Mrs. Here: yes I have to agree with everything above. Tiffnd's parties rock. We always have fun there, playing or not. The couples are always very compatible and that makes me very comfortable and safe. Never have to worry about anything but having a good time and I hope there will be another party in the near future. Thanks for being such gracious hosts and always go above and beyond to make everybody feel special. Love you guys![/quote]
Awwww...thanks! It really isn't hard to have a great party when you have so many GREAT friends!