"Istn't that why we are all here?" How many times have we seen that statement in a post? The point is we all have different ideas of it and what we are looking to get out of the lifestyle. Let's share some of our ideas about what is is we hope to find here. BTW, let's please not make judgemental statements about what others post, but instead just focus on expressing our own goals. Let's have some fun with this 

Ditto Mrs. Hunt! Sharing, openly and honestly, that is the key. You will reap what you sow.
Hey Girl! We are in the lifestyle to experience JOY in everyway we can. That can come in infinite forms. The possibilities are endless. In doing this, we try not to place restrictions on our play, except that our playmates be clean and have a brain. LOL. We also, want to make all the friends we can. We are very social animals and have realized that in the society of today, monogomy doesn't work. Just look at the divorce rate. We have found a way to share our lives together without sacrificing whatever desires may arise in our ever evolving minds and spirits. And guess what---WE'RE HAPPY! That's what it's all about!
We just live it because it makes us both happy.
I think we are in this lifestyle beause we like people and we like sex and we are adults not some child that religion or the government says we can or we can't do this or that. B is Bi and that was a primary reason to begin this journey. I find the lifestyle stimulating and places like this even more so... I've only run into a few stinkers in the last 9 years in the lifestyle and had to put up with stinkers all of my working life... Must be something good about the lifestyle..
We're here for the chicks.... LOL thought I would start out as a smart ass.
Honestly, we are on this site for the forums and to see what other people are thinking. We rarely meet people from the site (altho one hottie from Idaho has us thinking).
We are a couple of swappers who swing in seperate rooms (and sometimes at seperate times but only at our group house) that enjoy kissing.
Honestly, we are on this site for the forums and to see what other people are thinking. We rarely meet people from the site (altho one hottie from Idaho has us thinking).
We are a couple of swappers who swing in seperate rooms (and sometimes at seperate times but only at our group house) that enjoy kissing.
I guess since I started this thread, I should throw ours out there as well. We started this to fulfill some fantasies we had regarding group sex ie. threesomes, foursomes, ect. MFM, FMF, MFMF, MFFM, MFMFMF, you get the picture. We keep doing it, becasue now that we have experienced that, we realize it is so much fun. There are some things you just can't do with only two people and while sometimes toys can be used to simulate, it is a lot of fun to throw in the extra bodies.
We also like the friendships we have built. We have met some of the coolest people doing this that we wouldn't have otherwise had oppotunity to meet and know.
We also like the friendships we have built. We have met some of the coolest people doing this that we wouldn't have otherwise had oppotunity to meet and know.