Ok...so we haven't had any luck finding single guys that have both looks and stamina. Are there couples out there who play with hall passes? -figured it would be easier to find a quality male/female within a couple instead of relying on the single choices out there
Just us old ones
very true dragon!
bank the 15 ball, all the way down....ooooops, cut it too much.......
I highly recommend WHITECOCOCPL. Only man I have met, next to hubby, that can keep up with me. Together they are olympic!!! Amazing lover and nicely hung! Jackie
J has an ongoing, open hallpass... and I will attest for his handsomeness and amazing stamina! but he doesn't usually play alone with couples. couples are for when we play together. he loves playing alone with single ladies or ladies with a hallpass. he is very attentive to the needs of a woman and makes her feel so beautiful, sensual, and desired! we have pics of him in our private album... 
the hubby has a hall pass
We both have passes, it is more difficult to find couples that like each other or stay together. But prefer couples. Stamina can be affected by so many things judging someone by the first meeting may not show the true sory.
We do from time to time. If either of us plays solo with a couple or married the one thing we make sure is that it is not assumed to be reciprocal. So if the Mrs plays with somebody else's Mr...his wife should not make assumptions that Mr.Cnkiss is down or obligated to play. That is probably the trickiest part.
With that said it can certainly be easier than dealing with a clingy or disrespectful single. Stamina...well if you know us....you already know.
With that said it can certainly be easier than dealing with a clingy or disrespectful single. Stamina...well if you know us....you already know.
BAGLEBR wrote:
There are some really nice single males out there.....
And I can vouch that you, BAGLEBR, are at the top of that nice (yet deliciously naughty) list....and you also have mad skills!!
We just live in the wrong state. We play together and separately,but there just are not that many people in here in the San Francisco Bay Area. We would both enjoy playing with Partnerszncrime.
You also have to remember. Guys are visual. So when we finally hook up after a week or two trying to get with a couple or hot single.
The first time might not be the best in the stanima department. If there is enough spark for the first attempt maybe it makes sence to try it again. The second time there won't be all that built up libido
You can't expect to clean a loaded gun without it going off.. :P
The first time might not be the best in the stanima department. If there is enough spark for the first attempt maybe it makes sence to try it again. The second time there won't be all that built up libido
You can't expect to clean a loaded gun without it going off.. :P
SHERA_HEMAN3 wrote:
You also have to remember. Guys are visual. So when we finally hook up after a week or two trying to get with a couple or hot single.
The first time might not be the best in the stanima department. If there is enough spark for the first attempt maybe it makes sence to try it again. The second time there won't be all that built up libido
You can't expect to clean a loaded gun without it going off.. :P
I'm kind of backwards this way I guess... Typically the first time we meet with a couple, it takes me forever to get off. I get so wrapped up in trying to make sure she's ok, that I'll spend more time chasing her orgasm, than even thinking about my own. So I wouldn't necessarily say I'm all stamina, but my mind has to be in it. Bad enough that I've had to apologize for not getting off a couple times...
Bummer you haven't found single guys worthwhile. (This is the Mrs. by the way.) I guess we have just been lucky in that department. So many people bash single guys and I just don't understand why. We play separate more and more often. We have a harder time finding single women or women with hall passes. Maybe because I am the picky one I mean if I am going to share my incredibly sexy and amazing man she better be worth my night alone watching the kids! So ladies, please let me know if you're game to play. All you need to do is read our profile to see what "worth it" would mean to us. I also find it amusing how so many swingers claim to be open minded then are incredibly judgmental of people who choose to play separate. What is up with that? It isn't always easy finding couples where all sides are attracted and ready to get naked.
I mean if I am going to share my incredibly sexy and amazing man she better be worth my night alone watching the kids! So ladies, please let me know if you're game to play. All you need to do is read our profile to see what "worth it" would mean to us. I also find it amusing how so many swingers claim to be open minded then are incredibly judgmental of people who choose to play separate. What is up with that? It isn't always easy finding couples where all sides are attracted and ready to get naked.HAMMER_AND_FQ wrote:
Bummer you haven't found single guys worthwhile. (This is the Mrs. by the way.) I guess we have just been lucky in that department. So many people bash single guys and I just don't understand why. We play separate more and more often. We have a harder time finding single women or women with hall passes. Maybe because I am the picky one
As a single male, I approve of this message! LOL
But, in all seriousness, I think the discussion just boils down the the OP having a challenge finding the right SM that fits with their own personal interests and tastes, along with the stamina issue. I genuinely don't see an issue with having your own tastes and preferences as we're all human and all have the different things that attract you (or the couple as a whole) to someone else. My two cents is what WHITECOCOCPL shared above ... apply your own experience, your own attractions, and good referrals and start there, and don't be shy to test the waters with those you find attractive, and hope the whole package (pun intended) is as good as hoped!
CNKISS wrote:
We do from time to time. If either of us plays solo with a couple or married the one thing we make sure is that it is not assumed to be reciprocal. So if the Mrs plays with somebody else's Mr...his wife should not make assumptions that Mr.Cnkiss is down or obligated to play. That is probably the trickiest part.
With that said it can certainly be easier than dealing with a clingy or disrespectful single. Stamina...well if you know us....you already know.
Well said, we are on the same boat and do it from time to time, also we have found out at least in our case it's been more pleasant to meet with cpls either if we are on hall passes or when they have hall passes rather than deal with the "issues" of the single males and even some single females, however when we find not only cpls but the allusive nice, down to earth, respectful, playful, Etc... Etc... Male or female friends we like to show them our apreciation for their friendship
just my luck im in ga thats it im moving to utah next year
Male hall pass in Vegas, if you're down
HIGHUINTAS wrote:
This has been a good conversation for us to read. We are pretty much loners, enjoy each other's company more than in a group, travel a fair amount, and have sex together a lot.
We have just talked that her fucking a younger buck would be fun for her...and fun for me to watch! Sounds like it might be more hassle and time commitment than we would be willing to invest.
interesting to see the exact same passive-aggressive comment in 2 different forums...
thanks for all of the advise
Interesting comments to read here; thank you everybody! It's nice to see a forum post that involves the topic of single males that isn't all bashing :P
Partnerz, I took a look at your profile and remember running across it before when I first joined the site. You specifically tell single males not to contact you, which means the only ones who DO contact you are going to be the kinds of single males who give the rest of us a bad name. I know I didn't even send a "hello" for that very reason, and I can't help but think that most of the other decent guys on here would react the same way. Of course, that doesn't apply to anyone you would contact, but that's my two cents.
Best of luck in the search!
Partnerz, I took a look at your profile and remember running across it before when I first joined the site. You specifically tell single males not to contact you, which means the only ones who DO contact you are going to be the kinds of single males who give the rest of us a bad name. I know I didn't even send a "hello" for that very reason, and I can't help but think that most of the other decent guys on here would react the same way. Of course, that doesn't apply to anyone you would contact, but that's my two cents.
Best of luck in the search!
PARTNERZNCRIME wrote:
Ok...so we haven't had any luck finding single guys that have both looks and stamina. Are there couples out there who play with hall passes? -figured it would be easier to find a quality male/female within a couple instead of relying on the single choices out there
So what does one mean by stamina anyway???? How long do you..no you but people in general want to fuck?? hours??? I'll take good sex over hours of play anytime.
We both have hall passes
I have given my wife a hall pass and her me a long time ago. We are allowed to play seperately as often as we want we just have to let the other person know.
We were both surprised how soon we were both open to that.
We were both surprised how soon we were both open to that.
We try and keep it even. Sometimes that is not possible so we limit how far "up" one can get on the other.
CNKISS wrote:
We try and keep it even. Sometimes that is not possible so we limit how far "up" one can get on the other.
We love going "up" and down on the other every chance we get
Is there a sign up sheet for this hall pass?
We enjoy playing as a couple and alone. Though for some reason, my husband (Eros69) does not get many who will talk to him or believe that I will let him go play on his own when he desires. I would love for him to get some alone time opportunities with some fun and sexy playmates!
PEPPERANDBOOP wrote:
With all the couples that are commenting here, which half uses the hall pass more?
Sadly, I do! The "she" part of us. In fact, I have stopped until we can get him, Eros69, some opportunities.
hubby has a hall pass
we have each used a hall pass twice....been fun, but playing together is so much more fun
We actually enjoy the play together. A hall pass for us defeats the purpose of why we're in this. I know it's different for everyone here, but this is how we enjoy it.
That being said, the Mrs. side has a hall pass with other women if she finds a friend that she'd like to play with, but only on a one on one basis, no husbands involved.
That being said, the Mrs. side has a hall pass with other women if she finds a friend that she'd like to play with, but only on a one on one basis, no husbands involved.
We have hall passes. My Hubby has No problem in the stamina area!!! Not bragging, but he wears me out, or maybe I'm a wimp lol. It is hard to find single women out there. Would LOVE to find him his own person 3, 4 some. He'd love it and I'd like to return the favor. He has suprised me on many occusions with , well extra fun. lol
The last time we did a booty call for a couple or single male (and it was really too short of notice) we got a response from a few couples, one single male too late, and 3 or 4 male halves claiming to have a hall pass. We have said from beginning no hall pass playing unless it is people we know as a couple socially already and know their hall pass status. (We don't do them, we always together but are allowed to play around on our own at parties etc, we just both have to be there and aware of what going on) Are we being overly cautious. Is there that many legit hall pass holders out there are is this mostly guys stepping out or single men posing as couples ???
If you are every looking for that single male. I do get to the City once in awhile and would love to prove myself give me a try. It wont be disappointing. Ok I know that sounded cheesy but I would love to help any and all out with there fantasies. Lets chat and see where it goes
MINKNIGHT wrote:
I told the wife she could play any time as long I know before hand and who with then get details after words this makes for some hot sex. I get to play if I want when she is not available during the monthly time. this is on me not her. and if we are at parties then anything the other wants to do is fair game
Thats sound like our rules too. Dont have to worry about monthly time anymore lol.
there are couples with hall passes, usually its with play friends that you have played with and have mutual trust with, stamina really has nothing to do with looks, its more about experience, with age you learn its about foreplay and the whole experience, it should last at least an hour for most ladies to have a full filling fun expierence, Im good to go from an hour to 3 hours, but it does take control and thinking about pleasing the lady as long as possible,
We too use hall passes and really like playing together or seperately. Were all about pleasing our lovers and usually try to stick with our playmates that weve played with before. And I really like for my lady to use her hall passes regularly. Especially when I'm working or gone. Its such a turn on to hear her lusty stories of being worked by a lover who's got GAME. Any ways to all my swinger peeps. we love u all and hope to always have swinging in our life. We have always had a wonderful sex life, but swinging has definately enhanced it and made us an even closer and better couple. Chow peeps Rick