K, we been around the block a few times and I (mrs) started to play with the girls a little more every time and enjoyed it . I would like to take it to the next 'level' but not sure how to go about. we been playing with some couples and the girls are into the girls and i want to explore this a bit more. Mentioned this to the mr and he was ecstatic mentioned that he can
Did u tell your man that? Depending on your comfort level do it alone the first time, then invite him for the second.
HFUN wrote:
You would think since you are both women you would know how to do it better than the guys. just do it how you would like it..
that thought process doesn't work as well as it sounds. what one girl enjoys, another might not. what might be a hot button for one, isn't always for another. the way i like it, might do nothing for the other girl. its a very individualized process, so just because i'm a girl and/or just doing it how i like it.... doesn't necessarily equate to being considered good at it. the idea for any gender and any sexual encounter is to listen to your partner and not be afraid to communicate about whats working or not working. and for the record, i've never had a girl perform oral better that a dude.
Just view you man as the lesbian in the room. We never play in different rooms. At times we have had parties where one of the games included 5 minutes in private, but even then we allowed the group to go watch after a minute to let them get started whith whatever naughty they were going to get into.
Not a truse issue, we just enjoy the activities more if we know the other is watching. or at least in close proximity.
Communication is key! tell you man how you feel. see what he has to say. he may suprise you understanding your feelings. This whole lifestyle is 100% about trust.
Not a truse issue, we just enjoy the activities more if we know the other is watching. or at least in close proximity.
Communication is key! tell you man how you feel. see what he has to say. he may suprise you understanding your feelings. This whole lifestyle is 100% about trust.
When Mrs Sins came to the point of this, she to wanted to have her first experiance just with her and another female! Although I sure wanted to see and be a part of it, I gave her my blessing to set forth and do exactly that, just her and another female! It now in turn has turned out to be wonderful, because she wants me rite there with her everytime, she says she has found thatit is more exciting!
As for the knowing what to do: From what i am told, Its a go with the flow thing, and guiding each other! Pretty cut and dry:
So our advice is, Your hubby should be ok with your request, which i think most in this lifedtyle would be if there is any respect to your spouse in this manor!
Hope all works out for ya!!
As for the knowing what to do: From what i am told, Its a go with the flow thing, and guiding each other! Pretty cut and dry:
So our advice is, Your hubby should be ok with your request, which i think most in this lifedtyle would be if there is any respect to your spouse in this manor!
Hope all works out for ya!!
Do what your comfortable with. Its great that she felt comfortable enough to tell you. If you ok with it the first time she will feel more comfortable in the future. Enjoy the journey.
CB & KB
CB & KB
HELLO_KITTY12984 wrote:
and for the record, i've never had a girl perform oral better that a dude.
I'll second that... but I still love the ladies!
Mrs Newbie, you need to meet Sue... she'll take good care of you 