Ladies,do guys cum to quick or do you take to long to cum?
I'd say a lot of this depends on the effort made by the male. There are old Ty of guys out there that think they have the "end all" moves without taking the time to find out what gets her there, or even caring if she does. This is always my concern when we meet new couples. I want my wife to get pleased, just as much as I do. If I'm going to put forth the effort to please a woman, I don't feel guilty expecting that of the same from my wife's potential partner...
I guess it depends on the situation, and time is relative. There have been times when I will not cum and frankly get tired of fucking and then there are times when its all I can do to keep from blowing my load too soon. But I generally I like to get the woman off orally at least once as a form of foreplay.
Yes.
Try going down a waterslide with no water, and then think about how important foreplay is!
Foreplay is one of the best part of these experiences. Taking the time to explore a woman's body, to build up the intensity and anticipation of the full experience.... Nothing like it when that want becomes so fierce that you just have to have more....
I, (STEVE), really enjoy getting a woman off. Some are easy and some are not so easy. Some have no clue what it is to squirt and some have just been so rushed all their life they don't know how to slow down and enjoy... MOST of the time I want to really touch, feel , lick, suck, manipulate, watch and do my best to make a woman not only cum, but cum hard and plenty. It's more about them than me in most instances... That does NOT mean I wouldn't love to just lay back and be treated like a king.. I know 2 women that are extremely good at "THE KINGS TREATMENT". I allllllways try to give them the wonderful time they give me, but 1 of them is even more about me than she'll let me about her!!!! MERRY FUCKING CHRISTMAS!!!!!! To me the biggest thing is to do your best reading the person you are with and be honest. DAMN IT I'm horny!!!! What was the question?? hahahaha :P
I'm cursed, I think. I have been told I take too long. I generally take 90 min or longer and sometimes still can't come at all! I'm even turned on and can stay hard the whole time...just have always had a tough time cumming. Wish someone out there could help me...any suggestions?
BLONDIE69 wrote:
I would like to find the guy that is willing to take his time in getting me to cum... I take quite awhile but if someone takes the time and doesn't get frustrated then it's smooth sailing from there. I need a lot of foreplay or this girl takes forever. So hopefully the man's stamina lasts too.
I know a guy who can put a lot of effort to making a woman feel satisfied. He's trouble though...so right up your alley!
Time is everything. I read in both GQ and in Cosmopolitan that the average sexual intercourse lasts only 7.5 minutes. I'd hate that! Mrs. Sexperimentors and I are both incredibly blessed to be multi-orgasmic which makes our love making sessions last a lot longer. I don't have the stamina I once did, but when I'm not simply exhausted it will last a good long time. I feel very blessed. That sounds an awful lot like bragging, I suppose. But, for me it's a whole lot more about making sure my partner has fun and gets pleasure than it is for me to cum and go.
Of course, there quickies can be a lot of fun!
Mr. Sexperimentors
Of course, there quickies can be a lot of fun!
Mr. Sexperimentors
Fess up time:
In my younger years, I was a quick finisher - but I trained myself to go the distance.
Most of the time.
But pin point control can vary from time to time and partner to partner, so developing a technique was born of necessity.
First, I'll make certain the lady has AT LEAST one orgasm from my tongue before we start to fuck.
While fucking, if I feel the urge cumming on, I pull out and drop down for another minute or so of tongue action.
When the fucking resumes, I normally have plenty of endurance, but if I do feel it cumming on again, it's back to eating before resuming fucking.
I have never had to interrupt the fucking more than twice to keep total control.
From then on, I can choose to cum or not cum - and that holds true for the entire night, even if it's several repeat performances.
Even if it's a different lady, or ladies.
In my younger years, I was a quick finisher - but I trained myself to go the distance.
Most of the time.
But pin point control can vary from time to time and partner to partner, so developing a technique was born of necessity.
First, I'll make certain the lady has AT LEAST one orgasm from my tongue before we start to fuck.
While fucking, if I feel the urge cumming on, I pull out and drop down for another minute or so of tongue action.
When the fucking resumes, I normally have plenty of endurance, but if I do feel it cumming on again, it's back to eating before resuming fucking.
I have never had to interrupt the fucking more than twice to keep total control.
From then on, I can choose to cum or not cum - and that holds true for the entire night, even if it's several repeat performances.
Even if it's a different lady, or ladies.
How about 3 strokes? Is that quick enough? Actually happened to me, I could not believe it! I have had quickies but 3 strokes was the all time quickie of quick! hhmmmmm, wonder if there is a record on this?
Have Fun!!
Mrs U2
Have Fun!!
Mrs U2
SPEXDEX wrote:BLONDIE69 wrote:
I would like to find the guy that is willing to take his time in getting me to cum... I take quite awhile but if someone takes the time and doesn't get frustrated then it's smooth sailing from there. I need a lot of foreplay or this girl takes forever. So hopefully the man's stamina lasts too.
I know a guy who can put a lot of effort to making a woman feel satisfied. He's trouble though...so right up your alley!
Well Blondie I think we might just have tag team for u & see what you can do with two handsom and loving patient guys and if that don't help we can call in the national gaurd
I'm not the National Guard, but I have plenty of semen at my command!
SPEXDEX wrote:
I'm not the National Guard, but I have plenty of semen at my command!
LMAO nice one
As quick and as often as we can make them!
I love it when a woman has the rest of her life to let me explore her body. I have had the best times doing just that.. Explore. Lick a little here. Suck a little there. fingers all over and rubbing everywhere. When the trust is 100% anything can be accomplished. I just have to allllways remember a large towel as I love to make a woman squirt over and over..... In a hurry sucks....
SIXTMINUTEMAN wrote:
I'm cursed, I think. I have been told I take too long. I generally take 90 min or longer and sometimes still can't come at all! I'm even turned on and can stay hard the whole time...just have always had a tough time cumming. Wish someone out there could help me...any suggestions?
TOO MUCH INFORMATION WARNING. If you have my issue its called dry orgasm. I will orgasm but not ejaculate. When it happens I become a flesh and blood vibrator for the rest of the night. Sometimes the wife thinks its pretty cool but as often as not it is frustrating for her because she really enjoys the finish line for both. And no, I've not found a fool proof solution to it.
And sorry ladies (regarding the three stroke comment) I don't think I've ever been that bad but you know, none of us can be perfect every time. We all have our off days
SIXTMINUTEMAN wrote:
I'm cursed, I think. I have been told I take too long. I generally take 90 min or longer and sometimes still can't come at all! I'm even turned on and can stay hard the whole time...just have always had a tough time cumming. Wish someone out there could help me...any suggestions?
TOO MUCH INFORMATION WARNING. If you have my issue its called dry orgasm. I will orgasm but not ejaculate. When it happens I become a flesh and blood vibrator for the rest of the night. Sometimes the wife thinks its pretty cool but as often as not it is frustrating for her because she really enjoys the finish line for both. And no, I've not found a fool proof solution to it.
And sorry ladies (regarding the three stroke comment) I don't think I've ever been that bad but you know, none of us can be perfect every time. We all have our off days
(M) Did not know there was a requirement to cum. I always thought that when time ran out if both were pleased thats all that mattered.