Swingers Forum - LifestyleManor (the Mansion)

As we now enter our 2nd year of hosting Events and Saturday meet & greets at the LifestyleManor (Draper Mansion), we thought it would be a good idea to start a forum thread about any misconceptions or questions there may be about the Venue, the various memberships and how they work, what happens at the Manor, etc.

We have worked very hard to establish a world class Lifestyle Venue and have had visitors from all over the country come visit us and play at the Manor. The feedback we have gotten from our out of town guests is that they are extremely envious of the people of Utah.

We hope to create a discussion here about what we are doing well and what we could also do to improve or expand things at the Manor.

We hope to hear from the people who have never been to the Manor and find out what has kept them away. We would love it if our regulars helped out in the discussion to answer a few of the questions that arise and give their take on things. We hope that this will give an honest approach to the discussions rather than just hearing from your hosts.

We look forward to hopefully hearing from many of you

Ross & Vickey
LifestyleManor

When we walked in our first time , we were immediately impressed. we love this Mansion. It's one of the best ones we go to and we always have good times here. the only Con, the party ends to soon! (2 am) lol..

CHOPPERNDOLL wrote:

(doll here)
ok, a couple of questions from a newbie, and a suggestion too
(suggestion may be for the site admins)
is there a place in slc known as the manor?
and the place in draper is known as the mansion?
because we have been to the halloween party in draper (mansion)
and we really enjoyed it, it was comfortable, clean, and fun without any pressure
(which is totally what you look for when new to the lifestyle)
and we are thinking of doing the christmas party too

suggestion= there needs to be some sort of 'term and defination' section
which would be prefered over the wiki thing
or maybe please update the wiki thing
because i have heard several terms that i have to assume the defination for
(and we all know i could be making an a** of myself by doing so~ lol)

thank you and i look forward to meeting many more of you
doll

Hi Chopperndoll

The "Mansion" and the "Manor" are the same place. We changed our name from FANTASYERS because the name LIFESTYLE MANOR better suited the Venue so now we refer to the Mansion as the Manor. Manor is more unique to us.

I believe the "Wiki" thing you are referring to is part of Swingular's definition about swinging in general and not part of the LifestyleManor.

We hope that we have answered your question

WILDHEARTS wrote:

One thing we have worried about with going to the events is our pictures being taken. Privacy is a must for us so what is the policy and such on pictures being taken as we do not want any taken of us?

We shoot photos at the lifestyle manor and can assure you, that your photos will never be posted without your express permission. All you need to do is notify R&V or us and your photos WILL NOT even be taken. If you are inadvertently in any shots, you will be removed or blurred out. There is some discussion about wearing a bracelet if you want to opt out of photography, as an extra precaution. R&V go through great lengths to protect your privacy and anonymity.

D&T

We love to go to the manor. Thumbs up from us. It is the most classy place you can go hang out. lots of activities and very reasonable on price. anywhere else we go we will spend at least double on drinks and stuff. You can dance, chill, play pool, sit in the hot tub go swimming, snow angels in the snow and even have naughty time. good drinks as strong or weak as you want them. what more could you want.

On the pretty people. there is a john for every jill. Because of such a great atmosphere everyone is pleasant and friendly no matter what their looks, shapes or styles are. no one is overly aggressive or snooty. it is just a fun flirty sexy place. Everyone is allowed to have as much fun as they want.

The only thing the manor needs is more participation. Dont be scared. give it a try. then it will be your fav. place too!

J&J

The Manor/Mansion is the most incredible place to experience the lifestyle. The many events are creative and fun for all from mild to wild in the lifestyle. We are lucky enough to be able to host the massage events there and we can attest that there is no other place in Utah that even remotely comes close to the experiences you can have than the atmosphere that R & V provide. We love these sexy hosts and hope to be able to be part of what they continue to invision for the future. The lifestyle brings many perks and the Lifestyle Manor offers a place to put you fantasies into motion and make them an incredible fun reality!!

FORKICKS wrote:

SHUTTERBUGS wrote:

We rarely go to public events for the same reason. We did attend a large party this past summer(not the mansion) and wound up with our full face pics on the internet. This was very upsetting to us. When we contacted the site admin they were very apologetic and cooperative and very quickly removed our pictures and claimed to delete the originals. This was the last party we attended and we were only there for 10 minutes. The host did tell us that the photographer "knows who to take pics of". Well, obviously not. We were not the subject of the picture, but we were prominently displayed in the picture and then posted on the internet. We left the second we saw a photographer and only went looking for pictures because of a mention of them on one of these threads.
Ross and Vickie are GREAT hosts. The mansion is a GREAT venue. But "all you have to do is opt out" is totally missing the point. Please don't misread this. We also don't post on these threads to avoid offending anyone with our opinions. But this might be an important consideration for anyone throwing this type of party? We very much appreciated shutterbugs attempt to address the concern and understand the spirit and the intent. But it actually compounded and confirmed our concerns.
We respect that these are private parties and photographers can be allowed at the hosts discretion. Our preference would be that no photography be allowed. But that may not suit everyone? At the very least, it should be an "opt in" experience. No pictures should be taken without the expressed consent of everyone in the picture, which would really eliminate large random group pictures. Our privacy should be assumed and protected. If we have to request it, we are in the wrong place. (for us)
Ross, we would love to hear your view and policy on photography. Either way, thanks for your efforts. You're great!

Right-on. We'd MUCH prefer that these all be "opt in" situations rather than "Opt out." There is absolutely no valid reason to be taking peoples pics without their explicit permission even when they're only on the periphery.

FORKICKS wrote:



We rarely go to public events for the same reason. We did attend a large party this past summer(not the mansion) and wound up with our full face pics on the internet. This was very upsetting to us. When we contacted the site admin they were very apologetic and cooperative and very quickly removed our pictures and claimed to delete the originals. This was the last party we attended and we were only there for 10 minutes. The host did tell us that the photographer "knows who to take pics of". Well, obviously not. We were not the subject of the picture, but we were prominently displayed in the picture and then posted on the internet. We left the second we saw a photographer and only went looking for pictures because of a mention of them on one of these threads.
Ross and Vickie are GREAT hosts. The mansion is a GREAT venue. But "all you have to do is opt out" is totally missing the point. Please don't misread this. We also don't post on these threads to avoid offending anyone with our opinions. But this might be an important consideration for anyone throwing this type of party? We very much appreciated shutterbugs attempt to address the concern and understand the spirit and the intent. But it actually compounded and confirmed our concerns.
We respect that these are private parties and photographers can be allowed at the hosts discretion. Our preference would be that no photography be allowed. But that may not suit everyone? At the very least, it should be an "opt in" experience. No pictures should be taken without the expressed consent of everyone in the picture, which would really eliminate large random group pictures. Our privacy should be assumed and protected. If we have to request it, we are in the wrong place. (for us)
Ross, we would love to hear your view and policy on photography. Either way, thanks for your efforts. You're great!

Thanks Forkicks for addressing this issue.

We apologize for this being so long but we have always felt that this is one of the most important aspects of the lifestyle.

We would like to discuss this and let everyone know the policy we have for photography at our events.

This has always been a huge issue in the lifestyle both on websites, and at parties. The reason people put photos on their profiles is because this is a "Visual" lifestyle. We want to show others what we look like and we definitely want to know what other people look like before we get too involved with them.

So pictures are an important part of the lifestyle. With that being said, everybody has the right to privacy, discretion, and to only display those pics that they choose to display. This is easy to control when it is the pictures that you take of yourselves in the privacy of your home.

It is different when you are out at events, large parties or even small private house parties. "EVERYBODY" has a camera now, of some kind, because of the smart phone.

Here is our policy at the LifestyleManor.

First off, we only allow photography at our big events like halloween, xmas etc. The reason we have a photographer at these events is because the majority of people want a great photo of themselves dressed up in their costumes or outfits. We always have a specific area setup at the event where people can come and pose for their picture with a simple background. (No impromptu people in background)

We have learned that for every person or couple that does not want their photo taken, there are 10 that do. We take these pictures at no cost to anyone and they are done to capture the moment.

We then ask the photographer to wander through the event taking a few impromptu pictures of the activities at the event. Again, many people love to have their photo taken with their friends having fun. These are G-Rated or at most PG-Rated photos. We will never take photos of anyone in a sexual or compromising situation. On the other hand, if someone sees the photographer and wants to flash the camera or something like that, they have invited the photographer to take their photo. The photographer then turns over the SD card to us (The hosts)and we peruse the photos. We look through the impromptu photos to see who might be in the background. We do know the majority of the people who have told us that they don't want to be in ANY photos and we will either crop them out or blur them to the point of being unrecognizable.

We then upload these pictures to our website and password protect them. We send out an email to all attendees to let them know that the pictures of the event are now up on the site. At this point, no one can even see the photos. Members on the site have to ask for access to the photos and only people who attended the event are granted access.

We tell everyone to check the photos that have been posted and if there is any photo that they are in that they want removed we will do so without question.

Again, only people who attended the event can even see these photos.

We have doing parties for over 7 years now and in that time we have had several thousands of people attend out events. We are happy to say that the complaints we have gotten over those 7 years we can count on one hand.

We take the privacy of our guests very seriously while they are at the Manor.

We hire photographers like the shutterbugs to take photos at our big events only. They are working for us and must turn over ALL photos to us. There has to be some trust in us as hosts to handle this part of the lifestyle while they are in our home. I believe that most people trust us to be discreet with their personal privacy and we have a very good reputation in that regard. We would expect the same thing if we attended an event other than ours.

When it comes to our regular Saturday events, there is no photographer and photos are not taken other than our guests snapping photos of themselves or friends. We watch this very closely as well to make sure we protect the privacy of our guests. If it is found that someone is not respecting our rules and policies, they will be asked to leave and may be banned from future events.

It is not a perfect system or a perfect world but we want our guests to feel safe at the LifestyleManor and we ask that if you are ever in a situation that you are not comfortable with while you are in our home, that you let us know. We will deal with it immediately!

We hope we have addressed this issue sufficiently but hope for feedback just the same.

Ross & Vickey

we'd like someone to explain the various 'membership' options. we've been to a bunch of events at the mansion and have always been asked at the front door 'are you a member?' we try to be informed, remain members of several local websites and have never seen the mansion membership explained.

we too are greatly concerned about cameras at events. we've even played cat and mouse scurrying behind people, trees and the bar, even abandoning newly found friends mid-sentence when a camera is pointed in our direction.

KANDD wrote:

we'd like someone to explain the various 'membership' options. we've been to a bunch of events at the mansion and have always been asked at the front door 'are you a member?' we try to be informed, remain members of several local websites and have never seen the mansion membership explained.

we too are greatly concerned about cameras at events. we've even played cat and mouse scurrying behind people, trees and the bar, even abandoning newly found friends mid-sentence when a camera is pointed in our direction.

Hi KANDD,

We are so glad you brought up the subject about memberships.

Utah laws are very odd to say the least, and what enables us to do what we do is a membership program.

It's the ONLY way we can do what we do.

When you buy a membership of any kind on our site, you are not buying the privilege of being a guest at the LifestyleManor. The LifestyleManor is Vickey's and My, private home. What we do in the privacy of our home is our business. If we want to invite our friends to come play with us at our private home, that is our right. Drugs are not allowed in our home and we are not doing anything that is considered illegal like prostitution or a brothel etc.

If people want to get naked and go swimming or hot tubing, that again is their business and we don't mind. We do it ourselves quite often.

The VIP memberships that we have give certain additional privileges that we will not mention at this time. The VIPs know what they get for being VIPs.

Here is a layout of the various memberships that can only be bought on the website.

1. WEBSITE MEMBERSHIP.
This membership costs $9.95 a month and it entitles the member to substantial discounts on weekly tickets to the parties each week. The discounts are as follows:

$9.95 website Members pay only $25 (Per Couple) to attend a party on a Saturday. In contrast, a Non Member would pay $40 (Per couple). There is no cost for food and beverages at any of our parties or events. (I choose my words carefully here now by saying that you do not pay for food and beverages at ANY of our events. Your hosts pay for these things)

Do the Math! As a $9.95 member, you only pay $12.50 per person to attend on a Saturday, and you don't have to pay for snacks or beverages. There is no cheaper "Quality" entertainment anywhere!

2. VIP Membership.
This membership includes admission to any event you want to attend like the Saturday night parties, the poker nights, the Massage mixers etc. The only thing this membership does not include is the 6 main events that we do each year like Halloween, Xmas, New Year's, Valentines, Summer Splash, Casino Royale and any other large promotion that we may do. Ask any VIP member if they get their values worth and they will give you a resounding "Yes". For details, you will need to discuss that privately with us.

Some of our Saturday Events have a special theme like our "Western Theme" where we brought in a mechanical bull. It was very expensive to do and we increased our price by $5 per person for that night only to cover the costs. The price for members and non members was higher by $5 each for that event only.

The cost for "Special Events" like the ones we referred to above, (Halloween, Xmas etc.) Will vary in price based on the cost for the event. Let's face it, it's a business for us and although we don't make a lot of money doing it in comparison to our efforts, we really enjoy bringing these types of events to our friends in the Lifestyle.

We have poker nights every 2nd and 4th Fridays. In order to play a legal game of poker here in the UT, you must adhere to 3 rules. 1. You must be part of a group or an association. 2. You must have monthly dues. ($5) per person, and 3. You must know everyone at the table. We have a great time at our poker nights and if you like to play poker, come check it out. Ask us for details. (Due to the holidays, the only poker night this month will be on Saturday the 29th. Mark your calendar

We also do a monthly sensual Massage Mixer on the 3rd Friday of the Month that you may want to find out about. This month's mixer has been moved to Saturday Dec. 15th because of the holidays too.

That is the membership program in it's entirety. If you don't understand something please just ask.
Thanks

Ross and Vicki Throw great parties at the Mansion. Classy hosts and classy guests.

Charlie & Kathi

SHUTTERBUGS wrote:

Your concerns are very valid, I hate being in photos haha, though I don't agree with everything you said. I think an "opt in" policy doesn't work. Here's why... In large events, it's impossible to shoot candid shots of the event, without getting some people in the shots, that may not want to be in them. Take google earth for example. It's far easier for them to blur faces and license plates on all the photo, than to mail everyone on the earth and get permission before embarking on the feat. It's easier for the venue to have a list of attendees and delete or blur those that have opted out, than the photographer trying to make sure that everyone in the shot is ok. Wrist bands or necklaces would make it easier, but it's still isn't a guarantee that there isn't on person in the shot that isn't wearing one (or not, depending on opt in or opt out rule) A lot of these photos are on the fly and not staged. So you can see how impossible it would be to enforce an "opt in" policy. The venue has to promote and photos are necessary to do that. So I am still on the side of opting out, because it makes far more sense. Because we are a diverse community, it's often hard to please everyone. The best a venue can do is side with what the majority are comfortable with. That's my opinion of course. When I am being hired to do the job, I do what the venue wants.
D

I think your explanation actually makes the rationale appear worse! If the venue states that these pictures are ONLY available and displayed to people who were ALREADY AT the venue? How then are the pictures needed for promotion? A widely accepted definition of promotion would be: "the furtherance of the acceptance and sale of merchandise through advertising, publicity, or discounting" Folks who have not been to the venue can not see the photos thus no promotion. Folks in attendance already know exactly what the party involves (and they're great parties BTW!) so no promotion there. At least one couple, perhaps more, have specifically NOT attended because of the photography that has occurred. Is there such a thing as "Demotion" in advertising?

The one and only rationale for having photographers present is simply because it's what the venue owner wants. Same as allowing single women, single men, or argumentative mouthy-assed, wild-haired redheads. Ahem. And thank goodness for that last one.

WILDHEARTS wrote:

Ok so this may be a stupid question but... I know the mansion is your home so can people only come over when there are events or can we come check it out on any given weekend?

You can come check it out any weekend.

We have an event every Saturday starting at 9:00 and every 2nd and 4th Fridays is poker night. Every 3rd Friday is the Massage mixer.

HA, Fantasyers, I beat ya to the punch and deleted my obnoxious post already!!
I do have a question. Can there be a rule at all events that the sexy men are required to check in with me personally so that I may check their attire and ... umm... equipment ... to see if they are dressed and equipped appropriately for the event?

DAMN IT! There I go distracting from the real thread again! Somebody had better spank me. Ahem.

Seriously, I really DO have an actual question, just out of curiosity 'cause I'll find out soon enough anyway, but ...

Is there a cool area in the Northern Manor where folks can ... umm ... get to know each other better like there is in Draper ? I mean not that I'd use such an area **cough-cough**, being the sweet lil' innocent thing that I am **choke-Cough-gasp**, I just had a "friend" who was curious about such things.

And (maybe you've answered this somewhere already, sorry if so) what are your policies on bringing guests, couples, or singles. We brought another couple with us last time we came down and it didn't seem to be a problem -- what if I manage to drag along an extra guy (hey, I DO have two arms ya know) they're sometimes not real popular at these things?

There. See, I really can be serious for two seconds. I'd better go now though ... two seconds are up!

WILDHEARTS wrote:

Just want to say thanks to everyone who has commented. Fantasayers, shutterbugs and all the other comments as we have never been to the mansion and have been really considering it. This thread has been a great thread in making us feel more comfortable checking it out.

WILDHEARTS.
This is exactly the purpose of this forum thread. I'm sure there are many people like yourselves that have been considering it but may have had some questions about it.

We look forward to seeing you here soon.

FORKICKS wrote:

yes except that when my mother sees us on a random google earth shot, she doesn't drop dead on the spot. lol
But I understand and appreciate your position. We can disagree without it being a big deal. We will continue to be careful. It's no big deal. Just something for both sides to consider. Common ground is easy to find on this issue.[/quote]

What position do you appreciate? Wait, nevermind we know...

We were in the photo also with FORKICKS and was never asked permission nor informed that it was posted until KICKS told us about it and also had us removed. Opt in is better for sure!

REALWOOD wrote:



We were in the photo also with FORKICKS and was never asked permission nor informed that it was posted until KICKS told us about it and also had us removed. Opt in is better for sure!

For those who may or may not be reading all of the previous posts.. The photo that Forkicks and Realwood are talking about, where they are in the background, was not taken at the LifestyleManor. Just wanted to make that clear.

Ross & Vickey

ILOVEBRABUSTERS wrote:

I've been curious about the manor but it is my understanding that single males are not permitted without an escort. I'm not looking to cause trouble, just have fun but single males seem to have a bad taste in a lot of peoples mouths. Any suggestions?

My best suggestion as far as NOT leaving a bad taste in anyone's mouth would be to go ahead and use a condom during oral sex as well as intercourse. **Blank Stare** Wadda ya'll looking at? You just HAD to know that was cummin'.

If I keep posting responses like this enough times, I'm pretty sure I can get one-a the Fantasyers to say something inappropriate too. No such luck yet though.

I guess I should be serious too. Just my opinion, but I think they answered this one up above ... just cozy up to a couple and get them to sponsor you (which means that you arrive and leave with that couple and pretty much stick with them), or ya find a purdy gal to bring along with ya. Either way, yer guaranteed to have ya'll a great time. And I've no clue why I'ma suddenly typin' western style.

PALS4FUN wrote:

ILOVEBRABUSTERS wrote:

I've been curious about the manor but it is my understanding that single males are not permitted without an escort. I'm not looking to cause trouble, just have fun but single males seem to have a bad taste in a lot of peoples mouths. Any suggestions?

My best suggestion as far as NOT leaving a bad taste in anyone's mouth would be to go ahead and use a condom during oral sex as well as intercourse. **Blank Stare** Wadda ya'll looking at? You just HAD to know that was cummin'.

If I keep posting responses like this enough times, I'm pretty sure I can get one-a the Fantasyers to say something inappropriate too. No such luck yet though.

I guess I should be serious too. Just my opinion, but I think they answered this one up above ... just cozy up to a couple and get them to sponsor you (which means that you arrive and leave with that couple and pretty much stick with them), or ya find a purdy gal to bring along with ya. Either way, yer guaranteed to have ya'll a great time. And I've no clue why I'ma suddenly typin' western style.

If it tastes like trout get the fuck out.

WILDHEARTS wrote:

Ok, another probably stupid question. Is there any kind of dress code other than the obvious themed events?

Dress as sexy as you want....Dress to impress is the best line of thinking.

Ok, so we hate clothes. Thought you said it was ok if we were the first to get naked.

Simples

Sounds like there would be two sides to that story, unless of course it is just a "story." Need to be careful of finger pointing in any walk of life.

Our 2 cents. Worth exactly - 2 cents.

ANGELS10 wrote:

Well Ladies and Gentlemen: Let me tell you the truth about the Lifestyle Manor versus the Mansion. Although the hosts are very nice people and host great parties, Mr Ross E. has actually changed the name in order to hide from authorities. You see, after offering to assist Mr Ross E. in the basement renovation of the Manor, a 5 bedroom add-on, free of any labor charges, Mr E failed to pay for the materials, a cost of over $5000.00 and he is now being Sued. Its a shame that a man that can be so nice have total disregard for someone who only tried to be a friend and help him get the Manor up and running. Yes ladies and gentlemen, Mr Ross E. is that type of person, A man who will take advantage of anyone who offers their help, and then treat them with no respect as to paying what is owed, consequently a lawsuit is now pending in order to recover costs incurred. Yes the name has been changed, because the Law is after him. Hope everyone enjoys the Parties at the Manor/Mansion, because it used to be a Great place to hang-out, until we found out the truth about the Host.

Angels10 I find you post to be suspect and possibly slander per se for the obvious reason that you are talking about is potentially a materials lien issue, which is a civil issue not a criminal issue so no authorities would be involved, so for you to say that the law or authorities is after him is incorrect and is wrong to say about Ross. Unless you can provide a civil case number then you are just talking, if their is a dispute about materials then is most likely their are two sides to the story and that should be left for Ross to deal with privately. Ross and Vicki take a great amount time and money to provide a place for us as a community to use, we should respect that and like any business they can handle the business issues privately.

Not our business. We're just here to have a good time

Now, I don

The mansion is in Draper, the next party is tonight and is the massage mixer, which is posted under the parties section. The next big manor party will be next Saturday and is XXX-mas themed.

SLCJEEPER wrote:

PCGAMMERS wrote:

hello all we were wondering where its at and when the next party or what not is going to be there?

The home page here has their events listed under local events. The Manor is located in Draper. We'll be there for the Christmas party on the 22nd

Ooo-ooo, I get to slightly correct one! SLCJeeper, yes, there's a Manor in Draper, but ALSO one in Ogden! Can I get a WHOOT-WHOOT from the North-enders out there?

Here's some of the MAJOR events that I can see scheduled (seems like there's almost some kind of event every Saturday at the Draper Manor):
"Twas the Night Before Christmas" Draper, Dec 22nd
"New Years Eve" Draper, Dec 22nd
"50 Shades of Grey" Ogden, Jan 11th
"50 Shades of Grey" Draper, Jan 12th
"SUPERBOWL XLVII" NORTH, Ogden, Feb 03
"SUPERBOWL XLVII" SOUTH, Draper, Feb 03

Like I said, the Draper Manor has lots of other things happening every Saturday--I just put the major events above. It seems like the Ogden Manor is new, and is just starting to get revved-up, so not as many smaller parties happening there yet. Soon though, I'll be at the Ogden Manor every Saturday greeting, striping naked, and totally dominating every guest that enters. Errr...that last sentence might be my own little fabrication but I just wanted to see if I could sneak it by the Fantasyers.

PALS4FUN wrote:

Ooo-ooo, I get to slightly correct one! SLCJeeper, yes, there's a Manor in Draper, but ALSO one in Ogden! Can I get a WHOOT-WHOOT from the North-enders out there? [/quote]

Ah, you got me. LOL! How could I forget the one that's closest to us. We've attended events there and love the house and the hosts Always a great group of people and always first class!

Mr Jeeper

this is a very interesting and informative post - thanks much 'cause we never knew!!! . . . and, the manor (both north and south) really sound perfect . . . because we have nothing comparable in our area, we are definitely planning a road trip . . . anywho, our question has to do with drinks, which we understand to be included with admission . . . are alcoholic drinks offered/available??? . . . or, does the manor only provide mixers for those bringing their own booze??? (utah seems to have unusual rules for sobriety-related sin, so we wonder) . . . btw, we're not interested in "whiskey dicks", but we realize a drink or two can helpful . . . thanks again!!! . . .

WEDOTOO wrote:

this is a very interesting and informative post - thanks much 'cause we never knew!!! . . . and, the manor (both north and south) really sound perfect . . . because we have nothing comparable in our area, we are definitely planning a road trip . . . anywho, our question has to do with drinks, which we understand to be included with admission . . . are alcoholic drinks offered/available??? . . . or, does the manor only provide mixers for those bringing their own booze??? (utah seems to have unusual rules for sobriety-related sin, so we wonder)

As Pandoraslc stated, when you are invited to attend a Saturday event at the LifestyleManor, all of your snacks, food, and beverages are supplied by your hosts. We can't state this in any other way because of the unusual Utah laws. We can't say that booze is free, we can't say that it's "included" because by Utah laws, this is an enticement to get you to attend an event.

So when you attend an event at the LifestyleManor it is because you bought a membership, (Temporary or otherwise), and we invited you to our "Private" home. As your hosts, we are happy to supply all of the snacks, food and "beverages" to our guests. We know this is as clear as mud.

On our poker nights, (2nd & 4th Fridays) and our Massage Mixer, (3rd Friday), it's BYOB and a snack to share.

The LifestyleManor website always has the complete Event details including Date, Time, Theme, "What to Wear", a list of the other Attendees, Tickets etc.

CANDJ23 wrote:

we have never been to a mansion party, but they sound fun...would love to attend the one in JAN

We will have several events in January that you can attend. As we stated in a previous post, we do something every Saturday and 3 out of the 4 Fridays each month at the LifestyleManor South in Draper.

Being as you live in the northern part of the valley, you may be referring to the "50 Shades Of Grey" party on January 11th at the LifestyleManor North. We noticed that you RSVPd to the event and we look forward to spanking.... er... seeing you there.

For anyone reading this post, we are doing a "50 Shades Of Grey" Event at the LifestyleManor North on Friday January 11th and we are also doing the same themed Event at the LifestyleManor South on Saturday, January the 12th. You can RSVP to the event at the south manor by going to the coming events page on the LifestyleManor website. CLICK HERE to be taken to the Coming Event page. This link is for the Event at the Draper Manor only.

You will need to sign into your profile on the LifestyleManor site in order to RSVP