I'll get right to the point ---- I am packing a few extra pounds and I am very self conscious of my body but we would really like to meet some awesome people to have fun with in or out of the bedroom. When I am looking for new "friends" I tend to look for bigger girls because I would be really embarassed to be with a tiny little girl. I wouldnt want to make her uncomfortable.
--------My question is how do little girls feel about being sexual with big girls???
--------My question is how do little girls feel about being sexual with big girls???
You are who you are and if people cant accept that then your better off. Try to hook up with who you both like if they dont respond then its there loss. Dont worry about what others think when it comes down to it personality and how you carry yourself is the big winner. What you think is more important
Well thank you! that is the way i TRY to look at it!
our feelings are if we like the female then her size does not matter, big or small
female half here has gone up and down in weight and is more worried about herself than the other female, in fact when small female hits on her she is flattered and can not really believe it.
so as long as you feel good about yourself, that is what's important
female half here has gone up and down in weight and is more worried about herself than the other female, in fact when small female hits on her she is flattered and can not really believe it.
so as long as you feel good about yourself, that is what's important
And also we both think you look very sexy and hott
I'm a big girl. Even when I'm not pregnant, lol...
To be honest, I've always been self conscious about my body not being 'perfect', even when I was slender and a competitive swimmer - even when I was in the best shape of my life after basic training!
Everyone has their preferences - heck, everyone has their idea of what height/weight proportionate means. Some of those definitions I could never hope to fit the bill, others I am spot on and perfectly fine. I'm still learning to deal with others' opinions of me (positive AND negative) and probably will be for the rest of my life.
One thing I've learned in the short time we've been in this lifestyle is that there will almost always be someone that thinks you're amazingly attractive (I think you're beautiful) and on the flipside there will probably be someone that doesn't. The key is finding people you're attracted to, no matter their size, and hoping they see you as pretty hot too. In some cases, 'settling' for someone whose pictures might not seem all that amazing to you can really pan out to be a great thing when you meet and find there's some serious chemistry that follows you to the bedroom.
I suppose I'm done waxing philosophical for now - I'm really hoping that post baby I can trim down quite a bit but even if I don't, it's a relief knowing that there ARE people out there that will find me attractive besides my husband. For me, there is one couple on here that is quickly becoming friends I'm hoping we'll meet some day. And many more I'd like to get to know.
~Ang
To be honest, I've always been self conscious about my body not being 'perfect', even when I was slender and a competitive swimmer - even when I was in the best shape of my life after basic training!
Everyone has their preferences - heck, everyone has their idea of what height/weight proportionate means. Some of those definitions I could never hope to fit the bill, others I am spot on and perfectly fine. I'm still learning to deal with others' opinions of me (positive AND negative) and probably will be for the rest of my life.
One thing I've learned in the short time we've been in this lifestyle is that there will almost always be someone that thinks you're amazingly attractive (I think you're beautiful) and on the flipside there will probably be someone that doesn't. The key is finding people you're attracted to, no matter their size, and hoping they see you as pretty hot too. In some cases, 'settling' for someone whose pictures might not seem all that amazing to you can really pan out to be a great thing when you meet and find there's some serious chemistry that follows you to the bedroom.
I suppose I'm done waxing philosophical for now - I'm really hoping that post baby I can trim down quite a bit but even if I don't, it's a relief knowing that there ARE people out there that will find me attractive besides my husband. For me, there is one couple on here that is quickly becoming friends I'm hoping we'll meet some day. And many more I'd like to get to know.
~Ang
I dont think that the term "big girl" is fair.
We both happen to be attracted to women who carry themselves well, what ever their weight may be. I myself (mR. Luvbugs!) appreciate a full figured woman. Personally, I do not find extremely thin women quite as sexually attractive. It may seem unbelievable to some people, but I would much rather make love to a woman who has a figure closer to that of my wife's to one such as Nicole Richey, or Paris Hilton.
I say that you should befriend those who make you feel good about yourself just as you are. In my personal opionion, it is not your burden to ensure that others are comfortable with your weight and size in this lifestyle. If they are interested in YOU, they should not have any issues with how you look.
My wife was once nearly 100 lbs heavier than she is today. It has taken her nearly three years to lose the weight. She is still on a mission, and has proven to everyone who kows her that she is determined to get where she wants. She has lost more weight since taking the pics we have posted on our profile since September. Doing this has been a tremendous confidence booster for her, and I have tried to support her at every turn. I know how challenging it can be to participate in the lifestyle when you are surrounded by plastic people on all sides. Do your thing for you, and fuck everyone else. Beleive me when I tell you that there are plenty of people that would get in line to know who you are, and spend an evening in your presence.
Just my .02 cents.
Luvbugs! (mR.)
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PS- A lot of the same people who did not give us the time of day a year ago are now writing us for get togethers. They all say the same thing, "You look so great!", as if that somehow excuses their superficiality. Preference is just that, preference...but be who you are because people are fickle anyway.
We both happen to be attracted to women who carry themselves well, what ever their weight may be. I myself (mR. Luvbugs!) appreciate a full figured woman. Personally, I do not find extremely thin women quite as sexually attractive. It may seem unbelievable to some people, but I would much rather make love to a woman who has a figure closer to that of my wife's to one such as Nicole Richey, or Paris Hilton.
I say that you should befriend those who make you feel good about yourself just as you are. In my personal opionion, it is not your burden to ensure that others are comfortable with your weight and size in this lifestyle. If they are interested in YOU, they should not have any issues with how you look.
My wife was once nearly 100 lbs heavier than she is today. It has taken her nearly three years to lose the weight. She is still on a mission, and has proven to everyone who kows her that she is determined to get where she wants. She has lost more weight since taking the pics we have posted on our profile since September. Doing this has been a tremendous confidence booster for her, and I have tried to support her at every turn. I know how challenging it can be to participate in the lifestyle when you are surrounded by plastic people on all sides. Do your thing for you, and fuck everyone else. Beleive me when I tell you that there are plenty of people that would get in line to know who you are, and spend an evening in your presence.
Just my .02 cents.
Luvbugs! (mR.)
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PS- A lot of the same people who did not give us the time of day a year ago are now writing us for get togethers. They all say the same thing, "You look so great!", as if that somehow excuses their superficiality. Preference is just that, preference...but be who you are because people are fickle anyway.
tell your wife congrats on loosing all that wieght she looks amazing and she is a very beautiful woman. She has a really pretty smile. Thank you for your comments and the addvice. I guess I am just a little frusterated but it is all good! :h
Being a not-small girl myself, when we started I was a little self-conscious at the thought of being in the room with a thin girl too. Since then we have played with girls bigger than me, smaller than me and some about the same size. I have found that once we establish attraction all around and the clothes come off, the fun starts and the thought is the last on my mind!
I think that "big girls" is the only way to go. I love big girls and love to look and be with them. Don't ever be ashamed of your weight or who you are inside and out. Their are people out here that love you for who you are and not how you look or don't look.
Rob
Rob
I have to second what everyone has said so far, and I (MR Lusty) definitely agree that I like to see a little meat on the bones. Little 5', 98lbs. gals just don't catch my eye like the 5'8' full figured gals do, but it is personality that is the real deciding factor for me. If a smaller gal has an attractive personality I definitely wouldn't kick her out of bed unless she was eating crackers of course,lol. I think I can speak for the both of us, and say, that how you come across personality wise, is what we look at more than anything else.
Kind of funny Monkeycpl, I was just looking at your profile and admiring your sexy pics this morning.
Kind of funny Monkeycpl, I was just looking at your profile and admiring your sexy pics this morning.
You know I too second what everyone has commented on and about. My baby is everything I ever hoped she would be and WOW I wouldn't have it anyother way. she is royalty in everyway and I try to treat her like a queen always....all ways....even in her size.
She has a great personality and that is what makes it all work for me and I have never heard anyone that we have been with complain either. :l
She has a great personality and that is what makes it all work for me and I have never heard anyone that we have been with complain either. :l
Both of us have had this discussion. We agree it's all attitude. If you're comfortable with yourself, that's sexy. If you're unsure of yourself, not sexy. Nothing is more attractive than being comfortable in your own skin. It's like wearing clothes that fit you - if they fit you, you're going to look great, no matter Hermes or Wal-Mart!
Having been a "Big Girl" in the past, I totally understand where your feelings are coming from. No matter what the size of a girl there is always that feeling that something else can be done to be more beautiful and attractive to others. Personality and confidence portrays more sex appeal than body size alone. I have lost 50 pounds and challenge myself every day to keep it off and try to lose more so that I am healthy. Healthy or not, my body may not ever be perfect. You need to do things that make you more comfortable...seek partners that turn you on and are turned on by you....There are always options. If it makes you more comfortable, turn the lights off and use candlelight, always sexy...wear a nighty that makes you feel hot...learn a little strip tease. Portray confidence and others will notice and find you sexy no matter what your size...your beautiful. T
OK, me (the MR is a tater tot, short built like a Mac truck, not fat just pack a lot of muscle on the 5'8 frame) The missus is a statuesque type 5-8~9ish (unless dressed like a cop or sexy cowgirl then about 6-2) and we are both very sports minded and very active. So, we gravitate towards like minded people, hence we seem to hang out with more in shape people.
But, what we find sexy is attitude and confidence.....period end of story. Of course there has to be a physical attraction for this whole thing to work, so some people like certain things, I have my preferences, and that is how it is. Just like everybody, they have their own tastes and turn ons. The great thing about the lifestyle, is finding out how many people DO think you are sexy regardless of size, shape, looks etc. And if you focus on the people who DO find you sexy and NOT worry about the ones who do not, well then wow, stand back and watch your confidence grow!
Like I said, we are in shape and pretty good looking, but there are people out there who have no interest in us at all.....good for them, who cares, no biggie, we move on, cause there are people who make us feel like gods and goddesses and we can always hang with them.
CRAZYTWISTED called it, very right on! And talk about sexy!!! that female half of CRAZY has a smile that can light up any room!!
CNK
But, what we find sexy is attitude and confidence.....period end of story. Of course there has to be a physical attraction for this whole thing to work, so some people like certain things, I have my preferences, and that is how it is. Just like everybody, they have their own tastes and turn ons. The great thing about the lifestyle, is finding out how many people DO think you are sexy regardless of size, shape, looks etc. And if you focus on the people who DO find you sexy and NOT worry about the ones who do not, well then wow, stand back and watch your confidence grow!
Like I said, we are in shape and pretty good looking, but there are people out there who have no interest in us at all.....good for them, who cares, no biggie, we move on, cause there are people who make us feel like gods and goddesses and we can always hang with them.
CRAZYTWISTED called it, very right on! And talk about sexy!!! that female half of CRAZY has a smile that can light up any room!!
CNK
I can identify how you feel. :-) I am skinny by any means. There are some who let my size be a factor on whether they get with us or not. As one post said I don't worry about those. I just figure that is their problem and not mine. Monkeylove looks just fine to us.
Just worry about having fun and know there are folks who don't let "a few pounds" get in their way.
Just worry about having fun and know there are folks who don't let "a few pounds" get in their way.
People are attracted to whomever their attracted to. Why sweat it? Don't pursue people who are not attracted to you, it will only lead to disappointment. I'm sure everyone here has come across someone who they were not attracted to at some time in their life.
Monkeycpl81..
Don't worry about it, all these posts are right on!
You have nothing to wory about, hon, your pictures made us say wow!
If we were closer we would be open to helping you but we are not so we will just say you are very cute.
Dawn didn't think she was attractive until we started in the lifestyle too and she was surprised at the compliments she got.
All the best
Art and Dawn
Don't worry about it, all these posts are right on!
You have nothing to wory about, hon, your pictures made us say wow!
If we were closer we would be open to helping you but we are not so we will just say you are very cute.
Dawn didn't think she was attractive until we started in the lifestyle too and she was surprised at the compliments she got.
All the best
Art and Dawn
MONKEYCPL81 looking at your pics, I think you look great. Do you have a few extra pounds? Yep. But you have a beautiful face.
For us, while the body is nice, the face is more important. But above everything else, the most important things to us is what occupies that space between a persons ears. The brain is indeed the most sensual of all sexual organs. So give us someone with a few extra pounds, but who can carry on an intelligent conversation, who has a sense of humor, and who is overall a good person at heart. Sure a "killer" body is nice, but with out the attributes I already mentioned, that body doesnt compensate (for us at least). Finally "be true to thine own self". So long as you are happy with who you are, that is the only thing that truly matters.
For us, while the body is nice, the face is more important. But above everything else, the most important things to us is what occupies that space between a persons ears. The brain is indeed the most sensual of all sexual organs. So give us someone with a few extra pounds, but who can carry on an intelligent conversation, who has a sense of humor, and who is overall a good person at heart. Sure a "killer" body is nice, but with out the attributes I already mentioned, that body doesnt compensate (for us at least). Finally "be true to thine own self". So long as you are happy with who you are, that is the only thing that truly matters.
BBW-is just that, most full size couple are the ones with personality. The Ken & Barbbie are stcck-up & feel they are doing you a favor by putting a listing on
FIrst of, this is the male typing...I will not be with super skinny women...2 reasons 1.) I prefer curves 2.) being skinny myself, we hurt each other...Believe it or not...I have a little belly, as do most people, but my hips and such will hurt hers...
ALso, if the lady is confident, she can be 3-400 pounds, and still be sexy...When a woman LACKS confidence, she can be CIndy Crawford (or insert any other woman's name here) and still be unattractive...SO as many have said, confidence and the way you carry yourself are more important than anything else...
ALso I forgot, smiles are one of the most important features...so SMILE...it also makes people wonder what you are up to
ALso, if the lady is confident, she can be 3-400 pounds, and still be sexy...When a woman LACKS confidence, she can be CIndy Crawford (or insert any other woman's name here) and still be unattractive...SO as many have said, confidence and the way you carry yourself are more important than anything else...
ALso I forgot, smiles are one of the most important features...so SMILE...it also makes people wonder what you are up to
well being a big couple ourselfs (Brian- and i love big girls) we know how it is but like what everyone else has said if ur comfortable with urself then thats all that matters...
and we both think that BBW's are hot including urself
and we both think that BBW's are hot including urself
monkeycpl
You look great ! For us its not just looks weather it be a guy or a girl. If we are atracted and they are also well cool if not we always try to remain friends. We have manny friends we do not play with that we enjoy and have had some great nights out with.
As you all can see Pat is not a small man well not yet thats another story, but I love him and think he is just great looking for a guy with some extra weight. I am the same with other girls and guys. We never go into any party or meet looking to hook up we go looking for fun. Yes when you have a connection and have met befor and plan a date with a cpl its great to know what the end of the night will hold and makes for a hot night.
Just be you and if some one does not like you in a sexual way maybe a friend ship will form. If they cant even be friends they are not and will not be worth the time you have put in to it.
DID WE SAY YOU ARE HOT! You are
Traci and Pat
You look great ! For us its not just looks weather it be a guy or a girl. If we are atracted and they are also well cool if not we always try to remain friends. We have manny friends we do not play with that we enjoy and have had some great nights out with.
As you all can see Pat is not a small man well not yet thats another story, but I love him and think he is just great looking for a guy with some extra weight. I am the same with other girls and guys. We never go into any party or meet looking to hook up we go looking for fun. Yes when you have a connection and have met befor and plan a date with a cpl its great to know what the end of the night will hold and makes for a hot night.
Just be you and if some one does not like you in a sexual way maybe a friend ship will form. If they cant even be friends they are not and will not be worth the time you have put in to it.
DID WE SAY YOU ARE HOT! You are
Traci and Pat
Although married to a slim petite girl I have always seemed to be drawn to women who are larger than notmal women. Not women with rolls hanging over but women who have actually been up to 250. One of the Sexiest women I know is about 250 but built very nicely...Sexy curves and a smile that will knock you over and a personality to go with that.. Another is not all that big but at 5'1" 160 seems larger than model material also.. This lady has enormous breasts that sit up and say hi...and I normally like smaller breasts. Another friend is about 5'10" and about 180 -200 very sexy lady... My lover is 165 and 5'7" mostly in her upper torseau...Broad sholders and quite strong... Very slender legs and hips and a relatively small behind... Mostly I think women who are confortable with themselves and nice features are extremely sexy... I always look for the smile in pics when looking at and reading profiles... One very sexy lady relatively locally is on another site we are members of and had 2 pics in her profile.. Neither pic had a smile but this lady has a beautiful face and a nice figure, although her figure was hidden in a long heavy dress. I sent her a message telling her that I thought se was a sexy lady but that she should have a pic with her smiling. She promptly added a pic with a super smile and I sent back a note saying how great that was ..She must have gotten quite a few replies since her received mail increased to over double the amount rcvd in 2 years. She has since added many pics to her profile... One of these days.. I'll travel to her town and play with this lady... Bigger women can be extremely sexy...But then there are slim women who are very sexy as well...My dad used to tell me that the lady you pass up may be the sexiest you've ever met.. or words to that effect.. So I try not to pass up any lady. I love em all..
This is all I have to say on the subject, I like a figure on a woman....boobs and butts rule. If i wanted a 7 year old laosian boy...wait..I'd never want a 7 year old laosian boy, so you see what I mean, there is such a thing as too thin...just as there is such a thing as too large. My wife was quite heavy before gastric bypass surgery, I was against her getting it, but at 24 she was tired of always being tired, so she did it. Do most other people find her more "physically " attractive now? Sure they do, but if we knew you before her weight loss, and you treated her/us badly....don't think that her weight loss has changed how we feel about you. This wasn't about anyone here...lol...that last part was just me venting....because we've all met shallow, superficial fuckers in the lifestyle.
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MonkeyCpl...you look wonderful btw
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MonkeyCpl...you look wonderful btw
Hey B you like BIG girls?
You are so funny!
XOXO------Laters
You are so funny!
XOXO------Laters
Male half here...wanting to input my thoughts. Myself, and my wife are more attracted to women with some dangerious curves. She likes an awesome chest...while I love a nice round backside. Neither of us are on the Ken and Barbie list, and would never prefer to be. Granted, we could stand to lose a little weight...but if ppl do not like us for who we are, it's their loss not ours. We're comfortable with who we are, and enjoy others company when we meet someone.
The point is...if you're attracted to thinner women, and they're attracted to you then enjoy. I don't think we would ever kick a thinner woman out of bed...or not meet them, but more juicy women are our main attraction and the ones we feel most comfortable with. The wife always fights with uneasy feelings because of her weight...but I married her because (1 of many reasons) of her curves. Insecurity on this issue (in this lifestyle) is very hard to deal with. Especially when you message countless ppl, and recieve maybe 1 in 20 responses...it can make ppl think nobody is interested. I am going to have her read this topic when she gets home from work...maybe it will be a moral booster to her as well.
MONKEYCPL81...you are very attractive, and like everyone else...if we were closer to you :z 
we would be very happy to meet you. Good luck in your search...and just be yourself and do what feels right. Once again, if you like a thinner woman (or cpl) and they like you...the battle is over, just enjoy your times.
P.S. I noticed there are many Bigger Beautiful Women making posts on this topic...and I just had to admire everyone for just a minute.
BBW are Beautiful....B & F
The point is...if you're attracted to thinner women, and they're attracted to you then enjoy. I don't think we would ever kick a thinner woman out of bed...or not meet them, but more juicy women are our main attraction and the ones we feel most comfortable with. The wife always fights with uneasy feelings because of her weight...but I married her because (1 of many reasons) of her curves. Insecurity on this issue (in this lifestyle) is very hard to deal with. Especially when you message countless ppl, and recieve maybe 1 in 20 responses...it can make ppl think nobody is interested. I am going to have her read this topic when she gets home from work...maybe it will be a moral booster to her as well.
MONKEYCPL81...you are very attractive, and like everyone else...if we were closer to you
:z we would be very happy to meet you. Good luck in your search...and just be yourself and do what feels right. Once again, if you like a thinner woman (or cpl) and they like you...the battle is over, just enjoy your times. P.S. I noticed there are many Bigger Beautiful Women making posts on this topic...and I just had to admire everyone for just a minute.
BBW are Beautiful....B & F
This is (him)writing and (him) my feelings on the matter.
We have hosted our own house parties and cohosted quite a few more for friends.
We have attended countless house parties ,both on and off premise clubs and met countless number of people.
We were both at one time the "IDEAL WEIGHT" and found out one thing in ALL of our pursuits.
ALL MEN(AND WOMEN) ARE NOT CREATED EQUAL!
We had this discussion on weight verses looks verses attitude.
We found
1. when we were the "IDEAL WEIGHT" we were constantly sick and going to the Dr.
2. when we were the "IDEAL WEIGHT" almost everyone that wanted to play with us were
were superficial and snobs and most of the women were the "Dont mess up my hair or
make up " type that just laid there and bored me and us very quickly.
3. once we gain some weight back we were sick less often felt better about our selves
4.found we got very few responses from people that emailed replies of "your are too heavy/fat for us."
5. we also found that the friends we made after the weight gain have become not just playmates but life friends.
6. we also found that non perfect bodies with great attitudes DOMINATE the lifestyle.
7.I found also that i am VERY attracted towards plus size women and found that most
men are also.
BTW From what i see of you, i would jump in a half a heartbeat if given 1/4 the chance, to be able to playwith you.
So i guess the moral of my rambling is ;BE YOURSELF
BE HEALTHY
STAY SEXY
KEEP A GREAT ATTITUDE
KEEP THOSE SMILING SEXY EYES
AND ALWAYS,ALWAYS SMILE (makes people wonder
what your up to)
The majority of men will agree if the attitude is right we will get hard in a split second and hump willing female in half a sec..........lol
From what i have read you have a lot of willing participants on this site including myself(the male)
very well i have rambled enough ( the ramblings can get long on this subject)
btw in case you are wondering:
i the male height 5'6" lowest weight 131 lbs present 230 lbs feel best at 180 lbs
she the female 5'4" lowest weight 105 present 160 lbs feels best at 130-145 lbs
We have hosted our own house parties and cohosted quite a few more for friends.
We have attended countless house parties ,both on and off premise clubs and met countless number of people.
We were both at one time the "IDEAL WEIGHT" and found out one thing in ALL of our pursuits.
ALL MEN(AND WOMEN) ARE NOT CREATED EQUAL!
We had this discussion on weight verses looks verses attitude.
We found
1. when we were the "IDEAL WEIGHT" we were constantly sick and going to the Dr.
2. when we were the "IDEAL WEIGHT" almost everyone that wanted to play with us were
were superficial and snobs and most of the women were the "Dont mess up my hair or
make up " type that just laid there and bored me and us very quickly.
3. once we gain some weight back we were sick less often felt better about our selves
4.found we got very few responses from people that emailed replies of "your are too heavy/fat for us."
5. we also found that the friends we made after the weight gain have become not just playmates but life friends.
6. we also found that non perfect bodies with great attitudes DOMINATE the lifestyle.
7.I found also that i am VERY attracted towards plus size women and found that most
men are also.
BTW From what i see of you, i would jump in a half a heartbeat if given 1/4 the chance, to be able to playwith you.
So i guess the moral of my rambling is ;BE YOURSELF
BE HEALTHY
STAY SEXY
KEEP A GREAT ATTITUDE
KEEP THOSE SMILING SEXY EYES
AND ALWAYS,ALWAYS SMILE (makes people wonder
what your up to)
The majority of men will agree if the attitude is right we will get hard in a split second and hump willing female in half a sec..........lol
From what i have read you have a lot of willing participants on this site including myself(the male)
very well i have rambled enough ( the ramblings can get long on this subject)
btw in case you are wondering:
i the male height 5'6" lowest weight 131 lbs present 230 lbs feel best at 180 lbs
she the female 5'4" lowest weight 105 present 160 lbs feels best at 130-145 lbs
Size should not be a factor in the lifestyle if you connect with whoever you choose to be with have fun :-)
Size should not be a problem in the lifestyle....sexy is attitude and if your big or small it can all be good!!!!!!!
We both think you are a beautiful lady, "big girl" or not. I think that confidence/happiness is what really separates attractive/unattractive people. I used to think that only thin girls were attractive, but I've learned over time that big girls are hot as long as they're comfortable with themselves and genuinely happy people. Saying this I have found that most are not, therfore not really very attractive.
MONLEYCPL81,
I agree with the others that smile says it all you are beautiful!!!. We know where your coming from we have found ourselfs at get togethers where the people dont even bother to talk to us because of our weight. We are both bigger people, however we have had very good experiences with couples one on one. That is when the personalities come out and they see us for what we are. My girl is pleaently plump and sexy as hell and we have allways been able to fulfill each other wants. I personaly like a meaty girl. When I was divorced I experienced all sizes of women and found that the women that let you feel and see what they really are tend to be the best lovers. I dont like women that are stuck on themselfs. However I respect the people who work hard to stay in shape and I would love to take some lb's off it just makes you feel overall better. Give us a jingle we could go out for a donut---lol not really what ever you like to do. We are into music and singing. Stay sexy girl--grrrrr you are hot.
Gig
I agree with the others that smile says it all you are beautiful!!!. We know where your coming from we have found ourselfs at get togethers where the people dont even bother to talk to us because of our weight. We are both bigger people, however we have had very good experiences with couples one on one. That is when the personalities come out and they see us for what we are. My girl is pleaently plump and sexy as hell and we have allways been able to fulfill each other wants. I personaly like a meaty girl. When I was divorced I experienced all sizes of women and found that the women that let you feel and see what they really are tend to be the best lovers. I dont like women that are stuck on themselfs. However I respect the people who work hard to stay in shape and I would love to take some lb's off it just makes you feel overall better. Give us a jingle we could go out for a donut---lol not really what ever you like to do. We are into music and singing. Stay sexy girl--grrrrr you are hot.
Gig
monkeycpl,
I was very interested to read the comments of everyone on here. I (Samantha) am a bigger girl and recently had Gastric bypass to improve my general health. I personally do think that many people shy away from people of a bigger size. I personally enjoy people who have some meat on their bones but who are active and overall pretty healthy. When I have contacted others I have received very few replies and have been told that we are not HT/WT porportionate. I did not need them to tell me that.....LOL Needless to say, when I am smaller, I am not sure I would want to spend time with someone who did not want to get to know me at 250lbs, but now at 150lbs find me worth their time.
I find people who are funny and witty the most attractive and I know that part of them will probably never change. I try and focus on personality traits more then the physical aspects as physical can change for many reasons.
Just my 5 cents ...... :z
PS monkeycpl you are very hot and we would love to spend some time with you :-)
Hots hugs and Licks,
Samantha
SamJay92392
I was very interested to read the comments of everyone on here. I (Samantha) am a bigger girl and recently had Gastric bypass to improve my general health. I personally do think that many people shy away from people of a bigger size. I personally enjoy people who have some meat on their bones but who are active and overall pretty healthy. When I have contacted others I have received very few replies and have been told that we are not HT/WT porportionate. I did not need them to tell me that.....LOL Needless to say, when I am smaller, I am not sure I would want to spend time with someone who did not want to get to know me at 250lbs, but now at 150lbs find me worth their time.
I find people who are funny and witty the most attractive and I know that part of them will probably never change. I try and focus on personality traits more then the physical aspects as physical can change for many reasons.
Just my 5 cents ...... :z
PS monkeycpl you are very hot and we would love to spend some time with you :-)
Hots hugs and Licks,
Samantha
SamJay92392
We like all people. We just find that for us we need to clik on level where we like the people and they like us. Size doesn't matter.
SAMJAY you sexy ass redhead.mmmmmmmm ........mmmmmmmm....gooooooodddd
I think that attitude and personality is first and foremost in any relationship. I'm a big girl but I truly LOVE sex and getting that sexual energy "high". Do I let my weight stop me? Hell no, I have always been "larger than life" in my attitude, the way I carry myself, the way I dress, hell even the way I speak. Its who I am...and if people don't like that, then thats absolutely fine, just don't tell me it's MY issue. If you choose not to play with me based on my weight it is totally your perogative, however you will be missing out on so much more than you can ever know. I am certain the same can be said for just about any other larger women on this site. Although I do think that some of the issues do come from ourselves, when we exude a negative self image, what else are others supposed to think? So, be true to yourself, have confidence in yourself, celebrate who you are and others will follow. When doing that, you won't have time to worry about who doesn't like you for you...you'll be too busy doing something you enjoy with those that do!
~Amy~
~Amy~
MOTORCYCLECPLE,
Thank you so much for the compliment..... I am blushing now :-)
Drop me a note and I can tell you wherre to see more of my red hair.....lOL
Hugs and Licks,
Samantha
Thank you so much for the compliment..... I am blushing now :-)
Drop me a note and I can tell you wherre to see more of my red hair.....lOL
Hugs and Licks,
Samantha
We think you are definitely HOT!!!
Go ahead, flaunt it!
Go ahead, flaunt it!
Big girls are welcome here
mr sextra here i sit here for about 20 min reading all these post and tend to agree with them .. and have yet to find an unpleasent photo amung all the photos in the profiles that had pics in them i guess what i am trying to say is what everyone else has already said just be yourself ... because mrs m you r very sexy lady if we were in yourtown or close to yourtown we would be willing to meet socially or for fun ..
Love em big!!! My baby's motto: Short and sweet, with extra meat to eat!
Ron
Ron
My wife is a big girl too.... love them with a little meat on their bones.
MONKEYCPL81... love your pictures.... they are hot
MONKEYCPL81... love your pictures.... they are hot
I do love women with "fluff" in their pillow. There's something soft and delicate and smooth about a larger woman's skin that you just can't experience with women who have no "cushion".
The real reason that I love larger women though, is because they have a better chance of understanding that it's the person inside that really makes a difference and it makes them that much more beautiful. When you're beautiful inside, you can't help but radiate beautiful outside.
It's funny, but looking at Monkeycpl81's picture, I can't help but think of Alicia Silverstone, but prettier. Is it just me? Someone tell me I'm wrong.
I totally agree with Amy though, because if a man (or woman) isn't going to play based on someone's size, then they'll just be missing out.
-Greg
The real reason that I love larger women though, is because they have a better chance of understanding that it's the person inside that really makes a difference and it makes them that much more beautiful. When you're beautiful inside, you can't help but radiate beautiful outside.
It's funny, but looking at Monkeycpl81's picture, I can't help but think of Alicia Silverstone, but prettier. Is it just me? Someone tell me I'm wrong.
I totally agree with Amy though, because if a man (or woman) isn't going to play based on someone's size, then they'll just be missing out.
-Greg
Yep have to admit I have seen some hardbody women who have a pretty ugly personality. Of course have seen some big women who have attitude I wouldn't be with either. LOL guess it all comes down to don't judge a book by its cover. I am glad the wife didn't do that or I would be SOL. LOL
Just think it is funny that a thread about people being tolerant of bigger people has quite a few slams on the good looking, in-shape people.....so are we jsut intolerant of those types or jsut sour grapes......just a question.
I can see how cnkiss might see it as slamming those in shape. And I guess there is a bit of that. You can try not to but when you have a number of people who are thin and make fun of or make unkind comments to those with extra, I guess you could have some resentment. :-) I guess the main point we would rather have gotten across was that regardless of size, weight, age, sex, race, religion or whatever, you should not judge a book by the cover. There was a couple we saw on line and passed for some reason (really don't remember why) and happened to meet them in person at a friend's party. They turned out to be delightful. The pictures didn't do her justice and he was not as big as the pics showed. Long story short we really really hit it off and left together. We had a wild time with each other for months until they moved to Florida to help her ailing mother.
A case of having judged by superficial means and found to be WAY WRONG. -)
A case of having judged by superficial means and found to be WAY WRONG. -)
Now, as a disclaimer, we do not beleive ourselves to be the Ken and Barbie type, but we are in shape and work very hard to stay in shape. Not out of vanity, but we are very active and sports minded. We like the energy and the stamina to live life to the fullest. I love to hike with my kids, swim, boat, bike etc and we spend alot of time in the great outdoors with our kids, and we could simply not have the same life if we were overweight.
So, with that said, a sample of the coments that were made that seemed to be a slam on those that choose to keep themselves in shape and prefer to play with people of the same stature.
So, with that said, a sample of the coments that were made that seemed to be a slam on those that choose to keep themselves in shape and prefer to play with people of the same stature.
Very well said cnkiss. We are all attracted to whomever we are attracted to. We shouldn't be putting anyone down because of their weight, whether that weight is large or thin. We have many friends large and small and in between, although we are "more" attracted to people that are closer to our own size, age, personality, etc. That being said, it doesn't mean that we would not be open to playing with someone that may be larger, or older, or younger for that matter. Life is too short to worry about all the people that may not like you for who you are. If they don't, it's their loss not yours.
I also prefer big girls. I think that you are hot and just from your pics alone I would love to hook up with you, I prefer the term thick insted of big girls also.
I have been with many bigger women and small ones. I like them both! It's what's inside that matters the most! It doesn't matter to me, I'm still in it to help make them feel good! In ways, it's just more to love!
I must say that this thread borders on the absurdly ridiculous.
People on "both sides" of the weight/size issue have turned this forum into a personal soapbox for their likes and dislikes, and at the same time, are slinging hard feelings back and forth.
What does it matter, if you keep yourself in shape and work out, and hike/bike/swim/golf/etc....?? Yes.. working out IS hard work, congratulations.
Just reading these posts, I can feel the emotion seething from each one. It really gets old reading forums that create new "class" divisions among us. Incredibly stupid. Don't we already have that, in comparing ourselves to "vanilla" people?
In the words of a great songwriter: "Put aside the ALIENATION... get on with the FASCINATION!" ...............thanks Neil.
So get off your collective soapboxes and just enjoy life for what it is!!
b & b
People on "both sides" of the weight/size issue have turned this forum into a personal soapbox for their likes and dislikes, and at the same time, are slinging hard feelings back and forth.
What does it matter, if you keep yourself in shape and work out, and hike/bike/swim/golf/etc....?? Yes.. working out IS hard work, congratulations.
Just reading these posts, I can feel the emotion seething from each one. It really gets old reading forums that create new "class" divisions among us. Incredibly stupid. Don't we already have that, in comparing ourselves to "vanilla" people?
In the words of a great songwriter: "Put aside the ALIENATION... get on with the FASCINATION!" ...............thanks Neil.
So get off your collective soapboxes and just enjoy life for what it is!!
b & b
what ever you think is what matters. if people dont like it thats there lose, i think big girls are super sexy ty steve
Different strokes for different folks, peeps...
A lot of women out there love big cuddly guys, and with them I'm SOL... No worries... There is an equal amount of women who are into tall skinny guys. There is an even greater group who is into people who's personality fits, and the body doesn't count so much.
Would I like to bang a supermodel every night? Sure!
Would I turn my nose up to a BBW, or a flat chested, skinny girl who had an amazing personality, sense of humor, and outrageous sex drive? I don't think so!
It's all good!
A lot of women out there love big cuddly guys, and with them I'm SOL... No worries... There is an equal amount of women who are into tall skinny guys. There is an even greater group who is into people who's personality fits, and the body doesn't count so much.
Would I like to bang a supermodel every night? Sure!
Would I turn my nose up to a BBW, or a flat chested, skinny girl who had an amazing personality, sense of humor, and outrageous sex drive? I don't think so!
It's all good!
AMEN
I get so sick of all these silly labels and have played with all types of people of every shape, size, religion, etc. I don't like putting anyone down or being put down for my body type, yet whole heartedly can say that it seems to be more socially acceptable for those who are thinner to degrade or make rude comments about those who are not thin, but the moment there is retaliation it becomes a bunch of hoopla. We are in this lifestyle to be open minded about sexuality and meet other open minded sexual folks, regardless of their size and yes I have been thin and have played with bigger folks even then because of the amazing people they are. I don't believe all thinner folks are stuck up by any means. We are all entitled to our preferences and opinions but do not believe you should hide behind those preferences so others won't think you are being shallow which is the case most of the time unfortunatly.
Kudos to those who work out, eat, right, etc. but sorry to burst peoples bubbles there are various reasons for someone gaining weight and it honestly isn't as black & white as eatting to much or being lazy as some may think. Everyone's body is different and this world would be pretty boring without diversity IMO. Different strokes for different folks, I like diversity and remember true ugliness comes in all sizes (hatred, shallowness, bitterness, etc). Love life and try and remember not to judge so easily by the cover because true sexiness is not a size but a state of mind, the brain is the biggest sex organ in the body. Don't get me wrong we all have likes and dislikes and we won't just jump into bed with anyone but we don't simply just base it all on physical attributes where so many others do. So to end this long winded statement LOL if someone who is thinner and knows nothing about me chooses to not play with us simply because I am a bigger woman we would not want to play with them anyhow because it is close minded IMO and shows a lack of character.
Happy horny swinging all whatever your preferences are.
Blessed Be,
Chrissy
Kudos to those who work out, eat, right, etc. but sorry to burst peoples bubbles there are various reasons for someone gaining weight and it honestly isn't as black & white as eatting to much or being lazy as some may think. Everyone's body is different and this world would be pretty boring without diversity IMO. Different strokes for different folks, I like diversity and remember true ugliness comes in all sizes (hatred, shallowness, bitterness, etc). Love life and try and remember not to judge so easily by the cover because true sexiness is not a size but a state of mind, the brain is the biggest sex organ in the body. Don't get me wrong we all have likes and dislikes and we won't just jump into bed with anyone but we don't simply just base it all on physical attributes where so many others do. So to end this long winded statement LOL if someone who is thinner and knows nothing about me chooses to not play with us simply because I am a bigger woman we would not want to play with them anyhow because it is close minded IMO and shows a lack of character.
Happy horny swinging all whatever your preferences are.
Blessed Be,
Chrissy
Well that is great to hear you are not stuck up and appreciate beautiful women not just their size. Thanks for the compliments I am humbly flattered.
Blessed Be,
Chrissy
Blessed Be,
Chrissy
To Monkeycple, not only do you look hot!!!! you look very sex too. If we were ever to meet in future we would love to hook up with you and you mate.
I absolutely understand where people of all sizes can find this thread a little on the irate side. I can see it myself in certain comments, and Im not saying either way is right or wrong. What I am saying is that perhaps before you get all upset about the bbw's bashing thin inshape girls try and put yourself in our shoes...for just a little bit.
Some women here have been thin, I have not. I have ALWAYS been a big girl, I am built that way. My doc says I have the bone structure thats more masculine so no matter how much weight I lose I will always be, by most standards, fat.
I peaked early, had to wear a full on bra at 8 and was a foot taller than the rest of my class. When I was 10 I looked 16. When I was 16 I looked 24...thankfully hehe now I get told I don't look anywhere near 39. I say all this to make the point that I have always been on the "outside looking in" so to speak. I never fit with those around me, no matter what group I was in. Because I looked older and filled out I was always the "chubby girl" although looking back I was healthy. Sure I loved all the attention I got from older guys and that certainly helped me develop some of my fetishes today LOL <evil wink>. But all that aside, it still took years to get over all the maliciousness and cruelty I had to deal with growing up. I did get over it and am happy now that it has made me who I am, but with that being said it does still taint the way I think sometimes. Whether I like to admit it or not. And I am sure there are others that can say the same thing, their past makes them feel certain ways about certain people...prejudice exists within every single one of us. Its how you handle it that makes the difference.
Some people are Ass-Hats, plain and simple. Whether their big, small, red, yellow, blue or green. No matter where you look there will be people who try to make themselves feel better about their life by belittling others. Tolerance isn't JUST about race and religion. Its about everything. I try to be as tolerant as possible and give people the benefit of the doubt. Thats why in my profile I make it damn clear that I am a big girl and have no qualms about it. Am I the "normal fat chick"??? Hell no, I am fucking far from it, always have been and always will be. But then that statement could be construed as prejudice as well...so where do you draw the line???
You can't. Given the past history of this nation, the way media portrays big girls, how focused everyone is on SEX and the almighty exercise dollar, you will never please everyone and very nearly no one. All you have left is your own opinions, based on YOUR life experiences, how you were raised and how you choose to live YOUR life. I try to be as open and as conciencous as possible when I make a post, but not everyone does. The point is, you can't make everyone do the same.
So, if you get upset about this thread one way or the other, please try and remember there are reasons ON BOTH SIDES as to why we post the way we do, the way we chat the way we do, the way we express ourselves. Its individualaity. Do I agree with what everyone here has said? Hell no...but I will fight to the death for their right to say it. The only caviat I would make is...try putting the shoe on the other foot.
~Amy~
Some women here have been thin, I have not. I have ALWAYS been a big girl, I am built that way. My doc says I have the bone structure thats more masculine so no matter how much weight I lose I will always be, by most standards, fat.
I peaked early, had to wear a full on bra at 8 and was a foot taller than the rest of my class. When I was 10 I looked 16. When I was 16 I looked 24...thankfully hehe now I get told I don't look anywhere near 39. I say all this to make the point that I have always been on the "outside looking in" so to speak. I never fit with those around me, no matter what group I was in. Because I looked older and filled out I was always the "chubby girl" although looking back I was healthy. Sure I loved all the attention I got from older guys and that certainly helped me develop some of my fetishes today LOL <evil wink>. But all that aside, it still took years to get over all the maliciousness and cruelty I had to deal with growing up. I did get over it and am happy now that it has made me who I am, but with that being said it does still taint the way I think sometimes. Whether I like to admit it or not. And I am sure there are others that can say the same thing, their past makes them feel certain ways about certain people...prejudice exists within every single one of us. Its how you handle it that makes the difference.
Some people are Ass-Hats, plain and simple. Whether their big, small, red, yellow, blue or green. No matter where you look there will be people who try to make themselves feel better about their life by belittling others. Tolerance isn't JUST about race and religion. Its about everything. I try to be as tolerant as possible and give people the benefit of the doubt. Thats why in my profile I make it damn clear that I am a big girl and have no qualms about it. Am I the "normal fat chick"??? Hell no, I am fucking far from it, always have been and always will be. But then that statement could be construed as prejudice as well...so where do you draw the line???
You can't. Given the past history of this nation, the way media portrays big girls, how focused everyone is on SEX and the almighty exercise dollar, you will never please everyone and very nearly no one. All you have left is your own opinions, based on YOUR life experiences, how you were raised and how you choose to live YOUR life. I try to be as open and as conciencous as possible when I make a post, but not everyone does. The point is, you can't make everyone do the same.
So, if you get upset about this thread one way or the other, please try and remember there are reasons ON BOTH SIDES as to why we post the way we do, the way we chat the way we do, the way we express ourselves. Its individualaity. Do I agree with what everyone here has said? Hell no...but I will fight to the death for their right to say it. The only caviat I would make is...try putting the shoe on the other foot.
~Amy~
We are not saying our feelings are hurt, we could really care less what people say, I was just pointing out the hyprocisy in the thread and the humor of it all.
Hello all,
Well I am a big girl..and I am not self conscience about myself. I feel this way.. I am a beautiful person.. who is articulate, very clean, sweet...and very sexy... if a person decides not to meet me because of my size..guess what?...it is their loss. I am not closed minded at all.. I love women of all races....and sizes from petite to BBW....all ages from 18 -55 and I have slept with women who, had never been with a large woman...and they all say the same thing.. that I was the best that they ever had with my tongue...and toys...so..to each his own.. but you may actually miss out on a great lover if you only deal with slim women.
Well I am a big girl..and I am not self conscience about myself. I feel this way.. I am a beautiful person.. who is articulate, very clean, sweet...and very sexy... if a person decides not to meet me because of my size..guess what?...it is their loss. I am not closed minded at all.. I love women of all races....and sizes from petite to BBW....all ages from 18 -55 and I have slept with women who, had never been with a large woman...and they all say the same thing.. that I was the best that they ever had with my tongue...and toys...so..to each his own.. but you may actually miss out on a great lover if you only deal with slim women.
Wow, sitting back and reading what everyone has been saying I suddenly realized that we have all drifted WAY the fuck off course. Monkeycpl just asked how little, as in thinner ladies, feel about being sexual with bigger girls. Now being the male half of this cpl I really have no answer for that...one, because it was asked of the ladies...two, because I am by no means a smaller guy. I am a little over 6'2" i weigh about 265 and most people would hear that and right off think I'm fat...or bigger, whichever you choose to say. Please let me say a little something about this subject....
first, Cnkiss...this is not attacking you by any means, so please don't take it that way, but if you don't mind i would like to use part of your post to make my comment...thank you...
I don't per se, work-out...not in the traditional manner anyway....I have a very physical job, which I put in from 50 to 70 hrs a wk, before I leave every morning I go to our barn and feed the animals...which anyone who has animals knows is a job in itself....6 horses, 10 head of cattle, scads of chickens, and a dozen pigs. Then when I get home from work I go to the barn and feed them again for the night, every other day I ruck the horse stalls, clean the chicken house and wash out the pig pens. Not to mention various other tasks that have to be done periodically. I also love the outdoors, I ride ATV's every chance I get, whether it be a 4-wheeler, or jet ski, go hiking and biking as often as the weather permits, camping, hunting...and so on.
Now that I have bored everyone with this, I will get to what I was trying to say....I am very active,
But I also like to eat what I want...this is my choice, anyone who knows me, knows that. No one is wrong in what they think, it's all about choices...I like women, no matter their given size, age, or race...if they have a personality that I click with, it works. If not, who knows, we may still end up friends...and that is a mainstay in this lifestyle, friendship.
Ok, now that I have spewed my mouth (probably a little to much...lol) I just have one more thing to say.......Good luck everyone, in whatever you choose, and have all the fun you can!!! Life is to short to think that any one person is better than another one, we are all the same in almost every aspect...but one very important way to be exact, we all, in this lifestyle, know that love and sex are 2 entirely different things....so we choose to share that aspect with others.
Smile, it makes people think your up to something!
James
first, Cnkiss...this is not attacking you by any means, so please don't take it that way, but if you don't mind i would like to use part of your post to make my comment...thank you...
I don't per se, work-out...not in the traditional manner anyway....I have a very physical job, which I put in from 50 to 70 hrs a wk, before I leave every morning I go to our barn and feed the animals...which anyone who has animals knows is a job in itself....6 horses, 10 head of cattle, scads of chickens, and a dozen pigs. Then when I get home from work I go to the barn and feed them again for the night, every other day I ruck the horse stalls, clean the chicken house and wash out the pig pens. Not to mention various other tasks that have to be done periodically. I also love the outdoors, I ride ATV's every chance I get, whether it be a 4-wheeler, or jet ski, go hiking and biking as often as the weather permits, camping, hunting...and so on.
Now that I have bored everyone with this, I will get to what I was trying to say....I am very active,
But I also like to eat what I want...this is my choice, anyone who knows me, knows that. No one is wrong in what they think, it's all about choices...I like women, no matter their given size, age, or race...if they have a personality that I click with, it works. If not, who knows, we may still end up friends...and that is a mainstay in this lifestyle, friendship.
Ok, now that I have spewed my mouth (probably a little to much...lol) I just have one more thing to say.......Good luck everyone, in whatever you choose, and have all the fun you can!!! Life is to short to think that any one person is better than another one, we are all the same in almost every aspect...but one very important way to be exact, we all, in this lifestyle, know that love and sex are 2 entirely different things....so we choose to share that aspect with others.
Smile, it makes people think your up to something!
James
Well hello Marina I must say what a lovely goddess you are ugh too bad we are so far away but if your ever up in Pennsylvania or we are ever in Florida I would love to meet up with your tongue oops I mean you LOL. No seriously you look like you would be an awesome person to meet, have intellectual conversations with, have some dinner and fun, and possibly some hot playing woohoo!
Hugs,
Chrissy
Hugs,
Chrissy
Well it was deffinitely interesting to read what everyone had to say. And I want to say thank you to SEXYBIWIFE for pointing out that I did ask "how little women feel about being sexual with a bigger woman" and I agree we got way off base here, but none the less thank you for all your input!
Your welcome sweetheart! I Wasn't trying to be an ass, was just wanting to hopefully help resolve that little misunderstanding...lol
James
James
We do alot big girl parties mostly at the Rooftop hotel because its a Nude & life style friendly hotel. If any cpl want to join us we are having one Feb. 25th just send us a message for the info
Big girls are ther best.There is something to get hold of.Haven't had the chance to try a big black girl as yet.Still,we live in hope
About big girls... Well first off I am a guy & yes I love the looks of small-medium & large women...Large women are & can be very beautiful in many ways... Including sexually..The picts I see here of this woman is showing her to be very beautiful & sexy...Now ...lets switch that question ...:$: What about the guy being a larger built guy...How do the women feel about that???I am 6'2 & weigh in @..... more than I should...lol.. I consider my self a well built guy but with a beer tummy (loosing that) .. Wife tells me I handle my self well as I am more broad shoulder & just a big bone-built guy...However... I find it very hard to get other womens attention because of my size....
A friend of mine whom we would love to party with & he wants my woman in the worst way, has told me that I dont stand a chance with his woman because she is not into big built men....However she would take my woman in a heart beat....
Well..... Whats the womens thought on that...:$:
A friend of mine whom we would love to party with & he wants my woman in the worst way, has told me that I dont stand a chance with his woman because she is not into big built men....However she would take my woman in a heart beat....Well..... Whats the womens thought on that...:$:
Ok we have heard from the big people we have heard from the petite people but what about us people in the middle?
I the male half is 5
I the male half is 5
big or small & As to Ds we like them all.
Replying to Studman.I am a big bloke although I have lost a bit of weight and still losing(slowly).
It does knock my self confidence a bit,but when we do meet couples we get on very well and indeed get repeat meetings
My wife is a larger lady but again not as big as some and she is self consious about it too,but the guys who meet her love her.
Indeed the people who have posted on this thread are lovely looking and have a lot to offer.
It is just a pity that some people on this site don't appreciate us a little more.
It does knock my self confidence a bit,but when we do meet couples we get on very well and indeed get repeat meetings
My wife is a larger lady but again not as big as some and she is self consious about it too,but the guys who meet her love her.
Indeed the people who have posted on this thread are lovely looking and have a lot to offer.
It is just a pity that some people on this site don't appreciate us a little more.
Are you going to the party tonight? If so, lets have a drink.
Pity we don't live in Utah.It seems to be a great place for swingers
Seems that every place is the place for swingers except southern illinois.
....size really doesn't matter LOL! It's nice to hear all the positive comments. I think that personality is key. Once you get to know someone and you hit it off, it doesn't matter what size you are. I like larger men, especially large, tall men. I better say with a 6'8" hubby!
Debbie
Debbie
Yeah but guys with a 34 waist do tend to do better than those who have a 48 1/2 inch waist. But the wife does like guys built bigger says it makes her feel more..secure.
2NUTAH has hit the nail right on the head.PERSONALITY!!
Problem is before people get to know your personality they have to meet you and some people don't go past your photos.If they don't like how your photo looks,that's it.
You can try to bring out some of your personality in the way you write your profile,but at the end of the day your pic is the first thing couples go for.
we have had a number of replies from couples stating "Not compatable"How do they know?They have never met us!!
Problem is before people get to know your personality they have to meet you and some people don't go past your photos.If they don't like how your photo looks,that's it.
You can try to bring out some of your personality in the way you write your profile,but at the end of the day your pic is the first thing couples go for.
we have had a number of replies from couples stating "Not compatable"How do they know?They have never met us!!
Good point. How can you tell from a profile and pics. Well we find that most eleminate themselves thru subsequent chat or refusal to meet in person. :-)
I realize I'm late coming into this thread, but I find it very interesting.
I'm at least equally attracted to women as I am to men. The women I prefer being with are never very thin. I like curves. Not just curves in the *right* places, but curves in general. It makes them softer, and - even though I'd have having this word attributed to me - squishier. Sexier in general, than some boney woman with her ribs jutting out.
BUT, I look at those skinny women and curse fate and my "few extra pounds". I wonder why I can't look like them - which is a stupid query because I don't find it attractive when contemplating sexual partners.
I tend to not even add the skinny people to my list, even if they add me first. I'm sexier when I'm comfortable, and I'd be so mortified and self-conscious being with someone who had a *perfect* body that I probably wouldn't be fun in the sack at all.
So I'm not ultra thin myself, but even if I WERE, I'd still prefer the fuller figured women.
Mrs. SoHotRightNow
I'm at least equally attracted to women as I am to men. The women I prefer being with are never very thin. I like curves. Not just curves in the *right* places, but curves in general. It makes them softer, and - even though I'd have having this word attributed to me - squishier. Sexier in general, than some boney woman with her ribs jutting out.
BUT, I look at those skinny women and curse fate and my "few extra pounds". I wonder why I can't look like them - which is a stupid query because I don't find it attractive when contemplating sexual partners.
I tend to not even add the skinny people to my list, even if they add me first. I'm sexier when I'm comfortable, and I'd be so mortified and self-conscious being with someone who had a *perfect* body that I probably wouldn't be fun in the sack at all.
So I'm not ultra thin myself, but even if I WERE, I'd still prefer the fuller figured women.
Mrs. SoHotRightNow
We've never been a fan of stick-figures. We'll leave those to Sally Struthers.
you know, if they dont like you for who you are as opposed to how you look, they have no business trying to communicate with you.My gal has a few extra pounds but is sexy to me and shes secure in who she is...so you go girl and feel free to say hello to us anytime you want!