MY WHOLE SOCIAL LIFE WAS COMPRISED OF SWINGING! MY FIANCE PASSED AWAY 4 MONTHS AGO. IT ALL STOPPED. IT IS DIFFICULT TO GAIN TRUST AS A SINGLE MALE.
Sorry for your loss. Perhaps swinging isn't the best thing for you right now. Just a thought.
Take your time its fun to feel the attention of others when you feel alone. It really is something most people dont really know about unless it happens to them. Everyone has a comment for anything even if they have never felt or been in your shoes.
I would not go with the same group of friends to play.....being friends is okay that keeps your sweeties memory alive. However unless you want to be put in the same place as you were with her then you do play with the same people.
Its not easy to start life over again.....My heart goes out to you......Lost my first hubby 5 years ago. Use to do all the same things until it dawned on me that I am different so changing is what happened. So you are going to find a new you through the different feeling you will be having for the rest of your life. So look for new experiences they actually make you feel alive and worthwhile. Everyone has their thing that makes them who they are.....You define who you are and swinging is something you love.....Does not mean you have to forget the things you and your sweetheart experienced together......Its just a new road you are traveling and like Robert Frost would say you are going to take the one less traveled. That made all the difference.....Who knows putting yourself out there will be the best decision you have ever made and Life continues through you and you are a swinger.....So go swing and smile because you are loved even if they are not here anymore......So let the sun shine down on your pain and make you soul delight once more. hehe
Sara
I would not go with the same group of friends to play.....being friends is okay that keeps your sweeties memory alive. However unless you want to be put in the same place as you were with her then you do play with the same people.
Its not easy to start life over again.....My heart goes out to you......Lost my first hubby 5 years ago. Use to do all the same things until it dawned on me that I am different so changing is what happened. So you are going to find a new you through the different feeling you will be having for the rest of your life. So look for new experiences they actually make you feel alive and worthwhile. Everyone has their thing that makes them who they are.....You define who you are and swinging is something you love.....Does not mean you have to forget the things you and your sweetheart experienced together......Its just a new road you are traveling and like Robert Frost would say you are going to take the one less traveled. That made all the difference.....Who knows putting yourself out there will be the best decision you have ever made and Life continues through you and you are a swinger.....So go swing and smile because you are loved even if they are not here anymore......So let the sun shine down on your pain and make you soul delight once more. hehe
Sara
THANK YOU LADIES! I CERTAINLY APPRECIATE YOUR KIND SUPPORT. THE MOST EXCRUCIATING GRIEF HAS PASSED. SHE AND I NEVER ORGANIZED OUR SOCIAL ACTIVITIES. IT WAS MUTUALLY SATISFYING, HOWEVER, WE PARTICIPATED IN ONLY MULTIPLE MALE PARTNERS.I LOVED HER VERY MUCH! I TRULY ENJOYED SEEING HER REACH THE HEIGHTS OF THRILL AND EXCITEMENT! THANK YOU AGAIN FOR YOUR HEARTFELT KINDNESS AT A DIFFICULT EMOTIONAL JUNCTURE OF MY LIFE. SINCERELY, JANERIO