Hello all!! I am going to be attending an event this weekend. My first one! I'm excited, nervous and in need of some tips from the "pros" 
. I will be there as a single female, and I'm not quite sure what to expect. I don't know much of the etiquette that goes along with the lifestyle yet, so I just need advice on what to do, how to act, and what to expect. I'm really looking forward to this event!!!
. I will be there as a single female, and I'm not quite sure what to expect. I don't know much of the etiquette that goes along with the lifestyle yet, so I just need advice on what to do, how to act, and what to expect. I'm really looking forward to this event!!!Dont touch whats not yours witthout asking first. lol
Thank you Gina!!! I'll take all that advice and use it. I'm excited to try new things, to meet some great people and hopefully gain a few friends.
CPL.. I thought that was always a rule. I would have followed it regardless. It's not nice to pet if it isn't yours or you don't get permission. That would just be rude. Thank you for the reminder though! I will for sure be following that one! ( I hope the tone you get from this is somewhat playful instead of rude!)
( I hope the tone you get from this is somewhat playful instead of rude!)Be yourself and don't be afraid to introduce yourself. People in the lifestyle are very friendly and mostly respectful.
You may find that there are groups of people talking together. They know each other from previous parties. Many of them were just like you a while ago and met the same way.
SmithNnewby is right, don't go expecting to play. Many times its just good to meet people that you may play with at another time.
Charlie & Kathi
You may find that there are groups of people talking together. They know each other from previous parties. Many of them were just like you a while ago and met the same way.
SmithNnewby is right, don't go expecting to play. Many times its just good to meet people that you may play with at another time.
Charlie & Kathi
just be your self and rock the night 
sure you will have an amazing time
sure you will have an amazing time
In all likelyhood, you'll (hopefully) be in demand.
If that's the case, don't be afraid to be picky.
Don't 'settle' if that turns out to NOT be the case.
If it doesn't feel good going in - then DON'T go in.
And just remember: you can still say NO at ANY point.
We'll all expect a full report on Monday.
lol
Have fun.
If that's the case, don't be afraid to be picky.
Don't 'settle' if that turns out to NOT be the case.
If it doesn't feel good going in - then DON'T go in.
And just remember: you can still say NO at ANY point.
We'll all expect a full report on Monday.
lol
Have fun.
Hey Gimme we will be there come find me and my hubby. We would love to introduce you to some of the nice peeps we have met so far. This will be our 2nd time at the mansion. So were fairly new also.
Blue, that's where I'm going!! I'll for sure try to find you. What will you guys be dressed as? I'll be a fairy.
Not looking for a hook up. Just reciently went to our first party. I understand the feeling of feeling nervous and a little like an outsider. Just trying to offer a friendly offer to introduce her to some of the people that did the same for us.
Slutty Vampire.. Hubby's My victim.
Amynbob- Any introduction to other people would be greatly appreciated! I'm not looking to hook up on Sat, just trying to figure out how this all works, and meet some people to help ease me into things. I want to be able to enjoy myself with people who are willing to just let me be me. I am very thankful to all of you that have commented. It really is nice to know that I'm not going to have to learn all this by my lil' ol' self. All y'all are great! Can't wait to meet some of you on Saturday!
It was a great party! I ended up having to leave early, but I got to meet some really great people, and am starting to learn the ropes. Thank you to everyone who introduced themselves last night, and for being so welcoming! Can't wait to get to know more of you!