Help. Lost my "Single Girls Are Easy and All Bi" handbook. Altho I am starting to think there might be witch hunt for the author. Anyway, that being said, maybe one of you smart in the know people can explain this phenomonon that seems to happen to me.
I'm a single girl.....mostly straight......(read not just bi selective but bi picky and have to be in damn mood....but those who know ME know what position gets me horny for the taste of a woman) and yet when I go to Habits, for some reason, not even Swingular straight girls, but vanilla straight girls seem to have a few drinks and BAM...they want to know what being with me is like. I call it intoxicated pussy syndrome. For some reason alcohol makes them crave a piece of me. Me. Which I admittedly find that humorous. I just don't really act on it.
However, WHEN I am in the mood for some girl on girl/3sum fun, and I offer a hung handsome skilled guy to the party....it's like those girls just pooof disappear. I do understand that I can always join another couple....but uh....I already have male playmate and dammit....I want to torture him...er I mean watch him getting 2 girls off. Yes. Me being one of them. (I do also have this reverse gang bang fantasy -more on that another time).
It has weirdly occured to me that the 8 or so pages of "friends" I have, only 3 are listed as single females. Yikes. I need more friends who are like me.
So what's the secret to chasing, capturing, and playing with a Unicorn? Or one of those women who have a hallpass? Just preferably available or brave enough when they aren't intoxicated....
xox
Tammy
I'm a single girl.....mostly straight......(read not just bi selective but bi picky and have to be in damn mood....but those who know ME know what position gets me horny for the taste of a woman) and yet when I go to Habits, for some reason, not even Swingular straight girls, but vanilla straight girls seem to have a few drinks and BAM...they want to know what being with me is like. I call it intoxicated pussy syndrome. For some reason alcohol makes them crave a piece of me. Me. Which I admittedly find that humorous. I just don't really act on it.
However, WHEN I am in the mood for some girl on girl/3sum fun, and I offer a hung handsome skilled guy to the party....it's like those girls just pooof disappear. I do understand that I can always join another couple....but uh....I already have male playmate and dammit....I want to torture him...er I mean watch him getting 2 girls off. Yes. Me being one of them. (I do also have this reverse gang bang fantasy -more on that another time).
It has weirdly occured to me that the 8 or so pages of "friends" I have, only 3 are listed as single females. Yikes. I need more friends who are like me.
So what's the secret to chasing, capturing, and playing with a Unicorn? Or one of those women who have a hallpass? Just preferably available or brave enough when they aren't intoxicated....
xox
Tammy
if anyone knew that secret they probably aren't willing to share it.
hahahahaha Are you still looking? lol
The phrase is really changed to BAR SEXUAL. I can go to any club and it happens to everyone who drinks not just women or singles. Everyone in the club would love to all get naked...That is the simple easy truth. Oh and if you are buying drink for them even better love comes your way....Just sayin!!!
Sara
Sara
I soooo hear ya!! I too am primarily straight....and have wondered the same things. When you know the secret, please whisper it in my ear LOL
I've heard of this "Bar-Sexual" but never see it. As a couple or as singles we don't have good luck picking folks up once alcohol gets involved. At least not people we find attractive. Good luck Blue eyes. When chasing girls I've always had the best luck planning ahead. If I expect to be horny some time next month I have to start working on it this month. Maybe it's the last minute thing that is getting you.
LOL awesome comments people. Thanks. Maybe I better stop going to bars. Seems like alcohol makes everyones sex drive skyrocket. Nothing screams foreplay like someone tying a knot in my cherry stem out of my AMF. 
Your a poet and you didn't know it!!! I soooo agree at least with my hubby he is freakin hilarious and then I put his ass to bed....hehehehe
Sara
Sara
FUCKADOODLEDOO wrote:
We haven't had to many issues finding the so called unicorn. We know lots of straight females and have been able to have 3somes with em without her and I even touching each each other or even kissing. We don't like to get the "Bar Sexual" gals cause most of em are beyond consent. What I have learned is the more woman drink the more lesbian they become and the more men drink the more they become comedians LMAO. Just my 2 cents.
Gina
DRAGONFLIES wrote:We would have to agree! We've had very good luck outside the site with vanilla women we just happened to meet, but we've met some very sweet women on here as well. We don't play unless it's invited. Be yourself, stay close, be genuine, and show them the respect that they deserve, and when they wanna hang out and play, they'll let you know. Just don't be pushy or rude, because they're in high demand and they can be as picky as they want.
The trick to finding a unicorn to play with you as a couple... Look for a vanilla girl that is NOT on this site. Your chances increase 100 fold.
Over the years, at varying times in my life, I've (he) spent my share of time in bars - on both sides.
It's an environment I enjoy - probably would even without the drinking.
But bars draw a very wide variety of people.
Example - some of the people I've met in bars
WOMEN
some of the biggest sluts I've ever encountered
some of the biggest teases I've ever met
some of the bigges prudes I've ever met
some of the worst alcohol generated personality changes I've ever seen
some of the biggest gold diggers I've crossed paths with
Some of the sweetest ladies I've ever met, just out to have a couple drinks and socialize
MEN
sportsaholics - as long as the beer flows, and the game's on - NOTHING else exists
steroids in a mug guys - a few beers and they think they're Superman - and would love to prove it
NASTY drunks - who might, by the way, be the nicest guy in the world when they're sober
the "Professor Irwin Corey Syndrome - world's foremost authority on EVERYTHING - ie Cliff Clavin
skin hounds - they're there to get laid - and it doesn't much matter with/by who
some of the nicest guys in the world - just there to have a couple beers and socialize
It's an environment I enjoy - probably would even without the drinking.
But bars draw a very wide variety of people.
Example - some of the people I've met in bars
WOMEN
some of the biggest sluts I've ever encountered
some of the biggest teases I've ever met
some of the bigges prudes I've ever met
some of the worst alcohol generated personality changes I've ever seen
some of the biggest gold diggers I've crossed paths with
Some of the sweetest ladies I've ever met, just out to have a couple drinks and socialize
MEN
sportsaholics - as long as the beer flows, and the game's on - NOTHING else exists
steroids in a mug guys - a few beers and they think they're Superman - and would love to prove it
NASTY drunks - who might, by the way, be the nicest guy in the world when they're sober
the "Professor Irwin Corey Syndrome - world's foremost authority on EVERYTHING - ie Cliff Clavin
skin hounds - they're there to get laid - and it doesn't much matter with/by who
some of the nicest guys in the world - just there to have a couple beers and socialize
4FUNBIME wrote:
Bar-Sexual. I will now steal this term and use it frequently! lol That's awesome!
It is quite funny to say to people's faces they look at you like you invented a new Idea...lol.
Go use it on some peeps will make you laugh just knowing you are in the knowing of what it really means. Barsexual can vary a bit but in the end it is the drink that kicks their ass in the end....winner winner chicken dinner!!!
AMYNBOB wrote:
I am Bisexual, love women! If I was looking for a female to play with the last thing I would want to see on her profile is strait! That may be the problem, most bisexual females don't care for strait women in this lifestyle. They make us uncomfortable.
See, and I just don't understand that type of thinking. Not just you in particular because you are not alone in that but in general. WHY does a different sexual orientation make others nervous or uncomfortable. To typecast I guess, most straight men I know feel the same about bi or gay men. Bi, gay, staight, transgendered....none of them make me uncomfortable simply because of what I read on their orientation. To me being hit on, flirted with, etc by a gay woman isnt really any different then if a man Im not attracted to does it also. If I'm not attracted and they flirt, a polite "no thank you" is usually all it takes. If I wanna flirt back or tease back so be it. I just wish straight people or perhaps ALL people would stop worrying they are going to be pounced on, molested, groped by someone with a different sexuality. If those things happen, it's cuz they are illmannered fuctards period and NOT because of the gender they are attracted to.
I'm all for honesty. I list Im straight, admit my moments when Im feeling the girl on girl, and put Maybe on the girl on girl section. That way, no one is surprised if Im all for it or if Im not. I just figure if a couple approaches me and it's because SHE is the one interested in me she knows that Im not a guarentee. Oh wait. I suppose that for the most part, none of us are just because we are here. We rely on chemistry, timing, interest, and attraction. And hall passes. (that's another vent/thread/story for later)
I just don't get the whole negative vibe over sexual orientation. Or race. Im' kinda clueless that way.
*steps of soapbox*
AMYNBOB wrote:
I understand your comment. For me, I love both women and men. So when a woman or couple say the female is straight its a no go. This lifestyle for me and my husbands is a sex toy. Sorry, as a toy if its not bi(female) I am not playing. To each there own.
Very well said.
We have met a few vanilla on other sites and brought them here, lol.
4FUNBIME wrote:
Bar-Sexual. I will now steal this term and use it frequently! lol That's awesome!
Seconded!